Chapter 1109: What to Teach
"If you don't like it, ignore them, when you go to high school and change the environment, these people may not be able to touch them. Jiang Xiaobai said. Generally speaking, primary and junior high school is the most likely to encounter nicknames, humiliating situations, children's view of right and wrong has not been established, easy to be influenced by others and follow the trend, such as ridiculing people fat, ugly, short, cross-eyed and other things often appear, the original owner has seen similar incidents when he was in school.
This situation will be alleviated in high school and college, when the children are already older, have a sense of right and wrong and morality, even if they want to laugh, they will mostly be behind their backs, and they will rarely point at people's noses and laugh at people like children when they were children.
But when it's big, there will be big problems, and it's not as serious as the small fights when I was a child.
However, don't look at the petty fights when you were a child, but because the incident happened in the most important childhood period in the process of character building, if you don't get it right, it will leave a big psychological shadow on people, and it will be difficult to break free for the rest of your life.
Therefore, as a parent, you still have to pay attention to your child's situation at all times, he may bully others, or may be bullied by others, and these things they will not take the initiative to tell their parents, they can only rely on the parents' own observation, if they find it when there are signs, they may be able to change a lot of things.
For example, when the child comes home, he is depressed, loses his appetite, and always says that he does not want to go to school, and even takes the initiative to say that he wants to change schools and classes...... Nine times out of ten, you will be bullied.
"Well, I also want to change schools soon, I don't want to see them again. Wu Han nodded.
For the first time, the little Hanhan has felt that people have two faces, and she has zero tolerance for these people, and she feels dirty at a glance.
When they hate you, they point at you all day and shout buns, when you eat they say that buns can also eat, when you laugh they say that buns are cracked, and when you walk they say buns roll up......
Later, she was not so fat, and those people ignored her.
Later, she lost weight, because her skin was white and her facial features were also good, so she looked a little beautiful, and those people came up one by one, coming over from time to time to offer her courtesy, and some people wrote small notes to her, wrote love letters, gave gifts, and called her Banhua all over the place.
However, Wu Han holds a grudge, as long as it is someone who has bullied her before, she has never turned a blind eye, even if she ran to her, she just rolled her eyes, she didn't look at them at all, and she didn't accept it for courtesy.
Jiang Xiaobai chatted with Wu Han for a while, asking her if she usually went out to play, whether she had good friends and gifts she wanted, etc., these topics would not be resisted by children, and the atmosphere was very relaxed in the process.
Jiang Xiaobai didn't say a word about her study-
Why bother?
Regardless of whether the child is good at learning or not, there will be a bunch of people asking her, neighbors asking relatives and parents, the child has long been tired of answering, and it is inevitable that there will be resistance when it comes to related questions, so if you don't want the children to hate you, then just avoid this kind of question and let the child relax.
After chatting for a while, Jiang Xiaobai let Wu Han and Dongdong play, and he went to the kitchen to help.
"Mom, did my dad and my brother get up so late?" she asked.
"Your dad went abroad to talk about business, and he only came back in the middle of the night last night, let him sleep a little longer, your brother and Weiwei went out to play, they left the day before yesterday, and they haven't come back yet." Jiang Mu said.
Jiang Xiaobai was surprised, "My dad is busy with work again now?"
"Isn't it? As long as your brother is busy dating, then your dad has to go to work. Although Jiang Mu said this, there was no dissatisfaction in her words, but she was full of smiles.
With the help of Jiang Xiaobai's Fu and the "aerobics", Jiang's father and Jiang's mother are now in good health, and Jiang's father will not affect his body even if he is busy with work.
The son has a girlfriend and is about to get engaged, and the prospective daughter-in-law is a kind and decent person, and she is the daughter of a world friend, so she can't be more satisfied.
My daughter's career is developing very well, and her personality has improved a lot, and she won't quarrel with them if she doesn't agree like before.
Jiang Mu only felt that everything was so complete, she was not a greedy person, she just felt that she was already very content to go on like this.
"It doesn't matter, when my brother and sister-in-law get married, then my dad will be able to rest. Jiang Xiaobai said with a smile.
"That's right, Weiwei is also capable, she is more reliable than your brother in her work, and when they get married in the future, then your father and I can travel around the world. Jiang's mother quipped, "But you're here, I have to call your brother and ask them to come back......"
"Mom, no, why are the family so polite? let them play, if they want to see me, they can find me anywhere. ”
When Jiang Xiaobai spoke, she thought of the first meeting between herself and Li Wei, when she was still filming in the crew, and Li Wei looked for her fiercely.
At that time, Li Wei was concerned about Wei Shaoye, but now she is about to become her sister-in-law.
It's a wonderful thing.
However, although Li Wei had such a past, the Jiang family did not take it to heart, let alone look down on her because of this.
What age is it, what is the shame of chasing someone but no result? Li Wei has never really been in love!
Even Jiang Zhiyi doesn't take it seriously, as a family member, it is not their turn to mind or not.
"That's right, you and Weiwei are also in a circle, and it's easy to meet. Jiang Mu smiled and nodded.
"By the way, Mom, I have something to tell you. Jiang Xiaobai straightened up, "I want to accept an apprentice." ”
"Huh?"
Jiang Mu looked at her with a confused expression, "You accept apprentices?"
How did she feel like she wasn't hearing clearly?
"It's an apprentice, that kid has good qualifications and is also a long-term person, so I think it's ......" Jiang Xiaobai was interrupted as he was talking.
"Wait a minute, what kind of apprentices do you accept?" Jiang Mu still didn't understand, "What do you want to teach people? How to be an actor, how to be popular? Could it be that you are the kind of class that teaches classes?"
Jiang Mu thought about it, with Jiang Xiaobai's current situation, the most likely to accept apprentices seemed to be related to her work.
Jiang Xiaobai couldn't cry or laugh after hearing this, "How can it, Mom, I don't understand it as an actor myself, and this kind of thing also depends on the right time, place and people, how can I have the ability to teach others?"
"I think so too, so what apprentices do you want to take?" Jiang Mu frowned, confused.
"It's my other skill, it's my bracelet ......," Jiang Xiaobai hinted.
Regarding the acceptance of apprentices, Jiang Xiaobai thought about it and felt that he still had to say hello to his family.
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