Sometimes in real life, I find that we always envy others every time, but sometimes I find that others sometimes envy us, and we don't know why, each of us has lived our own lives, but in the end, I found that we envy others, others envy us, it is really a different kind of life, maybe there is an illusion that this mountain is looking at that mountain.

In the past, people always told me that they were very envious of my life, but later, when I found out that the people around me, their lives are also very beautiful, but they are in the blessings and do not know the blessings, sometimes the life I want is also the life of ordinary people, and I don't know when I actually began to envy them, I remember that there is a person in the village, they are usually unknown, sometimes, they are silent as if there is no one with them, and sometimes they find that they are silent, and they have never spoken out loud, probably because they have always had their own things, and no one has invaded their rights and interests, so they have been so silent, and sometimes they find that some people have been silent, not because they are easy to bully, nor because they don't want to fight for more things, but because they are silently enjoying their own lives, and they don't want to fight for too many things with others, others have not intruded into their lives, and they will not fight and preach too much.

So in real life, I found out that they were the people of the village, the majority in silence.

They also live their own good lives, although they are ordinary people, and even sometimes, in my opinion, they don't even have a suitable and stable job, but work outside, I think a few of them chat together, chat, they can still live happily, in fact, this kind of life is very simple and ordinary, the most comfortable life, they can live like this, can laugh like a fool every time, can not worry about their current situation, sometimes, only to find that they are also very optimistic, that simple optimism。

A few days ago, I found out that their family is also very good, although they live the most ordinary life in the countryside, there is not a lot of money in the family, and their parents do not have good jobs, they are farmers, and the children are also living their own lives, and my brother married a daughter-in-law called sister-in-law.

Then they had children, a boy and a girl, and the younger sister got married and had two children, also a boy and a girl.

In fact, this kind of life is very good, many people think that it is a very honorable thing to have a boy in the countryside, but they have no job, they have nothing, but they have a child, a boy and a girl, such an evenness, is the envy of others.

Maybe they don't realize the happiness of their own life at all, they have always been envious of other people's lives, but I also found that I envy their lives that night, being able to be together as a family, being able to live happily and happily, not in the richness of life and the amount of money, in such a life, they are all a family, sometimes, seeing their happy smiles, is the life we envy the most.

In fact, in real life, some people experience the payment of life, I will feel the happiness in life, and in these rural farmers, they are not rich, they are ordinary peasant families, no one is much better than the other, everyone is similar, they are living such a life, but even if they are like this, living a thrifty and poor life, they are still very happy, sometimes they can live very happily, it is very good, and sometimes, we find that there are a lot of rich people, they also have a lot of troubles, so we should understand that the amount of money and the happiness and happiness of life are not proportional to it at all。

In an inconspicuous moment, I gradually began to envy the lives of others, this may be the beginning of my own decadence, in the past, how did I not find myself envious of other people's lives?

But one afternoon a few days ago, such envy of others, in such a moment there is such a feeling, maybe this feeling is just my own momentary feeling, but it has affected me for several days not in the mood, in these days, I have been thinking about such a thing, why do I envy such an ordinary person for no reason, in fact, I am also an ordinary person, I can live happily every day, I can live a peaceful and ordinary life in my life, it is enough.

Isn't my life very good now, I can happily see the smiles of my relatives every day, as I said at the beginning, I can see the smiling faces of my relatives, and I am happiest to be able to live with my relatives!

In fact, some time ago, I also read the words I wrote before, and saw my own standards for myself, that is, to live with my relatives, to be able to see the smiling faces of my relatives, to be able to be with my relatives, but my own desire has been easily achieved, why do you suddenly start to envy other people's lives?

Sometimes it's not because of how good other people's lives are, but because they suddenly don't know how blessed they are, when they have such thoughts, is it a kind of cherishing the beginning, in fact, we still have to cherish the current life, cherish the moment in front of us, cherish what we have at the moment, and then envy other people's lives, I can't go into other people's lives, other people's lives are still other people's lives, and I just envy for a while, there is a little bit of sadness in my heart, and a little bit of heartache, in addition to that, it is just a little bit of feeling at the time, and time has passed, or will be numbed by such a feeling!

In the face of such feelings, I realized that I actually envy other people's lives and envy other people's very ordinary existence.

So when I wrote so much, I still said to myself, I envy what others do, I am also as ordinary as leaves, as ordinary as grass.

To be an ordinary person, to live an ordinary life, in every moment of every day, between 24 hours of every day, such a life is the best life, and it is enough to have such a life, and you don't have to envy others so deliberately.