You're married!

When I added a comma in the middle of this topic, I fully expressed my surprise, I remember a few years ago, I don't know when, because I once wrote an article called "The Love of Little R and Little S".

Because of such an article, it is inconvenient to write the name, so it is written as a small R and a small S with letters, but the content of the article is about the same as real life.

Because in a short period of time, I have changed jobs several times, and I no longer work in the original place, and I also knew what happened in the local area at the time, and I didn't know later, I don't know what the result was, I don't know.

But then I heard that they were actually married, and sometimes I found out that when I heard the news, it was a kind of surprise, or some other feelings, or what kind of expression, I really couldn't understand.

At that time, Xiao R was a married man, and Xiao S was a single person, but Xiao S and another colleague, she originally wanted to seduce another colleague, she once wore pajamas to another colleague's room, but that colleague was not moved at all, but I don't know why Xiao R was actually moved, for such a girl, in such an environment, they can still be together, that is to say, before Xiao R divorced, they were already eating together, shopping together, together, living like a husband and wife, sometimes only to find out that there are many juniors in real life, and I don't know why, What do they fancy, some mistresses are for money, and some mistresses are not for money, but such hooking up with a married man, before we always felt that this married man was just playing with this girl?

At that time, there were many people in the unit who knew that there were also a lot of bad influences, but later we found out that they were actually real, and later when they got married, we found out that they really loved each other, and only to find out that if they didn't love each other, would they be able to combine and marry again?

Seeing such a news, we were really speechless, because at that time, no one was optimistic about these two people, and everyone thought that they would not be together, but then they were really together, and they got married, bought a house, and bought a car.

When encountering such a thing in real life, the man's ex-wife may be the most hurt among them, they have already hooked up, in such a day when someone is hurt and someone is sweet, in the face of such a reality, we really can't say too much, because real life doesn't know how it will develop, who will it favor, who will it prefer?

But then I saw such an incident happening, I think that his ex-wife could only leave silently alone and find a partner again, and such two people have been together since the beginning, and then the two really got married. Giving birth to a child always makes us feel that there are incredible ingredients, but when we hear such a news, although we always feel that such news, for us, there are always some inappropriate ingredients, but they are actually married like this, then bless them, sometimes only to find out that some people are like this, if after marriage, there are children, or to be extremely cautious, after all, marriage is not child's play, if there are no children, I think between these adults, whether it is this and that combination or that and this combination is okay。

Because in today's society, after all, marriage is free, and everyone has the right to choose each other, but in front of such a game between adults, children are always innocent.

So sometimes, when those adults are having fun, they are with this and that, and sometimes some people have several young partners, and when they play with each other like this, remember that if there are no children, then whatever you want, anyway, you are already like this, but if there are children, I think, whether it is cheating or divorce and marriage again, or have any other ideas, you should carefully consider the opinions of children.

Some people's minds I really can't think clearly, because, when some people have several children, they will still choose to divorce and be with a new person, and be with the object they like, I don't know how much contradiction there is between them, if at the beginning of marriage, there is a big contradiction between you, then don't have children or sometimes, he will always say that when he first got married, he didn't find that the other party has too many shortcomings, but after marriage, he finds that the other party has a lot of shortcomings, many people are like this, when they first met, they always presented their good side to each other, and hide their own shortcomings, so some people have known each other for a long time and have not found each other's shortcomings, after getting married, slowly two people live together, not like the original love, just so simple, just so casual, only to feel that life can not go on, the original vow, what swearing?

In fact, sometimes, we still have to make a careful choice before getting married, sometimes, you can expose some of your shortcomings to the other party, to see if the other party can accept your shortcomings, some people can accept your shortcomings, when accepting you as a person, he can accept your shortcomings, accept your advantages, and be able to accept all of you.

Why do some people only accept the advantages but not the shortcomings? When you show the shortcomings, that is, when they explode, some people are always like this.

Therefore, before getting married, just plug in your eyes, find a good partner, and be able to live a stable life, which is the best result, and sometimes you find that the marriage is not smooth, which is more sad than anything else.

In the face of such a reality, when I heard that you are married, I really want to wish you a happy marriage, I wish you can be together forever, happy forever, and never be separated again in this life!

In fact, people go back and forth for a lifetime, and they are with this for a while, and they are with that for a while, and there is no point in being with them, all people are not much different, so I wish you a happy marriage, a happy newlywed, and a happy forever.