Chapter 917: Self-blame
The words of the intermediary made Shen Quanjun more and more curious about Chen Xing's grandfather Liu Dongxue, since he came, he also wanted to know more about the situation, so he stayed there for a few more days, and inquired about Liu Dongxue's personality in many ways.
After understanding it clearly, he was full of respect for the brigade secretary at the grassroots level.
The people in Xiaota Village said that since Liu Dongxue became the secretary of the brigade, he has been pragmatic and hardworking, dedicated to the public, and led the whole village to open up wasteland and farm land to raise livestock, and everyone's life has improved day by day.
Within a radius of dozens of miles, Xiaota Village has always been the richest and best place, although their village is very remote, but the young men in other villages are proud to be able to marry the girls of their village, and the young men in Xiaota Village are not worried about not being able to marry a daughter-in-law.
To what extent is Liu Dongxue's prestige? Shen Quanjun said: In fact, many people in the village knew about Yuehe's unmarried pregnancy, and the county seat was so far away from the village, and in particular, she died so miserably in the end.
But the people in their village consciously concealed the matter, Shen Quanjun inquired about dozens of people in Xiaota Village, but did not hear a word about Yuehe's pregnancy, and the people in the village said that she had liver disease and unfortunately died in a car accident.
He still heard from the woman who married outside the neighboring village of Xiaota Village, and heard that Yuehe had two corpses and two lives, and she specially went back to her parents' house to ask about it, and her father and brother asked her not to talk nonsense, and warned her that the branch secretary and the family are all good people, and that his family has suffered such a catastrophe, which is tragic enough, so don't put salt on the wounds of the branch secretary's family.
Shen Quanjun said: "I was very shocked at the time, how popular is this? If our cadres have this Liu Dongxue's spirit of hard work and prestige, what can't they do?"
The crowd was silent.
They are all social elites to a certain extent, and they naturally understand that in a vast land, far away from the rivers and lakes, there are high-ranking people everywhere.
But many times, they repeatedly underestimate the people and things outside the temple.
A person who is down-to-earth and can make a difference in any position is the real backbone of our country.
And Li Muyu's feelings are more profound than others, he is a hard-working and fearless person, and what he likes is also a down-to-earth person who faces difficulties.
He was very proud that his lover back then, although from a humble background, was a person who was determined to be useful to society and a woman who could be a good wife and mother.
Hu Yalan felt ashamed, he couldn't stand this upright old man, he was the one who brought Yuehe to the capital, but he didn't give her enough shelter, especially knowing that she was unmarried and pregnant, and her situation was worrying, but after she returned to her hometown, she didn't pay attention to her anymore, causing her to be plotted and die......
After learning that Yue Heheng died, he asked his old subordinates to explain and apologize to Liu Dongxue, according to the feedback of the old subordinates, Liu Dongxue's attitude at that time was very indifferent, and he knew that Liu Dongxue blamed him in his heart.
Alas, in his lifetime, if he could have a trip to the old district, he would definitely find Liu Dongxue's home in person, apologize in person, and beg for his forgiveness in person.
Shen Quanjun continued: "I realized at that time that the life realm of this village party secretary is much higher than mine, and his daughter, who is stronger than Shen Jiaying, is probably the tutor and character, and now I see Chenxing, this girl with the same background and growth environment as her mother, give her a platform, she can be so dazzling, I firmly believe this."
The in-laws know very well that there are seven brothers and sisters in Jiaying, and the brothers and sisters above her are very competitive, but she and Jiawen, as the youngest sons and daughters of the family, when they were young, our husband and wife couldn't help but be isolated and worked in different places.
Later, when we came back, they were already teenagers, and we felt that we owed our children, and we doted on them extraordinarily, and finally spoiled the children completely, and all the tragedies that followed were born from this!
It's ridiculous that I didn't know it until today, when I saw the morning star, I thought of Liu Dongxue again, and I really realized that the education of children, knowledge education is only the end, character and pattern are the fundamental, a child who has not kept up with family education, no matter how much knowledge he learns, is also a waste product of society!
Shen Quanjun's words were sincere, which made Li Boxia respect this old partner again, as a person of the same era, he could understand what Shen Quanjun and his wife did back then, who thought about the suffering of their children and did not make up for it?
And letting Li Muyu marry Shen Jiaying was not a problem for Shen Quanjun alone, he himself was in favor of it back then.
Shen Jiaying is ignorant and has a poor pattern, isn't Li Muyu too willful?
In the third generation of the Li family, Li Mulin's children are all outstanding, the reason is that Li Mulin married a good wife, Feng Lanxin is impeccable in character and morality, and she herself is Kochi, her vision and vision are broad enough, and she is willing to accompany her children patiently, so the three children are all successful.
And what about Li Muyu? Knowing that Shen Jiaying is short-sighted, thin and talented, and can't teach children well at all, but because of the hatred for her in her heart, she doesn't go home all the year round, and lets Shen Jiaying grow up with her children, so that Li Sihan and Li Siyi, two children who were originally talented, have a lot of deficiencies in personality.
The in-laws criticized themselves so deeply, how could Li Boxia not know to reflect: "Old Shen, you blame yourself like this, but it makes me embarrassed, the past is not the fault of either party, Jiaying is ignorant, but if it weren't for Li Muyu being too willful and conceited, how could the relationship between the two of them be so bad for a while?"
In this regard, we all have a lot of lessons to learn, fortunately, God has eyes, so that Chenxing met Su Yue, and indirectly brought the child to us, Jingchuan, our two families are very grateful to you and the couple, come, Mu Yu will give me a few glasses of wine on my behalf Jingchuan. ”
Li Muyu listened to his old father, and toasted Su Jingchuan six glasses of wine in a row, Su Jingchuan did not shirk, and after drinking, the two touched a few glasses of wine, which reversed the atmosphere on the table.
After eating, Shen Quanjun discussed with Li Boxia: "The evil that Shen Jiawen did back then brought so much harm to the Liu family, our family has always been uneasy, the deceased has passed away, and I can only think of a way to make up for it with money, but because the Liu family refuses to accept it, I have never given this money out."
Now that Chenxing is here, she married into the Su family, we didn't know it at the time, but now we know, I want to make up a dowry for the child, and express a little bit of our heart, do you think it's appropriate?"