Only experience can be experienced
When I got on the bus, this car was also very strange, but this is not the crux of the problem, this car is the car of the destination I went to, I know that I can reach it by taking this car, but when I got on the bus, I found that in addition to the driver and the conductor, I was the only one, I was also very puzzled, so I asked casually, I said, XXX place, to the end?
And they said, Ah, there it is. But I was also puzzled, I don't know what the situation is, it was obvious that it was more than four o'clock in the afternoon, and it was not yet dark.
Their answer is that at this point now, there are not many people in the car, the number of times I take the car is limited, of course, I don't know whether there are more or fewer people in the car at this point, this is just what they say, I also believe it like this, just sat down, I chose a seat near the window, but when I sat down and wanted to open the window to breathe, who knew that I was too strong, the window was opened smoothly, and because of this action, I hurt the nail of my thumb, it hurt very painful, I called out at that time, the conductor was very close to me, just glanced at me by the way, I then had a very painful expression, and my brows were furrowed, but in this case, I also found that they didn't speak, and I didn't look like I was deliberately looking for trouble, so I didn't say anything, and I didn't make a sound, just feeling the pain, and I really felt it at this time, when some children fell, when they just fell,
"Wow" cried, this moment when I was just hit was really too painful, but as time went by, I found that the pain was reduced a lot, and it didn't even hurt at all, and the rest was a long time of numbness, the fingers were wooden, and there was less tactile sense of touch, so I didn't dare to touch it, I also thought the same, if I hadn't been hit like this this time, I wouldn't have understood the pain when the child fell, it was really unbearable.
It hurt all the way, and when I got out of the car, all I had left was a dull pain, and it wasn't as painful as it was at the beginning, and I was walking and shopping like before.
Also, one person I have always admired, is the Mingyu writer on our website, the book he writes is about 9,000 words updated every day, I remember once I went to see it, it was updated for more than 300 consecutive days, and there were moments of habitual outbreaks, I realized that in fact, this really requires amazing perseverance, because I also asked myself like this, and it was also with my own efforts, when I had been updating for more than 150 days in a row, I found out, oh, God?
Because of a momentary negligence, one day I forgot, only I know if I have experienced it, it is not easy, I have not experienced it, how dare I comment, I myself am also so insistent, but I want to compare with him, it is really far worse, so when I understand this, I should learn like him, only after experiencing it will know the difficulty.
I'm also a fan of him, although I'm not a big fan, not as focused as some of his fans, but I've been following him, paying attention to his updates and his texts, as well as all his dynamics, and I've always admired him as a person during this time.
People who admire him, admire his works, admire his perseverance. I was also curious just now, and when I went to see his work again, it was actually updated for 449 consecutive days, which made me speechless, and I could only leave two words, admire!
Admire! It's the same in life, there are a lot of things, if you don't experience it yourself, you will never understand the taste, for example, sometimes, when we go to see other people's works, we see other people's opinions, sometimes we also strongly disagree, sometimes we will say, I and his ideas are not different at all, why do I have such different thoughts, maybe it is because the experience is different, some people think like this, some people think like that, if you don't experience it, how can you have such a deep understanding?
This is my idea, I was also deeply impressed by such a point of view, at the beginning, I did not agree with the point of view, but when I did the same thing, or had a similar experience by chance, I found that it was indeed like this, I did not agree with it at the beginning, but my own ideology did not reach such a state, I can only explain it like this, I can't say anything else, that's all.
In children's lives, sometimes, they want to do something we don't expect, in fact, when they do do it, they still think that we won't know, how can we know?
But then they will be dumbfounded by the fact that we know everything, because we have also gone through such a stage of growth from childhood and adolescence and youth, and we can guess a lot of their psychological patterns, which is why we can still figure out a lot of their psychology, this is the reality, and the games they play, we often played when we were young, and once they were playing, I joined them like this, and they were surprised and said, you actually play like this, I said how come I wouldn't, I often played like this when I was young, the same as you。
It's just that when I'm now, sometimes I don't want to play like this, or sometimes I don't have time to play like this, I still will, which will really surprise them, but there is nothing else, sooner or later it will be like this, when they grow up, they will also recall those toys and interesting things when they were young, and there will still be some different feelings.
Sometimes, those words are really so pale and powerless, although what you say is right, but not necessarily profound, and the real experience will know the taste, the taste, only you know.
And all your experiences are not experienced by others, and no matter how vivid you tell them, it is just a very beautiful story for them, and they have never experienced it profoundly.