First snow of 2017 (1)

When I got up yesterday morning, it was snowing, the weather was very cold, I got up when it was already 7 o'clock in the morning, and it was already class, at that time, but my younger sister had already sent the child to school, she got up earlier than me, and then I thought, in fact, I still have to go to school every day, so I just get up a little early every day and let her go with me, so that it will be better.

In fact, every morning, I always take my little nephew to school with me, because she is in the same school as me.

But then her mother came back during this time, and then every time her mother went to send her to school, and then I could sleep lazily at home every morning, in fact, it was also good, because she was the mother of the child should fulfill the obligation of a mother, it was her own child, she should also be better to the child, so that there is some family affection, the child is like this, every time she lives with whom, she will have feelings for whom, and those who often go out to work are like this, every time she goes out to work, she feels that the child has been at home with the grandparents for a long timeIn fact, sometimes I also want her to have a better relationship with her parents, and sometimes I will do something proactive, saying that she should call her parents or give a small gift or something.

In fact, this child is still quite sensible, although she has always grown up with me and my mother when she was a child, and her parents have been working outside, but after a long time, I found out that in fact, her relationship with her grandmother is still very good, and the relationship with me is also very good, because she often lives together, and the relationship with her parents is not so deep.

Because often not together, is an occasional phone call, sometimes buy a dress for the child, or come back to buy a gift during the Spring Festival, in fact, I think family should still live together, so that the relationship will be deeper, although every day to face a lot of quarrels and other messy things, but there will still be a lot of feelings inside, and always outside, although the salary is higher, but but can not take care of their own family, can not take care of their mother, can not be a filial child, in fact, over the years I have also realized that they often work outside, two people togetherIn fact, sometimes my mother doesn't care much, she just wants to earn more money outside to support the family.

But after a long time, I found out that I really can't take care of my family, I can't honor my mother at home, sometimes I find that my mother is old, or my relatives can be around better, but forget it, they can take care of themselves outside, and my mother doesn't want them to come back, sometimes it's like this every time, parents always don't think about themselves, they always think more for them, so it can be regarded as the best education for children, in fact, whether you are 30 years old or 40 years old or 50 years old, you will always be like a child in front of your parents。

Every time your parents care and take care of you, every time it's like this, they are always so considerate, all so selfless dedication, sometimes only to find out what the family says, they often say when chatting with people, a parent can support a dozen children, and a dozen children can't support a parent, what is the reason for this?

It is because of the problem of how much to pay, parents can do a lot of things for their children, and children do not know how to honor their parents every time, I think we should still learn a little gratitude, and this is not just to say every time, but to do in practical action, in fact, it is easy to say, but it is difficult to do, every time I say that I want to honor my parents, but I actually do very little, every time my parents pay more to themselves, and they pay less, or every time they are always enjoying the thoughtfulness of their parents, the care of their parents, and the labor they payIn fact, their own comfort is based on the efforts and hard work of others, so they will feel so comfortable, in fact, who likes to be diligent, they are forced to be so diligent, and they are the same at home, why are people diligent?

Because you have to take care of your beloved, you have to take care of your children, so you pay more, I think those who are very diligent, because they really understand love, so they are diligent, and they are so lazy, maybe they really don't know how to be considerate of others, take care of others!

In fact, sometimes I find that I do very little, or my mother cooks every day, and my mother does housework, and I just go to work and do my own things, and rarely do something to make my mother happy, but every day when I chat, I can hope that my mother can be happy.

During this time, I also found that my mother was different from before, and my mother always didn't want to learn how to play smartphones and so on, but later, it was also during this time that she somehow became interested and began to want to play smartphones.

As long as she's happy, it doesn't matter if she learns or not, she wants to learn smart phones, she doesn't want to learn, in fact, I think she's so old, how happy she should be, and I don't want her to learn knowledge every time, I don't want her to spend her brains, sometimes I want to let her worry about it, don't be so overworked, it's a good choice.

And sometimes she says every time I say I don't want to teach her anything, in fact, I think she is almost 60 years old, not the age to learn knowledge, and she is originally a rural woman, or to enjoy her old age, and these things need to be done, let's do it, it would be good to be able to honor my mother.

And she told me some time ago that she wanted to learn to ride an electric car. It's true, if she learns, she can pick up and drop off children like this, and it's very convenient to go anywhere by herself, but then I thought, in fact, she still doesn't want to learn better, because, if the elderly ride a bicycle, sometimes it will cause some unsafe factors because of carelessness, in addition, if she can't ride, so she doesn't have to worry about it, every time she wants to go anywhere, I can take her on a motorcycle, so that I can take her in front of her to serve her, isn't it good?

I don't want her to be old now, and then toss like this, in fact, when people are old, they should know how to enjoy some life, and they should live happily, instead of taking risks like this every time.