In society, what are the rules, in the previous years, I always felt that I didn't understand the rules, and I always hurt a lot of people unconsciously, this is the meaning of my first text, but then I slowly understood, what are the rules?

Those who have the ability make the rules, and those who are not able abide by the rules and do according to the rules, the rules are only the shackles of some people, but they are also the means of some people.

When we survive in society and gradually understand the truth, we know that the truth is like this, some people, they are very capable, they are the makers of rules, they can make some rules, and some people, they don't seem to have any ability, so they can only do it in their lifetime, according to the prescribed rules, live according to the prescribed rules, to live, this is my understanding.

They will also be considered to live like ants, their ability is very small, and they have no ability to resist, so they have been living with a fixed mindset and pattern.

I remember when I just graduated, I always didn't like to listen to my parents, I always felt that their words were not completely correct, because they were already in their 50s, they were still living silently, they didn't have their own careers, and they didn't have anything they were passionate about, so it was so bland, and then I found out that I really didn't agree with their views, what I want to say is that if their views are really the most correct, they are already wealthy, they are already rich, but they don't, they are still poor and plain life, and then I slowly found out that although they are very ordinary people, the reason why they live a dull life, not only because they are incapable, but also because they hope that they can spend their lives plainly, and even hope that we can spend our lives plainly, it is not bad to be able to live such a stormy and stormy, and I also find that some of their views are correct, because they have decades of accumulation, to put it mildly, that is, they have eaten more salt than you have walked, and they will give you some reasonable advice in many cases.

So their lives, although plain, but they don't have the ability to become the maker of the rules, but they are willing to live an ordinary life, willing to spend every day ordinary, I also gradually understand that no matter the children from any family, they are greatly influenced by their parents, and the influence of the family on them has always been imprinted on their bodies, so it has always existed, so I also found that after the Nuogan year, I will still be willing to be a rule-abiding person like my fathers, rather than a rule-maker, what is the reason, that is, because I am not capable, and then what？

When you don't have the ability to work hard for a long time, you will still have a feeling of resignation, or you will let your heart return to peace, just like this, you have been living a peaceful life, willing to be an ordinary person, just like this, you have always obeyed the rules, know how to abide by the rules and live, it is also a good way to live, and it is also a kind of face and persistence in life!

Life is inherently very short, in this short life, even if we don't have the ability to be the maker of the rules, we can only be the stickers of the rules, but we can spend our lives happily, it is a good choice!