We have heard a lot of opinions about left-behind children, and we have read a lot of articles about left-behind children, but I later found out that I also have a lot of feelings about left-behind children, so I will write my own feelings below.

In fact, about left-behind children, I want to say that many parents now go out to work in order to make money, they are in order to make their lives better, in order to give their children a better life, but sometimes I find that about part-time work, we do not have a lot of factories in the local area, so they can only leave their hometowns to work in other places, but such a way to work, if their children are also taken to study in other places, the cost is a lot, they feel that it is not cost-effective, so the best way is for both parents to work outside, and their children have grandparents at home, and some even grandparents are taking care of them。

In fact, regarding the definition of left-behind children, if one parent works outside, even if they are left-behind children, and both parents are working outside, they are also called left-behind children.

Because such left-behind children have always been taken care of by grandparents or grandparents, therefore, there are inevitably some deficiencies in care, especially some grandparents, in the eyes of others, can only take care of the child's food and clothing, and even sometimes, not to mention the ability to tutor children homework and so on, there are some dissatisfaction with health alone, especially when you compare and find that parents take children at home, people with children wear clothes that look good and clean, and grandparents take children with clothes, the clothes they wear are not as good as the clothes worn by parents with children, and there are no clean clothes worn by parents with children。

In fact, this has slowly become a common problem, although many people are also aware of the existence of the problem, but they have not corrected it, because they still feel that it is very good to work outside to make money, which is what should be done.

Because of the part-time job to make money, so put their children at home by grandparents or grandparents to take care of, in this way, after a long time, I found that many children not only have poor academic performance, but also because of some other reasons, there may be some deficiencies in the character, this is a conclusion from my observation of children in recent years, so I don't know what to do, in order to let the child develop in an all-round way, this is really a reality that can not be ignored!

However, when it comes to left-behind children, it turns out that many parents don't want to solve such problems at all.

I remember the last time I met a parent, his child's grandparents said to let the child's mother come back to take care of the child, because, his child's recent academic performance has regressed, but his mother said that she can't tutor the child's homework if she comes back, because she also feels that her education level is not high, can not tutor the child, but after such a refusal, she has been working outside, and her child's academic performance gradually declined, from the top student to the ordinary student, and finally to the poor student, such a phenomenon is a lot, in fact, I also think that there are many similar things, especially an example like thisIt is our living reality, the reality that many of us can see, but about left-behind children, I really don't know how to solve such a problem, and I don't know if there is a way to get the best of both worlds, so that parents can take good care of their children, and they can also earn high wages, maybe this problem is really a dilemma, it is difficult for us to solve the problem, especially in a place like ours, many people have no place to work, there is no place to work to make money, they only go to the field, go to a lot of factories to make money in order to support their families, and in such a situation, sometimes only to find that the child's education problem is gradually delayed, is affected.

On the one hand, the relationship with their parents is getting weaker and weaker, and on the other hand, in the process of getting along with their grandparents, many grandparents love their grandchildren very much, so they are not willing to beat and scold their grandchildren, and they are not willing to let their grandchildren suffer a little grievance.

So in the whole process, there are a lot of shortcomings, they can only solve their grandchildren's food, clothing, housing and transportation, and the rest have no time to take care of them, or even can't take care of them.

And sometimes they don't know the test questions in children's books at all. And children's learning is not helpful at all, and this is the lack of education in our rural areas.

I think in the city, it may be much better than our rural education, first of all, their grandparents may be better, and more in the city, many people are working locally, their parents can take care of all aspects of the child's growth, and even help the child's homework when they get off work, so it is a good choice, such a family born children, I think it may be a little better, than our left-behind children here will be better, however, sometimes I find that there are a lot of such left-behind children, causing their current situation, not only their parents, but also because of their grandparents！

Sometimes I find that there are still many benefits to working locally, in addition to being able to take care of children, pick up and drop off children, but also be able to get along with children in ordinary time, and cultivate the relationship between children and parents, but what about those left-behind children, how do they cultivate feelings with their parents?

However, in the current situation, if they want to make money, they can only let their children become left-behind children, and so far they have not been able to solve such a problem, but in the future, I think they may really face such a problem as left-behind children, and it may be better solved.

So at present, this is just a problem that still exists, in the future may not exist such a problem, the children will live a better life, will be more warm, everyone has a warm family, so that they will not have a lack of character, will not have regrets in learning, so that they can study hard every time, can grow well, I think it should be their blessing, should be their greatest happiness.