Hospitalization Diary – Mother's Illness 6
July 28th
Mother's illness has stabilized in the past few days, and it is not always noisy like before, maybe yes, there will be commotion when people are uncomfortable, in such a ward, there are still such people coming and going, but many of them are relatives of patients, but there are still some people who go to the wrong room, walk in and see that something is wrong, turn around and leave. It's still the same as before, I will give the infusion when I should go to change the dressing, or when it's time to eat, I will help them bring food back, they don't want to go down to eat, I bring whatever food I want, they won't say anything, and I lived like this for several days, in the hospital. The days are still the same, but there are still some stories, slowly began to understand each other somewhat, and when they spoke, they were not so anxious, but the people in this house were really strange, and they were very good, when we just entered the door, she gave one of us a banana, although the banana is a very small kind, although the banana is very small, but it is very sweet, and has clearly expressed their hearts, I know that their people are very good, and each person in the room has a banana.
July 30th
I have to change the dressing every day, but although the time to change the dressing is not long, it is relatively painful, my mother's wound will always hurt, and I always cover the wound with my hand when I sit up or stand up and walk, maybe this can reduce the pain, I also learned to slowly support my mother in such a process, that is, in the process of changing the dressing, I still dare not look at it as always, because of fear. I don't know when I started to go from bold to timid, but it's like that now. Mother's daily meal is still very simple, but I will send some fish soup to her at noon, but today is different, she suddenly told me that she wants to drink pork rib soup, and then put some meatballs, put some green vegetables, in fact, at the beginning she just told me that she wanted to drink but did not dare to drink, afraid of drinking uncomfortable, indigestion uncomfortable, what I said is that you want to drink it, anyway, in the hospital, what are you afraid of, but she wants to drink today, that's easy to do, I will cook it for her to drink. At noon the day before, my husband and I didn't rest, so we went to the supermarket to buy something, and after buying something, we put it in the refrigerator, and then it was the next day's soup, and after cooking, we took it to my mother, who knew that such a soup was good, and the taste was also good, and it was praised by my mother.
July 31st
I still come like this every day, and I still go home on time at night, but the man in the ward always laughs when he sees my husband, and I don't know what he laughs at, although he doesn't speak, but I know that his smile must have no good intentions, is it laughing? Because my husband always can't get to the point when he speaks, maybe it's because of this, he's been laughing at my husband who can't speak, I'm here this day, I've been there, but I'm still home in the afternoon, my mother's body has recovered well these days, and my mother's attending doctor has also come to see my mother, or is it that the recovery is good, let my mother eat something to nourish her body, he will say this every time, I think that in addition to chicken soup and fish soup, there is also pork rib soup, and other things can't get to the hospital, so it's the only way。
August 1st
My goodness, today is a very special day, although nothing big happened, but there are some trivial things that happen, in the ward, at noon, we are resting, but I just fell asleep when I heard a quarrel, woke me up, I opened my eyes to see, it turned out to be the third bed of the patient's husband came, originally this old lady is the son and daughter are taking care of her, but now the husband is here, it is still very discordant, I said why so many days her husband has not appearedI want to say, this is the hospital, uncle, besides, my wife is sick, isn't it uncomfortable? After the quarrel, I heard his son and daughter say, let their father go back, in fact, yes, let him go back, if the two people don't meet, they won't quarrel, just like that, the old man left after a while, it was in such a situation, the old man left, his son and daughter said that their father and mother have quarreled all their lives, but they are still together, maybe some couples are like this, they quarrel for a lifetime, they are still together, they also say that their parents are born enemies. It's strange, why are those people in the past? The quarrel is so fierce, no one will let anyone, it's strange!
I didn't go out in the ward, and after a while, the family members of the patient in bed No. 2 came, it seemed to be her son and niece, and so on, so a large group came, and also brought a lot of delicious food to the elderly, but in such a situation, her son actually went back, and it didn't take long for only an old man to take care of his wife. The family doesn't know what to think, this old lady has just had surgery, and her relatives are not around, or call her daughter, her daughter scolded her, she cried in the ward, but she still has to have surgery, just after surgery, it is very dangerous, and it is difficult to care, but he is just a person nursing, the old lady said to call her son, said to let her son take care of her, but her husband said that it was enough for him to be alone, and he was not allowed to call, and the two quarreled for a long time, because of such a thing, it is estimated that the old man did not want his son to take leave, what is thisThe old lady also vomited and vomited twice because she had eaten too much the night before, and called the doctor, and the doctor came to take medicine, and her blood pressure also increased, which is really difficult to take care of. Just after the operation, it is not good to go to the toilet, because I dare not move, I lie flat like this, but this is not a way, and then the nurse intubates, but this old lady is always afraid of pain, so she will not let it be inserted, but lying down like this, if you go to the toilet, an old man is not good, or someone else needs to take care of it, he doesn't know who called his niece at this time, why didn't he call his children? At this time, it was the time when someone needed to take care of her, and her children were not around, and the old lady still kept sighing and saying that she was pitiful.