Looking forward to growing up
When we were young, we always looked forward to growing up, and there was a lot of fun when I grew up, at that time, I was really envious of my family, at least they didn't have to write homework, this is what I looked forward to the most, I don't know why, looking at the overwhelming homework, I don't know what to say, every time I go to class, the first thing the teacher does is to take out yesterday's homework, I don't know how many times I have slipped through the net, so I escaped the teacher's eyes again and again, I guess the teacher doesn't want to care about me, so I have always been like this I don't want to write homework, just like this I finished my elementary school, junior high schoolIn the years of high school, when I got to college, I didn't like to write homework, but at this time, teachers generally didn't care much, and if I didn't write, I wouldn't write, but I was also very lucky, in the semester of the university's "Advanced Mathematics" course, many students in our class did not pass, but I passed, that is, in that semester, I always handed in my homework, I always listened carefully, and at the end of the semester, I scored 71 points, although it was not much, but I passed, this is my standard.
When I was a child, my parents always let me sit and read, so why are they freer?
When they were young, they read books lying down, and I just lay down and read them like this, but they didn't allow it, always saying that I was different from them, and I couldn't think of the difference there, they were adults, and I was a child, so the difference was there, but this difference was also very big, just this one thing has limited me, they said it was for my good, that children can't lie down and read, so they will look bad at the eyes, but they won't look bad when they lie down and read?
At the time, I still didn't understand, why this is happening, or I can grow up quickly, so that I can lie down and read like them, that's my idea, but I found that I want to grow up quickly, I just want to be as free as adults.
When I was young, children were a lot not allowed, I remember when we were children, childhood, a lot of adults went to bathe in the river, but we couldn't, because we were children, at that time we went with the unconvinced, I and a few of my classmates went to the store to buy swimming rings, just like that, but when I came back at night, it was in the face of a beating from my family, and a long ideological education work, so it ended our adventure, I don't know what kind of consequences this will be, adults can do things, but we can't, when the weather is very hotEveryone went to swim in the river, but we children couldn't because our parents were afraid that we would be drowned.
Another time, I went alone, this place is indeed very good, is a deep pit, in such a deep pit, there are a lot of big children and children play here, they are also swimming here, and we are not allowed to go by the family, of course I am not convinced, one day, I also can't control my curiosity, just like this alone, or at noon, the weather is hot and shining on the earth, I went alone, but I approached step by step, after approaching, I found that my feet slipped a little, I found that the water had overflowed my neck at this time, I drank a few sips of water at once, and then after standing firm, I found that I was too scared, I still don't want this, at this time I realized that what the parents said was right, a lot of what they said was actually for our good, I hurried back at this time, fortunately I came out slowly alone, and never went to such a deep ditch to take a bath again, because I was really scared, I was still deeply glad that I was okay for this time, but I didn't dare to make such an attempt again。
But now children are more strict, they always have a lot of reasons not to get close to the river, and we still made a few attempts like this when we were young, and now children are pampered, they are not allowed to do this, just like when we were young, we were not allowed to go to the river, at that time we went secretly, or went a few times.
When I was young, there were many things that we couldn't do, that is, children were not allowed to drink beer in the summer, and such a rule gave me a headache.
Because adults can drink beer, a lot of things can be, and our children can't, say nothing allowed, once I also tried to discuss with my family to drink a little, but the family didn't say anything, just glared at me, so I didn't dare, and then I didn't say anything, never dared again, but I still have a little bit of curiosity, such an action is only slowly completed when I grew up, I have drunk a lot of beer, but it was all in my adulthood, I also found that I was really curious about such a thing, and then I found that I have always been curious about thingsActually, I drank too much beer, and I think that's what it tastes like.
When I was young, I found out that children are not allowed to smoke, in high school, my classmates were all secretly smoking in the classroom, we don't know what's wrong, there are some boys who will always be in the classroom desk pocket by the teacher turned out of the cigarette box, such an action I don't know how many times the teacher has done, and the teacher still takes the trouble to do such an action, although at that time a few young men in our class have been very annoyed by the head teacher to do this, but they still finally succumbed to the authority of the head teacher, but the heart is not convinced, but can not be expressed。
They have been wondering if they can proudly hang their cigarettes and stare at the neon lights of the big city when they grow up, which is their greatest wish, but because I am a girl, I have no idea of smoking.
Sometimes I think about it, in the past, smoking or not was the biggest dividing line between men and women, but in the end, I realized that there are many women who smoke in the world, and some smoke no less than men.
In short? In many cases, we are not sensible, and in many cases, we are confined because we are children, just because we are children, just such a simple sentence, containing how much protection adults give us, but we are still secretly looking forward to growing up in our hearts for the sake of psychological fairness, and when we grow up, our family will not have so many reasons to restrict us from doing some of the things we want to do, and such a child's title and child's excuse will disappear, what a beautiful and expected thing!