"Me and the crown, not business. ”

When Panda Jing heard this, all the original small pimples in his heart dissipated in an instant.

That's right, it's a deeper relationship between relatives and deaths, and it's not a business. It's not a problem, so naturally it won't be mixed up. Panda Jing also knew that she was biased just now, so she didn't ask any more.

Wang Taika saw Panda Jing's crampedness and said with a smile: "There is a saying in our country, which is called 'rely on parents at home and friends when going out'. They all like to make friends, and when they go to a place where they have no relatives, their favorite thing is to meet fellow villagers and old classmates, so Shenzhou is full of classmates and fellow villagers. Nowadays, network management has become a course. Dale Carnegie, a famous American master of interpersonal relations and success, once said, "Only 15% of a person's career success is due to his professional skills, and the other 85% depends on interpersonal relationships and life skills." This literally hit the depths of the souls of most Celestial Empire people. ”

Panda Jing said: "Actually, South Korea is also like this. ”

"Also, the Korean hierarchy is there, and it seems to be more serious. Wang Taika laughed: "So, all kinds of people are seeking, building and accumulating their own connections in order to achieve success in life. But...... Sometimes I just think about one thing. ”

Panda Jing didn't interject, but listened carefully.

"What I'm thinking about is ...... Why do other people become your network resources, or why do people want to make friends with you? So I think turning making friends into doing business is the biggest failure in dealing with people. The so-called networking, the essence is through the docking and integration of everyone's resources, and then obtaining benefits, so the connotation of networking is a business. And making friends is not about making contacts, and you can't use them for business. ”

Panda Jing said: "Oba actually said that making friends can't be considered gains and losses? After all, business depends on profits, right?"

"yes, that's pretty much what it means. Wang Taika said with a smile: "The most important thing about the relationship between people is a 'truth', and 'truth' is a pure motive that comes from people's hearts." Therefore, whether it is affection or sincerity, there must be a 'truth' in front of it. Sincerity, sincerity, sincerity...... I'm using Chinese characters as an example. ”

Panda Jing nodded in understanding.

Wang Taika said: "Of course, I am not a pedantic old master, and I still talk nonsense about 'preserving heavenly principles and destroying people's desires'. But after all, people are emotional animals, although interests are important, but the difference between people and animals lies in the spiritual pursuit, and if there is no true feeling, human feelings are inevitably distorted, short-lived, and dangerous. There is wine, meat, and friends, and friends who have no money, no profits, and no wine and meat, and friends who make friends for the sake of profit, sooner or later they will turn against each other because of contention and attack. ”

Panda Jing suddenly fell lonely and said, "Then the group formed for the sake of interests, will it be like this?"

Wang Taika knew that Panda Jing was talking about the crown, and Hua Ying joined the crown at that time, which was also the company's expansion plan. But the original few people of the crown were already very stable, and as a result, Hua Ying entered the crown, although everyone was a little temporarily uncomfortable, but they also acquiesced, after all, they had no choice, and they all wanted to make the combination better.

It's just that at that time, the people of the crown were not so tightly united, and they thought more about interests. Human nature, this is nothing to be black.

But no one expected that Hua Ying would refuse to eat at all, and the seeds of division were planted from the very beginning.

There is nothing in this world that is unreasonable, and there must be a cause behind it. And some of the causes can be even absurd and small, but that is the beginning of a butterfly effect.

Panda Jing is a little lonely, for the crown from such a good situation to now so bleak, in fact, several people in the crown have grievances in their hearts, even now, there are still shortcomings in their hearts. It's just that this time the reason for the interests is not the main thing, the main thing is that I can't swallow that breath.

I could have done better, but I fell short.

Wang Taika persuaded: "I want to open a little." In fact, the origin of idol groups is not like this? In order to make a profit, the company launches a group. No one has ever cared about the relationship between the few people in this combination. As far as I know, there are many combinations that are like a family on the surface, but in fact they are inseparable. ”

Panda Jing nodded: "Oba is right. But sometimes, when I hear fans calling their names over and over again, I really feel that this is a group. But when you see each other, you will know that they are not all the way. ”

Wang Taika smiled: "Don't think too much, at least after going through the ordeal, the current crown is not that kind of superficial relationship, is it?"

When Panda Jing heard this, he became happy: "Oba, you are really powerful, let you say this, I almost feel that going through these things seems to be a good thing, removing the inappropriate people, and leaving behind are sisters." ”

"That's how things are, it's not a good thing, but after all, Lu Yao knows the horsepower, and he will see people's hearts over time. Wang Taika said: "Back to the original topic. Now, no matter what happens, it is inseparable from a 'useful or useless' screening criterion. So the lively socialization is actually based on the people cooking, and the useful people will get a better attitude. The crown should have been deeply touched by such a trip to heaven and hell. ”

Panda Jing nodded: "Yes, when you are looked down upon, you don't even give a chair to sit on." But don't talk about me, from VJ to president, I don't believe you haven't experienced it. ”

Wang Taika laughed: "So I understand that these things are just the manifestation of their own career energy, and they are the fundamental, and everything else is dependent. Never think about getting married among friends, and don't think that having many friends is a blessing. If a blessing comes from a friend, then what is oneself?"

When Panda Jing heard this, he frowned slightly: "Oba, are you too pessimistic?" But speaking of which, it seems that Oba doesn't seem to talk much about the people he knew before he came to Korea. ”

"It's because I understand this truth that I get rid of the useless social interactions in my life. ”

"I never wanted to ask anyone to do anything, I didn't intend to help others, and I didn't like people to solve any troubles with me. ”

Wang Taika smiled: "So I don't have any friends. Alone, quiet. Life is all about seeking truth through falsehood, working hard honestly in times of adversity, and pretending to be calm and calm in times of good times. It's cool!"

"That's good. It's a pity that in my life, I can't be as free and easy as Oba. Enjing was a little stunned, looked at Wang Taika, and asked, "What about now?

Wang Taika smiled: "I do have a lot of friends now, but friends are not forever. Maybe something, maybe there is no topic, and the relationship ends. Just like you, you and I are friends now, but one day in the future, when you get married, in any way, we shouldn't be in constant contact, this is a respect for each other. Isn't it?"

Panda Jing heard this, and nodded gloomily: "Yes." But I'm going to regret it, will Oba feel sorry?"

Wang Taika laughed: "No, there is nothing to regret. ”

Panda Jing looked at Wang Taika suspiciously and resentfully: "Oba is very ruthless. ”

Wang Taika said leisurely: "Take the pleasure and cross the same boat with you, and return to each shore as soon as possible." Very good. ”