Heaven will not tailor a lover to you

Dong Qing has hosted the Spring Festival Gala for a total of 13 years, in these 13 years, Dong Qing has always focused on her career, and later when she withdrew from the Spring Festival Gala, I also saw this article, only to find out that she and her lover Huang Hui's acquaintance, getting along is not so smooth, they are also the same as ordinary people, in mutual understanding, mutual understanding, gradually became a family. When I saw that God would not tailor a lover for you at all, this conclusion, I deeply realized that this sentence should be a truth, because we also have personal feelings, in our daily life, we have deep feelings, whether it is an excellent person, or not an excellent person, God will not tailor a lover for you, we need to get along with others, we need to manage our feelings with others, so that we will slowly reach a good stage and effect. When we are in love, we all hope to find a person who meets our own standards and has similar requirements in all aspects, remember that when we look at Non-Sincerity, Do Not Disturb, the female guests above have some requirements every time, and those male guests also have their requirements. Seeing such some requirements, I feel that there is something interesting, whether it is when we do anything, there are some standards and requirements, not to mention when looking for a partner, we also have a lot of standards.

This is our lowest bottom line, if two people can't get along, each other can't bear each other's shortcomings, then these two people's lives will not be able to continue, it will cause divorce in real life, but God will tailor a lover for us? He lives in a different environment with us, people who grew up in a different environment, I think there are many differences, but in communication, we have a common wish, or have a common standard, have a common mate selection conditions, in this way, after a long time, we can still slowly reduce each other's requirements, and God can't tailor a lover for us, so what should we do? We can only get along in the continuous running-in, grow in the continuous running-in, become mellow in the continuous running-in, and be more able to adapt to each other's various requirements and shortcomings.

There is a saying that is very good, that is, the seven-year itch, in these seven years, we continue to change each other, or change ourselves, in fact, it is not easy to change each other, but what many of us want to do is to change others, change the environment, although there are some difficulties, but in we from two people who just met, there are a lot of disharmony, and a lot of asynchronous thoughts, some people are like this, some people are like that, and in the seven-year itch, slowly change, slowly tend to be consistent, so that it really becomes a lover, becomes a lover。

And those who have not been able to withstand the itch for seven years may be too stubborn to give in! Many of them are transferred by their own personalities, while some people are transferred by the will of others, and if they are transferred by the will of others, they may be able to live very well! And if they are transferred by their own will, how can they feel unhappy? Because there is no other person in the world who will always follow your shortcomings and follow your footsteps.

When I took the exam one day, I found that he still had more than ten years of luck and happiness in his life, in fact, everyone has a few years in their life to be very lucky and happy, and we will not be so unlucky in all days, nor will we be so unlucky in all the time. This is what people often say, we will not be unlucky at a certain time, and begin to transfer, many times it is like this, we reach the bottom of life, and slowly begin to the peak of life, which is like buying stocks, there are fluctuations, there will be twists and turns, there will be twists and turns, there will be ups and downs, there will be profits and losses, buying stocks is the same, when you are at the lowest level, maybe your stocks are the lowest price, but when you really grow to the highest point, stocks will also be the most expensive moment, life is the same, there are ups and downs, some people's ups and downs in life are largeThis is what kind of lifestyle each person chooses, what kind of life he chooses, whether our lover will do what we think, whether he will be willing to follow us to the bumps, whether he will be willing to follow us to do something extraordinary, these are all things to consider.

There are many differences between people, some people like to be adventurous, some people like to be quiet, some people like to be unexpected, and some people like to be plain and plain. So in the process of life, God will not tailor a lover to you at all, and we are just slowly changing in life, slowly running-in, and finally become lovers, lovers, and family, in some issues, even if the other party does not compromise, and we still have to compromise, and sometimes on all issues, the two will quarrel if they do not reach the same agreement, in fact, there are not so many problems in real life, and we do not need to quarrel so much, because there is not so much need at all.

However, sometimes you find that the other party has shortcomings that you can't tolerate, at this time, you will feel that you don't like to live with the other person, and you always want to escape, so it will cause our emotional fluctuations and cause us to flee. However, sometimes we find that some people are not suitable for us at all, so let's flee as soon as possible, and don't wait until the end to feel like you have fallen into the abyss, and you can't save yourself at all. We also found out after talking about a few relationships that some people are not suitable for themselves at all, and how we change ourselves, we can't make ourselves happy, so get rid of it as soon as possible, and some people, although you don't change yourself, you will still feel very happy, this is the difference between people and people, so, in many cases, you still have to know how to choose to give up, not necessarily your own patience, in the end there will be a good result, God will not tailor a lover to us, God will not tailor an enemy to us, so a good life, get along well, is the best life。