☆、1469_Digest yourself

Elder Guo Cai: "I can be sure that Chu Wuliu's action on his Jin Dan was after the reproduction of the Tongming Fruit Competition, because I had talked to him just the day before the game, and his Jin Dan was still stable at that time. ”

After a pause, Elder Guo Cai said, "But at that time, his mood must have been unstable, I found out, but I didn't pay attention. ”

Understandably, my dad treated me coldly when I was in a bad mood, and he wouldn't talk to me cordially unless I took the initiative to talk to him – which was actually harassment.

Playing the game of the senior brother is what the senior brother will do to me, and the senior brother will not disturb me when I am really in a bad mood, he will only provoke me when I am in a bad mood but it is okay, and make me depressed, I just want to practice hard and strive to pump him as soon as possible.

Personally, I feel that when the mood is bad to a certain extent, talking is a burden, and it is more effective for a person to digest his mood quietly.

Think about why you are in a bad mood, why you are in a bad mood and why it seems bad to you, make assumptions about whether you can fix it into a content or form that makes you feel good, how to avoid the same thing from happening next time if it is irreversible, unavoidable, and unthinkable, then let go of the pain and crying until you get used to this pain and sorrow.

It's going to get used to it, and it's always going to take more tenacity again and again to survive.

If you can't, don't live at all, die early and be reincarnated.

- So I comfort people and always comfort people more sad or ...... Anger boiled.

Maybe I'm too cold-hearted and cold-hearted, so I really can't understand what it means to be 'in pain', and even in my last life, when I was very young, probably before elementary school, I cried in front of others, and then I felt uncomfortable because of something related to me in reality, and I couldn't cry, but I couldn't help but cry because of the second dimension or some distant things. Compared with sadness, joy, magnificence, and grandeur are my tears.

"Probably because you regard sorrow as an enemy, so you don't want to show weakness in front of them. "In my last life, a girl cried while watching a sadomasochistic drama and said to me.

☆, 1470_ Miss

Since the girl was chasing a drama in the office, and her seat was next to me, I sincerely explained to her that I thought there were a lot of logical flaws in the sadomasochistic drama based on the few glances I saw when I passed by, and the summary was: "Their tragedy is largely their own stupidity." ”

The girl: "Not very much, it's all." You don't see it all, you know it when you see it all, all the IQs in this are not online, and they are all very good. ”

Me: "...... Are you still so engaged, and you can still cry?"

The girl: "I feel comfortable crying, and because this drama is so stupid, I won't remember it at all after crying, but there are no sequelae, I think it's good." ”

Well, I think it's pretty good too.

That girl was the daughter of a leader. When I was a student, my academic performance was very bad, and I mixed up a school diploma whose name I had never heard of; when I reached the age of work, I didn't have any skills, I looked ordinary, and I couldn't even talk sweet and please people, and I was shoehorned into my department by relying on my father's relationship. Colleagues are polite to her, but in private they either look down on her or are jealous.

She may also know what everyone is thinking, so although she was assigned a seat, she looked at videos and pictures every day, chatted with people online, and did not disturb her colleagues at all. Sometimes, when a colleague invited her to a party out of politeness, she also found various reasons to excuse herself. It seems that when she came to this company, she just sat in a position and received a salary, and there was no more pursuit.

I've heard someone say about her:

"She can't do that, can she?"

"What's not going to work, it's over in a few years to find someone to marry. With the conditions of her family, are you still afraid that she won't be able to get married? You work hard, what do you worry about for her eldest lady?"

"Anyway, although it may sound like a sour grape, the kind of life that can be seen at a glance is terrifying. ”

"Tsk, there are so many people who want to live a life that they can't live at a glance. People are content and happy, you still think about the horror of overtime. ”

"Ah, that's right, I've been working three extra days this week, and I've booked Saturdays. ”

"Don't worry, I can't keep it on Sunday. ”

"I'm dying, I want to follow dramas all day long. ”

"Please, just now, these dramas are embarrassing, and I still chase them? I haven't watched any dramas for more than ten minutes since last year. ”

"No, no, you can't be killed with a rod, I watched ......"

The two of them walked into the elevator as they spoke, and I stood at the top of the stairs, looking at the eldest lady who was standing before me and was being talked about, and I didn't know what to do for a while.

☆、1471_ also needs its own hardness

The eldest lady smiled at me and said, "Aren't you going to say something?" you wanted to say when you came here just now, but I stopped you. ”

I just wanted to greet you to give them a wake-up call, because from my point of view, the discussant was listened to by the person concerned, and I, a passerby, accidentally bumped into the scene, which is really embarrassing.

I said dryly, "They're just talking." Everybody will talk about people behind their backs, and everyone will be talked about behind their backs...... Well, don't deduct their wages, everybody's working hard. ”

The eldest lady nodded: "Yes, it's all hard, only I'm the most idle." ”

She left with that, and I don't know if she meant she didn't care, or if she was angry. Will she cry to her family and complain that her colleagues are bullying her? Will those two commentators be unlucky when they hit the muzzle of the gun? The key is whether I myself will be implicated?

But I was already frustrated with that job by then, so I just waited without doing anything.

As a result, the eldest lady still watched videos and pictures every day, chatted with people on the Internet, talked about her colleagues who should still work overtime, complained and then reluctantly expressed satisfaction with overtime pay, and I continued to worry about my work, and I couldn't find the next company that was pleasing to the eye.

It's business as usual.

Later, after getting acquainted with each other, the eldest lady said to me, "They are right, and I agree with it." ”

Me: "What part of identity do you mean?"

Miss: "I agree with them, including the part that says, 'This life is scary.'" ”

Me: "So, you want to change that too?"

The eldest lady just laughed.

It wasn't long before she resigned. Then another month passed, and the news came that she was married.

Although I'm not her, I don't know what she really thinks, and I'm not qualified to comment on anything, but I still think it's really scary. No matter how hard the backstage is, if it is soft, it can be terrible, and it is a sense of powerlessness to be manipulated arbitrarily.

I hope I'm thinking too much, but I'm still taking it as a ring in this life - I didn't need this ring in my last life - a good backstage can save a lot of trouble, but no matter how good the backstage is, it can't save effort. At the very least, when you don't want to do something, you can not do it.

Oh, it's not 'at least', that's my highest pursuit. I have been working it, and at this stage, it has been achieved.

☆, 1472_pointing, but not pointing

In the cultivation realm, there are very few masters who will teach their disciples hand-in-hand, most of them only guide key nodes, and the rest of the time is basically free-range. This has nothing to do with being irresponsible, on the contrary, it is responsible for the future of the disciples. Teach by hand, teach the apprentice's Taoism exactly the same as the master, and the apprentice will be finished, and this situation is better than no master.

In the final analysis, every monk's path is different, and this is one of the most basic common sense or laws of cultivation, and no action can violate this general premise.

Up to now, there have been many people who have tried to copy other people's Dao, but either they have copied and copied and forked and formed their own Dao, or they have really done it perfectly, but they are stuck in the Qi refining period or the foundation building period, and even those in the Jindan period are rarely seen.

The most important test of whether the master is qualified or not, whether he is excellent or not, is whether the master can accurately grasp the key nodes of the apprentice's cultivation. It is necessary to have an accurate grasp but not to interfere excessively; it is necessary to instruct the apprentice but not to point fingers; and even when there is a conflict between the master and the apprentice in terms of cultivation concepts, as long as the apprentice does not make a mistake in principle such as falling into the devil and being shouted at by everyone, the master cannot force the apprentice to listen to him.

And if there is a mistake in principle, the master still can't force it, and can only help the apprentice analyze why the path of evil demons can't go through. Because coercion is meaningless, even if the Master can restrain the disciple's behavior, he cannot control the disciple's mind. If you can't let the apprentice agree with your own statement from the bottom of your heart, the master's power is meaningless. This is a disciple, not a slave.

If the apprentice can't listen to it, and the master can't shake the apprentice's demonic heart after exhausting all his methods, then the master may give up and just say, "Everyone will be punished by the demons, and I will do my best for this." ”

It means that if you become an evil demon, I will kill you.

There are always some people who think that the path of demons is right and that it is also a path. Those precedents of being planted on the path of evil demons and stagnation in cultivation are just imperfect exercises and some technical problems in some people's minds, and they are all minor issues, not matter of principle. For in the orthodox ways recognized by the monks, there are examples of ways to kill, ways to deceive, ways to betray, ways to greed...... These are also the ways that are rejected by the masses, but they are feasible and they are recognized. So, why is it said that the way that is now being attacked as evil will not work in the future?

There is only one question to be asked of these people: What is the way of the demons?

If this explanation is unclear and the argument that the Tao is inherently complex and obscure to be described in detail, then a second question can be asked to those who claim to be steadfast in the path of demons: What are they adamant about? Or are they firm?

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