This is an incident that happened in our county in the past few days, it is a video shot by someone There are two on it, one is a wreath at the school gate and a mother's crying, this is the first video I saw, what about the second?

It's a video when it's fishing by the river, and I don't dare to watch the second video, it's about a 3-minute video, and I'm not in the mood to watch it for more than 1 minute, I don't know if I'm afraid, or what's going on, but I really think that such an event touches me a lot, it's not just a family's responsibility, a school's responsibility, but also a society's responsibility, when something like this happens, everyone doesn't want to see it, but such things happen frequently, what should we say?

I don't know exactly what the news was about, but I do know that the sure news is that he died, whether it was suicide or homicide?

No one can say, but after salvage, I found out that it was actually very cruel, what I saw was behind, a person had no reaction at all, just like that, a life disappeared like this, woohoo lament.

Generally when I hear such news, I am very angry, I don't know why I am angry, but I know that I am really such a person, is not very calm person, this person and I have no relationship, but I still can't suppress the sadness in my heart, I still didn't fall asleep at 1 o'clock last night, listening to my husband's snoring, and listening to the frolicking of some people outside the door, which made me doubly sad.

This is not the first time in our place, when we were in the second year of high school, there was one, and I also committed suicide by jumping off the building, it is estimated that the pressure of reading is too great, when we were in the third year of high school, the tragedy was in front of us, the dark night after the college entrance examination, we only heard a plop, and there was no sound left, and then after ten minutes such news spread, and the arrival of the ambulance, but to no avail, there is no hope, I don't know what kind of pressure can make these teenagers in our country commit suicide, but I still wonder why their psychology is so fragile？

This is what our education ignores, that is, the psychological education of students, we have not noticed, when we are in school, and only when we make mistakes, the teacher will give you some ideological work, so that you can be an obedient child in the future, which is far inferior to other countries, other countries, when you make mistakes, people will encourage you to work hard in the future, and our country is criticized, but there is nothing bad about such criticism, those students with poor academic performance will never jump off the building, because they have already accepted the reality, bad is not good, and those good students in the eyes of teachersIn fact, sometimes they are also in urgent need of some psychological guidance and education, many of our teachers are to study well students in their mouths, for fear of hurting them, some parents are also, always afraid that their children will be wronged, such a result?

Some children's psychology is too fragile, they can't withstand some setbacks at all, let alone other things, you say, such some people, what can they do, jump off a building, jump off a building, or jump into the river, in fact, the nature is the same, that is, can not withstand the wind and rain, how can such people survive in society?

One jumps off the building doesn't mean anything, two jumps, it doesn't mean anything, the problem now is that there are frequent things happening, then there is really a problem, China's college entrance examination education system is really harmful, everyone thinks that the college entrance examination is so important, they bet all their life's strength on it, and they can't bear it when they are not satisfied, but what about those people?

None of them thought about what their families were going to do, and how to solve the mess that was left here?

A family is over like this, and some parents have great expectations for their children, let them be admitted to high school and college, in fact, isn't there no good job after graduating from college now?

Isn't it the same as before, when I did well in high school, I can have a good future, and now I graduate from college, isn't it the same as not having a job, isn't it the same as not surviving?

Why can't you think about it? In such a thing, I am eager to realize how important the psychological education of students is, especially now the children born after 2000, the psychology is very fragile, or it is better to have psychological education earlier, but now many schools and units are actively setting up psychological counseling rooms, there are special psychological counselors to explain psychological courses and do psychological counseling for everyone, our school has a teacher who was sent to learn the knowledge of examination psychology, and to participate in the psychology examination qualification certificate, or hope that such a thing can be really implemented, so that some children can receive psychological education earlierIt is very necessary for their childhood and adolescence to have a healthy mind.

It's better to get rid of these unhealthy mentalities as soon as possible, so that those children can grow up healthily.