On the first day of the new year, everyone will wish their relatives and friends a happy new year, and send unexpected blessings and joy to everyone, in fact, I also want to send some blessings to everyone, but I am not very happy, so I still wish me a happy new year in such a new year, and then I can pass my happiness to the people around me, to my relatives and friends. At that time, I said that I wished the people around me a happy new year, but why not go and give some happiness to others yourself? Maybe some people are just a simple form, wish others a happy New Year, and such a happy New Year is just an empty word, usually when dealing with people, I don't see how good you are to your friends, and I don't see how close you are to your relatives, in fact, I later found out that when everything is facing reality, it is still necessary to do a good job in some details of practical life, which is the most critical, and not because of the New Year, just a simple word, wish others a happy New Year. I think if other people are really happy, it should be that you can bring happiness to others.

When I was in high school, I knew a sister, at that time she was in the same school as me, just a grade higher than me, it was her birthday, many of our classmates went to celebrate her birthday, because she has a good interpersonal relationship, so there are many friends, I am just one of them, on the night of her birthday, we all sang a song to wish her a happy birthday, and she was also very interesting to sing with us. But when we were singing, we found out that we were all singing to wish her a happy birthday, but she was singing to wish me a happy birthday, and then we laughed because of her funny, but such an incident was deeply imprinted in my mind. Every time we can remember things in life, it is either a very happy moment, or a very distressing moment, and I remember such a happy moment, it has always been there, until this year, when I wrote New Year's greetings, I remembered such a moment again, and I remembered the happy memory. In high school, there is no doubt that we all regard studying as the only life, all the time is spent studying, from getting up at 5 o'clock in the morning until going to bed at 9 o'clock in the evening, the only joy in life is to be able to relax a little when we celebrate our birthdays with friends. Birthday may be some episodes in a stressful life, but after I grew up as an adult, I found that my daily work is not very intense, and life is spent in an unhurried rhythm, and such a very relaxed moment, I don't feel how happy, and when I was in high school, we were so nervous about studying and living occasionally There were some light-hearted and happy moments, but it was so beautiful, so expected, just like our whole heart bloomed.

When I was in college, another time, a few of my classmates were playing on the playground, I don't know what inspired me, and one of the most popular songs at that time was "Don't Say My Tears You Don't Care" When this song was popular, we were all imitating, learning how to sing with the rhythm of the song, because I was not very nervous about studying in college, so many people cultivated their own interests, and I have never been particularly interested in people, just occasionally in the laughter of others, out of a little foreign appearance, this night a few of us came back from watching a movie, on the school playground, and I was also very interesting to change this song, all of them changed back, and all of you and I in it changed positions, and the name of the song became"Don't Say Your Tears I Don't Care", the original lyrics of this song are like this:

Alone in this night

It's so lonely that it's hard to sleep

I really want to find someone to accompany me

Reluctant to get drunk alone

When you get drunk, you cry

Count the sorrows you give

Why do you always make me haggard

Don't say my tears, you don't care

You won't look back when I cry

After crying, my tears dried up, and my heart turned to ashes

You don't want to give me the beauty I want

How to deal with my broken heart

I don't regret the love given to you

I just want you to give me a chance

Let me chase and let me fly

After all, a loved heart needs comfort

I need your comfort

But after I modified it, it became like this:

Alone in this night

It's so lonely that it's hard to sleep

I really want to find someone to accompany me

Reluctant to get drunk alone

When you get drunk, you cry

Count the sorrows I give

Why do I always make you haggard

Don't say your tears, I don't care

I won't look back when I see you crying

After crying, my tears dried up, and my heart turned to ashes

I don't want to give you the beauty you want

How to deal with your broken heart

Love has given me and you don't regret it

I just wish I had given you a chance

Let you chase and let you fly

After all, a loved heart needs comfort

I need to be comforted

After the changed lyrics, I couldn't sing it when I sang it at the time, and I laughed and blossomed, not to mention the people around me, but at that time, my classmates listened to it attentively, and when I sang from ear to ear and wanted to stop, my classmates around me encouraged me to sing well, and I continued, so I insisted on singing the whole song. And I also found that maybe it's having fun when there's nothing to do, these classmates will accompany me to have fun, because everyone is a boring person, so I did a lot of boring things, when we were in college, we used to face each other two people there, send messages to each other to chat, in fact, for a college student, there is not much living expenses, but we are using money to chat, just to have fun with each other, everyone face to face to talk directly, but like this, you send a message to the past, he sent a message to chat, maybe it is the happiness we want。

Now when the New Year comes, I found that there is really nothing to give to the people around me, then let me be happier, and then bring some happiness to the people around me, many times we find that emotions can be contagious, when you are happy, the people around you will also become happy because of your happiness, when you are unhappy, the people around them also slowly become dull, maybe not so happy, this is the people who really care about you, they have emotions. It can never be that you are sad, and others are happy like a fool, so how can you be the people who care about you the most? The people who care about you the most will always be in line with your feelings, and will always be happy or sad with your joys, sorrows, and sorrows.

So at the very beginning of the year, I must be happy, and let the people around me be happy, not out of a form of wishing the people around me happy, to put everything into practice, not just an empty word.