I just started writing it, and I replaced it after two hours, so please forgive me.

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"I ...... I suddenly felt that perhaps, Chen Rui and I were engaged a little early. Han Miao said that he hesitated for a long time, and finally spoke.

She's really...... If you don't open your mouth, it's enough, and as soon as you open your mouth, it's shocking!

Han Zihe was taken aback by her opening, but fortunately, she has excellent psychological quality, and she writes books and essays, basically, her imagination is still very rich, and under the opening of her brain, Han Miao's reaction is not enough for her to show her gaffe.

Since Han Miao opened her mouth, she didn't plan to shut up, and she didn't dare to look directly into Han Zihe's eyes, for fear of disagreeing with her face.

That would have made all her easy mustering up of courage unleashed.

"Little aunt, don't worry, I won't do anything embarrassing to everyone. Han Miao said, "I know, Chen Rui is very good, he is so big, it is easy for him to be willing to get married and start a family, whether it is morality or responsibility, I can't flash him." ”

"That's not what I said. Although Han Zihe didn't agree with Han Miao's remorse, she was also unwilling to let Han Miao "settle", after all, Han Miao was very young, she had been so long in her life, and she couldn't be rash in the face of major events in life.

Han Zihe reminded her: "Sometimes, in something as solemn as 'a lifetime', even if you are selfish, you can't be ambiguous...... You have to know that what you think of as 'no harm' and 'self-sacrifice' is the greatest harm to the other person. And in the face of the harm caused to both sides, or even more people, your self-righteous 'self-sacrifice' and 'fulfillment' are actually worthless!"

Han Zihe's words are very heavy.

She faced Han Miao's drum, which she didn't know if it could be transparent, and chose to hammer her with a heavy hammer.

Sure enough, when Han Miao heard Han Zihe say this, her face immediately turned white.

Her whole body shook immediately.

Seeing this, Han Zihe hurriedly held her up, and said with concern: "Miao Miao, how are you?!"

Han Miao let out a long breath, and after a long time, he came to his senses and waved his hand at Han Zihe: "Little aunt, you don't have to worry about me, I, I'm fine, it's okay!"

How could Han Zihe only listen to her 'one-sided words'? She couldn't let go of her heart, so she simply grabbed her wrist and took her pulse.

However, Han Miao didn't lie either.

As soon as Han Zihe took the pulse, he knew that what Han Miao said was true, she just looked fragile, but in fact, her physique was still great.

"It seems that your mood is up and down a lot. Han Zihe put down Han Miao's wrist, patted her, and asked her to come to the bed to talk.

Han Miao also listened to her, and obediently sat next to her according to what she said, leaned her head on her shoulder and neck, and said softly: "Little aunt, are you asking me to think carefully about our relationship?"

"Yes and no. Han Zihe felt that his shoulders were gradually wet, but he didn't move, but just spoke to her in the same tone and volume as Han Miao.

Han Miao let out a puzzled "oh".

Han Zihe sighed and said: "First of all, Miao Miao, it's not that I deliberately lead your emotions somewhere, but according to my observation, I don't think you are a girl who sees things differently." ”

As soon as the words "seeing different thoughts" came out, Han Miao's face changed again, as if it pierced her heart and exposed her heart that she didn't dare to say or show to others.

Han Zihe naturally sensed the change in Han Miao's mood, but this change was still within the acceptable range drawn in her heart.

Therefore, she still continued: "I think the reason why you have a question mark about Chen Rui and your marriage is because of this experience, right?"

Han Miao was stopped by Han Zihe's direct question.

She couldn't speak, and she couldn't say "yes" or "no."

She can't deceive herself, and she can't deny it.

Han Zihe saw that she didn't answer, and couldn't help but sigh again: "Miao Miao, just like I said just now, a major life event like 'marriage' must need to be cautious and cautious. From the point of view of being responsible for others and yourself, you should think carefully about what you want. ”

Han Miao listened to Han Zihe quietly, and only after a while did she speak, and asked Han Zihe: "Little aunt, do you think I'm shameless?"

"Did you deceive him or do anything immoral in your relationship with Chen Rui?"

"Nope!"

Han Zihe's question was quite straightforward, Han Miao quickly shook his head and denied: "Little aunt, I didn't!"

"No, no, look at you're in a hurry!" Han Zihe saw that she was about to turn her head into a rattle, so he hurriedly held her beautiful head with both hands and comforted, "It's not that I don't believe it! ”

"I really don't have it!" Han Miao's eyes widened, staring at Han Zihe's eyes tightly.

Han Zihe made her look very helpless, and she really wanted to slap herself on the cheek!

Who asked her to ask without thinking!

Although the intention was good, I didn't expect Han Miao to react so strongly to this question!

"Okay! You really don't! I believe you!" Han Zihe hurriedly rubbed Han Miao's back and soothed.

Gradually, Han Miao finally relaxed under Han Zihe's gentleness.

Seeing this, Han Zihe breathed a sigh of relief.

She was really afraid that her words would stimulate Han Miao just now, and if she really stimulated Han Miao, she didn't know how to explain to her eldest brother and sister-in-law.

"Little aunt, can you continue to analyze it for me?" Han Miao said suddenly, but Han Zihe was not easy to refuse.

Han Zihe said in his heart, no matter how difficult the topic he raised, he had to hold on!

"Of course you can!" Han Zihe tried his best to make himself smile, after all, a person's emotions are easy to convey through the voice.

Therefore, Han Zihe tried his best to convey a reassuring emotion to Han Miao in a gentle voice: "You are still very young! There are many opportunities to choose...... To put it mildly, you're still losing!"

"However, I don't want to lose unilaterally. Han Miao didn't know how to express her emotions, so she could only follow the analogy Han Zihe came up with, "Chen Rui is a good person, I can't let him lose, after all, the relationship between the two of us was initiated by me at the beginning, I can't let him taste the taste of broken love after teasing him, that's not right!"

"Hmm......" Han Zihe listened to her self-analysis words, thought for a moment, and then said, "Miao Miao, this kind of thing is not afraid of the sensation of love, and if you divide it quickly, you are afraid of self-confinement." ”

"Self-confinement?" Han Miao was puzzled.

Han Zihe explained to her: "The reason why people are different from animals is, to a large extent, that people have the ability to control themselves, and they can use reason to restrain their own code of conduct in reason and emotion, so that their behavior does not deviate from morality and does not violate the law." ”

Han Miao nodded with Han Zihe's words, it seemed that she had listened.

Han Zihe continued: "Of course, this refers to after marriage...... Or how to say, 'Before getting married, you should keep your eyes open, and after you get married, you should turn a blind eye'! This involves the maintenance and quality of marriage, and we will not say much, just talk about your current situation.

Again, I don't think your feelings for Chen Rui have been dusted...... The reason why you have this kind of self-doubt is entirely because of the perceptual confusion caused by rapid growth and maturity in a short period of time, which can also be said to be emotional cognitive confusion.

It's a pity that Chen Rui was absent during your experience.

However, although this period of experience you have experienced does not seem to be very long, it is already a long time compared to the time ratio of your growth rate from childhood to adulthood. That is, 'not seeing each other for a day, like every other autumn'. ”

"Understandable. Han Zihe's analogy, Han Miao understood it.

Han Zihe looked at her and saw that she really understood, so he said, "Compared to what you feel like I haven't seen for a long time, Chen Rui has become a little strange...... Actually, you and him have not really become strangers, it's just that because someone has walked with you during this experience, you have become more familiar with that companion, which makes you subjectively feel stranger to Chen Rui. ”

"Little aunt!" Han Miao suddenly raised his voice and shouted.

"I can hear it!" Han Zihe rubbed his ears and squinted at her, "Girl, don't be too nervous!"

Han Miao didn't let Han Zihe's words stabilize her mood this time, she seemed a little panicked, and even a little uneasy.

"What's the matter, such a big reaction?" Han Zihe looked at her thoughtfully, "Miao Miao, you don't think I'm really pointing, right?"

As soon as she said this, Han Miao's face turned even paler.

Seeing this, Han Zihe knew something.

Of course, while she has a number in her heart, her heart is also "popping".

When Han Miao saw that Han Zihe stopped talking, she couldn't help but feel more and more uneasy.

Han Zihe felt the trembling of Han Miao's body, and couldn't help but hold back the surging emotions in his heart, and tried to say gently: "Miao Miao, you tell the truth, you ...... Isn't it a fancy ...... Chen Rui, right?"

"How is it possible!" Han Miao was taken aback by what Han Zihe said, and immediately sat up straight, looked at Han Zihe face to face, and swayed his hands vigorously, "Little aunt, you must believe me! I can't be so immoral! I can't be emotionally emotional to his brother Chen Rui after I am engaged to Chen Rui! That's not right!"

When Han Zihe heard her say this, not only did he not feel emotionally appeased, but his mood became more complicated.

"Little aunt?" Han Miao didn't hear Han Zihe's response, and couldn't help but become more and more nervous, she thought that Han Zihe didn't believe her words at all.

"Ahh

"Really?" Han Miao looked at her suspiciously.

Han Zihe nodded.

Han Miao breathed a sigh of relief.

Han Zihe smiled at her and asked, "Miao Miao, you just sent Chen Rui a 'good person card'. ”

"Good guy card?" Han Miao flipped through her memories slowly, remembering that she seemed to have said that Chen Rui was a good person just now.

Thinking of this, Han Miao didn't know where to think of it, and couldn't help but "poof" out of music.

"Go on. Han Miao laughed enough, and wanted to resume the conversation with Han Zihe.

Han Zihe did not refuse: "If you analyze it according to what you said, it can be analyzed that you should be dependent on an existence...... And this kind of existence takes Chen Ming as the prototype and serves as a framework to embody your ideal partner while also perfecting it. ”

When Han Miao heard this, she couldn't help but be stunned, and immediately, she smiled bitterly and sighed in a low voice.

Her little aunt always had such a heart-wrenching message.

Han Zihe: "......"

This should be called "thorough"!

"So, in your opinion, I shouldn't be without feelings for Chen Rui?" Han Miao was a little surprised.

Han Zihe looked at her look like she was about to cry with joy, held back what she wanted to say, and said, "Miao Miao, I don't think you should treat your relationship unilaterally now, at least, after seeing Chen Rui, getting used to being unfamiliar with him, and 'familiar' with him, wouldn't it be better to think about the fate of your relationship?"

"It's fine. Han Miao thought about it and accepted the advice that Han Zihe gave her.

Han Zihe saw that her mood was gradually recovering, so he said: "If necessary, you can participate in some activities or games about cooperation with him." ”

"What do you want to say......" Han Miao didn't quite know what Han Zihe really wanted to express.

"You can feel that you are also in that state of intense stimulation, Chen Rui and the image conceived in your head, who makes you more fascinated. Han Zihe really didn't think that Han Miao would change his choice.

"You mean......" Han Miao frowned, "I may have confused gratitude and love?"

Han Zihe shrugged: "It's a possibility, you can't deny it, don't you?"

"Really. Han Miao was fooled by Han Zihe, and she couldn't help nodding her head.

............

"I seem to love Chen Rui a little more now than I did just now. Han Miao didn't know if this was due to the psychological effect.

"......" Han Zihe heard her say this, and a sentence involuntarily popped up in his head, "Now young people's feelings come and go so naturally?"

"Perhaps, I really need to think about it. Han Miao covered her forehead, a little tired.

Han Zihe touched her and let her rest: "In this broad daylight, you don't need to keep an eye on it here, you can go back to the house and rest." ”

This time, Han Miao didn't push, she thought that she had a lot of things that she hadn't thought through clearly, and she needed time and space to ensure her thinking.

"And!" Han Zihe suddenly stopped Han Miao, who was about to go out, and reminded, "Miao Miao, I believe you don't have any thoughts about Chen Ming, but, as your aunt, I must remind you not to be emotional about him!"

Han Miao: "......"