When is a midlife divorce?
Some time ago, I heard that a classmate was divorced, I didn't believe it, because I knew him and her wife, they were college classmates, when we were together, although we didn't have too much friendship, but we can still be called classmates and acquaintances, not only classmates, but also very familiar classmates, but at the beginning, we all saw that they were very in love, it is normal to fall in love in college, but when they graduated from college, there are really not many people who can still be together, and they will talk about feelings in college, not to pursue eternity, only care about what they once had, in line with this belief,Everyone talks about the object is also to dispel their inner loneliness.,That's it.,Although there are a lot of people talking to the object.,But when you graduate, there are still very few people who can come together.,Just in response to that sentence.,On the day of graduation,We fell out of love together.,It's really like that.,When the casual meal before graduation is in full bloom,Classmates and couples hug their heads and cry,They don't want to be separated from each other.,But what?
They still can't change their future path, although they are very enthusiastic when they talk about their partners, but they are facing graduation and breaking up.
Such a couple, when they graduated from college, they were able to pay a lot for each other, so they did not break up, the girl went to the boy's city to find a job, and the boy was also under the relationship of his parents, went to work in a local state-owned enterprise, after graduation, they simply got married, with the consent of both parents, but also under the concession of both parents, the wedding was held, when I heard about them, we all felt that they were a model couple among our classmates, everyone envied them, but after more than ten years, why did they break up, why divorced, we don't know the reason, but the problem is that now they are already parents of two children, and his girlfriend, oh no, it should be said that it is a wife, why did he choose to divorce so hastily, and this boy also agreed, and soon, they went through the divorce procedures, and became the most familiar stranger, such news makes us feel incredible, and we feel shocked!
How much they loved each other back then, but now? Why can't you think about it, they are already parents, they already have two children, and at this time, choosing to divorce is undoubtedly the most harmful to children, at this time, they broke up, think about it is really not as good as divorce when they just graduated, so that they are just sad for each other for a while, and do not involve the children's affairs, nor do they involve the emotions of the parents, so at least the damage will be a little less, so when such a thing happens, there are also many classmates from the middle to reconcile the contradictions, reconcile their relationship, but there is still no effect, the final result is that they divorced, they divorced like this, really divorced!
I also want to know, there are also many parents like them, at one moment swears an alliance, and at another moment, they say that they will break up, and we are still in middle age, why can't we consider such consequences?
And for these middle-aged people, these people who don't want to divorce anything, I really want to ask, when will the middle-aged divorce be divorced?