With regard to punishment, I would like to say that appropriate punishment is right, but in many cases, does punishment really have a corresponding effect?

The pros and cons of this may only be known by the person who is punished, maybe in many times, it also has a certain effect, but it also increases resentment, when I was studying, that is, when I was young, I was a little mistake, in class, I did not pay attention to the lecture, and was punished by the teacher once, in fact, the punishment at that time was also very simple, but it caused a big shadow in my inner world, since this incident, I have always been so unable to let go, always feel that such a thing, if I don't think about it, is not easy to rememberBut it has always left traces in the depths of my heart, just like the story says, there is a very naughty child, always to hurt his classmates and friends or something, every time he hurts others, his father will let him put a nail in the wall, every time he does this, after a long time, there are some nails on the wall, but when he gradually gets rid of his own problems, he begins to change himself, when he is good to others, but he finds that if he is like this, every time he will pull out a nail when he helps others, just like that, when he pulls out all the nails, he will find outAlthough this child is not comparable to my original teacher, but it also caused my shadow on this matter, in the days to come, I also did not understand some of the truth, but when I think of this matter, it is still fresh in my memory, as the saying goes, the good things you have done to others, others may not remember, but the harm you caused to others, others will remember it vividly, this may mean that the pain is the most unforgettable, so you want a person to remember your words, that is the harm, but this is not necessary, if you hurt others, sooner or later you will be hurt, this may be the reason for the reincarnation of cause and effect.

But when I grew up, when I became a teacher, I was inexperienced at the beginning, and sometimes, I also chose some very special ways to make students obey and obey, so it would be easier to manage, so in the past, I was also like other teachers, I learned to punish, sometimes, you can't finish your homework, okay, you should have to do the homework, you write double, so it slowly became a habit, although the call for corporal punishment of students has been ringing in the ears, but we are always like this will always play a side ball, saying that corporal punishment is not counted, but it is also punishment,Because homework is common.,It's just more than others to write more.,And when cleaning,We also thought.,If your grades are not good,Just sweep the floor once.,Or other cleaning the toilet or something.,I think this kind of labor will exercise people.,But it's not a punishment.,When some students don't clean.,I found that you still let him sweep the floor or something.,Or some other ways of punishment.,To show his mistakes.,And let him correct.,But after a long time.,There are some effects.,But there are also some sequelae.,Some life and death won't be changed. , Anyway, how do you punish me, I don't obey, you let me study, I don't study, you let me study, I don't read, when you let me sweep the floor, I don't sweep, anyway, I'm such a person, you don't dare to punish me, don't dare to let me stand here, don't dare to let me go on like this, or you can't beat me and scold me, when I went to see it, it was also after many experiences that I found out that in fact, when punishing, everyone is very reluctant, who likes to be punished?

Even if it's a latecomer, he doesn't like this, it can only increase his boredom, but then what?

Or is this not good, I remember a few times, thinking that the more severe the punishment is, the better they will finish, and the more afraid they are of being punished?

Who knows, everything is a habit, punishment is the same, you have been punished more times, naturally it is a kind of numbness, their final result is that I am not good, these students are not good, so his attitude is not positive, this is also a habit and practice that has been formed for a long time, if it is not for the influence of bad habits, he will not be like this has been such a mistake, and will not always be a backward student, in such a process, our teachers have some responsibilities, in fact, their parents also have some responsibilities, and even sometimes find out that it is like this, when punishing, they are not willing to do it, although the same thing, when you let others do it from the heart, people will do it a lot better, but if you really let him do it in this way in a punishing way, the result is completely different, when punishing, do those things are never satisfied, in such a process, we found that in fact, the effect of punishment is really poor, not ideal at all, and even in several health inspections, it is a countdown, my God, is this the result of punishment？

I also gradually found that those students with poor grades are also very poor when they do anything, not only when they are studying, but also in many other aspects, when they are in class, there are other small actions, or in some other aspects, such as literature and art, they are also very inactive, not only backward in learning, in fact, they are backward in many aspects, and those students with good grades are also relatively good in other aspects, this is a result of the popularization we see, which fully illustrates some problems, it is really like this, maybe their IQ is not a problem at allIt's just that they have a problem with their attitude when they do things, they don't want to do anything, and sometimes, you don't know what he wants to do, maybe these have nothing to do with him, my God?

It's such an attitude that they don't want to do anything, sometimes, they feel that their learning is not good, and in other classes, there should be some interest, but in art and music classes, they don't show their enthusiasm and enthusiasm, but they are also dealing with it casually, which is the thing we are most anxious about.