Time is the best funnel
Time is the best funnel. After a long time, you will know that after filtering again and again, all the things you don't want will be filtered out, or those things that don't belong to you will gradually stay on it, and the bottom of the solution is pure and pure, which is what you want, in fact, life is also like this, in the process of life, we often meet some people, at that time it looked like it was in full swing, but after a long time it gradually faded, gradually indifferent, and gradually left us, in fact, we slowly have to accept such a reality, because not everyone will always accompany us to go onWouldn't our lives be very tiring?
In fact, a person's life is like a trip, each time some luggage will be added, and some luggage will be unloaded, and those things that we don't want or people don't belong to us will leave sooner or later, and those things that belong to us, people who really have real feelings to care about us, they will not go, and have always been by our side, and later I found out that in fact, life is like this, like a funnel, slowly filtered again and again, after filtering, the last thing left is the purest feelings.
Sometimes you find that you are so reluctant that you still can't keep the person you want, so let it be, just like a funnel, those things that can be filtered out, in fact, even if you want to keep it, it is impossible, life still has to slowly calm down and pure.
I used to always hear others say, people still have to often send moments, but often send moments, and those things in the space on QQ, these are left for others to see, in fact, when you send those outside, it's really for others to see, and I hope that the people you care about can see it, but people don't care about you, people won't look at your space at all, and they won't look at what your circle of friends is posting, but just a very indifferent person.
And every time I try my best to use the best words and the best language to write those things, it is just for others to find out and show others, but that person will see that some have quietly walked away, and those things you send, people will not look at them, but other people around you, some of them also occasionally leave you a word, a like, or something, in fact, such words are not interesting.
No wonder some people say that those who don't post moments, or people who don't write on QQ, they are very happy, because the people they want to see, the people they care about are by their side, in fact, sometimes it may be true, I also found that the people I care about are always by my side, in fact, every time I send a circle of friends, there are also those things written on QQ.
My husband hasn't seen it either, not once, not even liked, in fact, it's not interesting, I think everyone has their own way of life and habits, as well as their own interests.
And later, I also felt that it was unnecessary to write like this, because if I really wanted to write, then I would write it by myself, and it was not necessary to write it outside like this every time, like showing off, like praising myself.
When others really say hello, they will tell you to your face that you are really great, but it is not interesting to write it yourself, but if you get the flattery of others, is this what you want?
It may be better to write quietly and do what you want to do by yourself.
People don't care if you are good or not, this is also a kind of self-feeling, you feel that you are good, but do others think you are good?
This is really a big gap, some people feel good about themselves every time, but others also think you are bad, then there is no value.
It's about the people around you who want to say hello, it's really good, people and other things are the same, they are all to be done for others to see, just like writing homework, it's written for teachers, it's the same for writing articles, you want to show others, others read and say that your writing is really good, and before you succeed, you still have to write quietly alone.
Life is like this, or to accept the change and baptism of life, every time is in the constant renewal and change of growth, in fact, but also to keep up with the pace of time and the pace of social development and change, so that after a long time to find that you are also a progressive person, and can not be a backward person, time is always the best proof, those who care about themselves will eventually stay!
And those who don't care about themselves, even if they are barely enough, they still can't get it, so they still have to go with the flow of life and follow the rhythm of life.
What is the final outcome, that is, I don't know, I can only be like this like a trip, accept it when it is time to accept it, give up when it is time to give up, everything will develop according to the will of God, and then, there will not be so many psychological burdens, nor will there be so many psychological burdens, but do it according to your own ideas again and again, in this way, there will still be great gains and changes, there will still be a lot of progress, there will still be those directions and actions that are more suitable for your heart, and sometimes you will make your heart more comfortable and make your life a little calmer, instead of deliberately pursuing those things that do not belong to you, those that do not belong to yourself will never belong to you, even if you deliberately pursue them, they still do not belong to yourself, why bother?
Everything is left to time to judge, and I think time is also the fairest decision. At the end of the day, those who really have a fate with you and really care about you really understand you, I think they must be the ones who stay by your side!
Therefore, people still have to face the reality, accept everything around them, accept the beauty they have, live their days quietly, and leave the rest to time and providence!
Life will not treat anyone badly, life is the same, as long as you work hard to do it, living yourself well is the best proof and the best status quo.
Time is also the best test for us, after the test of time, we will know whether we are weak or strong, whether to go or stay, whether to succeed or fail, whether to progress or backward, these are the best proof that time has left us.