Yang Hao asked curiously, "Master, what should I do then?"

So first of all, you have to be better yourself, in order to better match each other, or for the future of two people, two people work together to strive for a common goal, and love has become a driving force for the progress of the two. ”

Liu Yiyan turned his head to look at Yang Hao, and said with a pointful smile: "A good relationship is conducive to developing a better character, men will be cheerful, brave and open-minded gentlemen, while women will be more kind, generous, humorous and wise, and at the same time can also improve their social skills when they come into contact with the opposite sex, from a psychological point of view, early love can make up for a lot of emotional deficiencies, reduce cheating and extramarital affairs in adulthood, of course, these are only general categories, can not be generalized, after all, anything can happen!"

"Master, then you support my early love?"

Yang Hao asked with some excitement.

"Haha! Are you a puppy love?"

Liu Yiyan smiled and said, "You are only unrequited love at most!"

Yang Hao glanced at Liu depressedly.

Heart-piercing!

Puppy love generally refers to the love between teenagers under the age of 18, and it really can't be regarded as early love at this age, and at present, it is still wishful thinking, and it is really unrequited love!

Liu glanced comfortingly: "Even if you are already in love, it's nothing, is it wrong to like someone?"

"Didn't you say it would affect your learning?"

Yang Hao saw Liu Yan with a smile on his face, and immediately relieved his heart.

"How so...... You're already an adult, and you're aware of your actions, and if you can say that, you know what is at stake, and since you've all understood what's at stake, ...... It's up to you!"

Liu looked at Yang Hao with a smile.

"Thank you, master!"

Yang Hao was so excited that he jumped up on the chair!

Liu looked at it happily.

Who doesn't have a young age, and who doesn't have a love object?

Yang Hao sat down a little excitedly, and asked with some confusion: "Master, did you specifically talk to me about this?"

"It's not!"

Liu Yiyan shook his head.

"Forehead ......"

Yang Hao was stunned for a moment, and asked cautiously: "Then master, ...... you are looking for me?"

"It's nothing!"

Liu Yan sighed and said with a smile: "Just talk about it at will!"

Feel free to chat?

It's not like that!

Yang Hao suddenly became nervous, and his heart was up and down.

Liu Yan smiled and asked, "Do you know what a genius is?" Or the kind that learns things quickly and can draw inferences with a little reminder!"

Yang Hao was stunned for a moment, and replied with some bitterness: "The master said that he is like Chen Song?"

It turns out that the master is looking for himself for this matter, is he disliked by the master?

Also!

No matter what aspect he is, he really can't catch up with Chen Song.

"You can say so!"

Liu nodded with a glance and said tactfully: "Genius is born when one's own talent and the field corresponding to the talent are matched!"

"Isn't genius innate?"

Yang Hao didn't understand Liu Yiyan's words very well.

"Yes...... Neither is it!"

Seeing Yang Hao looking at himself puzzled, Liu Yiyan explained: "The gap between people in this world is very subtle, or equal, everyone is born with a more outstanding talent in a certain aspect, some people are more sensitive, they walked earlier than others when they were young, some people are more sensitive to sound, they can speak earlier than ordinary people, some people have good physical fitness, strong resistance, and they have grown faster than their peers since they were young, or rarely get sick...... These talents will give people the feeling of genius in the corresponding field, so as long as you start to guide them from a young age, when you grow up, you will definitely make a difference in the corresponding field!"

"Then why do you feel so few geniuses now?"

Yang Hao didn't understand it.

According to the master's statement, everyone should be a genius!

"The times are changing, but also progressing, unlike in the pre-Qin period of the Chinese Kingdom, all kinds of talents in the human body's potential can be brought into full play, forming a grand occasion where a hundred flowers bloom and a hundred schools of thought contend! Now technology represents productivity, and it has become the dominant family of people with fast brains, so too many people ignore the fact that everyone's natural talent is different, and what they hear is the story of smart people who make the most profits, so they all feel that high IQ is the most important, and directly ignore their real talents, and forcibly change the intelligence and IQ that belong to the brain, and continue to compare IQ since childhood, and even divide IQ into different levels!"

Liu Yan snorted coldly: "This is undoubtedly to let a person who is sensitive to sound do fine manual work, which will definitely not be better than a person with sensitive hands and feet, and it will gradually weaken the talent of voice sensitivity, which is also the main reason for the decrease in geniuses!"

Yang Hao suddenly brightened.

In the past, society relied on primitive human production, and all kinds of talents would be valued, so there were many geniuses that emerged.

Now it has become a brain society, and other talents are not so important, and since childhood, whether they have talent in IQ or not, they have developed directly in IQ.

As a result, there are fewer people with other talents, and the number of people with IQ is the same, so the geniuses we see now are basically people who are born with IQ talents.

Yang Hao asked curiously, "Master, since talent is innate, is this kind of forcible change useful?"

"How could it be useless?"

Liu looked at Yang Hao strangely.

Yang Hao whispered: "Isn't talent fixed......? With other talents, isn't it limited in later achievements?"

"If IQ is fixed, and IQ is used to talk about achievements when you grow up, it is estimated that everyone can directly explain it at the beginning!"

Liu Yan said a little angrily: "Like the Einstein who didn't start talking until he was three or four years old, was called a stupid by the teacher in school, and said that he would never be very promising, as well as the sculptor Rodin who was called an idiot by his father and couldn't pass the art exam three times, and Newton, who was called a nerd by all his classmates and finally woke up by an apple......"

After Liu finished speaking, he stared at Yang Hao and asked, "Have you heard the story of Hurt Zhongyong?"

"Heard!"

Yang Hao nodded.

"That is, IQ can be changed the day after tomorrow, decline or improve by absorbing external knowledge, the most obvious is that people who study hard can also achieve good grades!

Yang Hao asked: "In that case, isn't it possible to succeed if you have talent?"

"Hey...... Why don't you understand what I mean?"

Liu glanced at Yang Hao, and his heart was very entangled.

Do you have to say it yourself?

"Let's put it this way...... Success is not only based on hard work and diligence, talent is also very important, although diligence can make up for clumsiness, acquired efforts and some other factors also affect the result, can also be successful, but the cost is higher, which cannot be denied!"

"But if you know your own talent and choose a specific field with talent, there is no doubt that the starting point is higher than that of countless people, and you can directly get twice the result with half the effort, even if it is the same achievement, it is undoubtedly easier for people with this talent. ”

Liu glanced at Yang Hao and said, "Therefore, IQ and achievements in a specific field cannot be confused, people's own unique way of thinking, emotional intelligence, and practical experience have a great impact on success, not so much that geniuses are born with high IQ, but that after working hard day after day, they have become geniuses from quantitative change to accumulation of quality!"

Yang Hao nodded slightly understandingly.

"Do you think Chen Song has the talent of a martial artist?"

Liu Yan suddenly asked.

"He's got a lot of talent!"

Yang Hao remembered Chen Song's martial arts practice every morning, and he was very envious!

"Then do you think it's easy for a martial artist?"

"It's not easy!"

Yang Hao hurriedly waved his hand and shook his head.

It's not easy, it's so hard!

Chen Song's situation of putting himself in the steamer when he took a medicinal bath is vivid, and he thinks that he doesn't have the guts!

Not to mention the need to use a large number of expensive medicinal materials in cultivation, just years of cultivation alone is not something that ordinary people can adhere to.

"Yes, no matter how good the talent is, it also requires diligence and hard work, once you don't want to forge ahead, you will stand still, and you will soon be caught up by people who have no talent but work hard!"

Liu Yiyan sighed: "So there are many talented people, but there are very few talented people who can persevere, just like anyone can train muscles, but now most people even go to the gym every once in a while, and they can't persevere, so what else can they talk about!"

looked at Yang Hao, and said with deep meaning: "Talented people are not terrible, what they are afraid of is that they are talented and work harder than ordinary people, and if they are not talented, don't worry, as long as they are diligent enough and persevere, they will always catch up and surpass!"

Yang Hao nodded and asked, "Master, is the law of 10,000 hours correct?"

"The so-called ten years of sharpening a sword, the human brain does need such a long time to understand and absorb a knowledge or skill, and then it can reach the master level, in order to make a skill perfect. ”

Liu thought for a while and said: "Like the great painter Leonardo da Vinci, when he first learned art from his teacher, he started by practicing painting eggs, day after day, year after year, changing different angles and different lights, not to mention practicing for 10,000 hours, laying a solid foundation skills, he mastered the way to reach the highest artistic realm from the simplest and most boring repetition, which led to world famous paintings like "Mona Lisa" and "The Last Supper". Regardless of whether the practice process is boring or not, interesting or not, he will definitely pay a price far beyond ordinary people, and those who can willingly spend at least 10,000 hours to train and learn are mostly not ordinary people, and no matter how bad they are, they can become experts in their fields. ”

"That's right!"

Yang Hao suddenly became excited.

He firmly believes that as long as he has enough to give. is sure to be able to become a Xiangyu master, and it is also because he read the book of Aliens written by writer Gladwell, which made him find the motivation to persevere!

"Yes!"

Liu thought for a while, and said with a smile: "I believe that the reason why successful geniuses are extraordinary is not that they are superhuman, in fact, most of them are ordinary people like us, so they can stand out because they have superhuman patience and perseverance, and have made continuous efforts, and 10,000 hours of tempering is a necessary condition for anyone to become a world-class master from ordinary!"

"Understood!"

Yang Hao arched over and thanked: "Thank you, master!"

Liu Yanyan's words immediately untied Yang Hao's long-standing knot!

Yang Hao is not a person with a weak mind, otherwise he would not refuse Wu Shuang's help and stay in the mining area for ten years.

He also felt the pressure from Chen Song.

The main reason is that Chen Song's performance has been too good recently, so good that Yang Hao even doubted that he was not suitable for the path of a jade master.

If it weren't for the firm belief in my heart, I would probably have given up.

Some people are like this, so good that others don't even have the courage to catch up!

Now Liu Yiyan's words made Yang Hao's whole person suddenly very bright.

Although talent is important, hard work is even more important!

Let him believe in his original goal even more!

Liu Yiyan breathed a sigh of relief in his heart, and ordered: "Go ahead, study the sample of jadeite carefully." ”

"Okay, master!"

Yang Hao happily turned around and walked out of the room.

It wasn't until Yang Hao's figure disappeared at the door that Liu Yan shook his head with a smile and turned his head to look out the window.

At this time, the sun's rays outside the window are abundant.

Shining on the pile of jadeite rough stones in the small courtyard, the crystals on the weathered shell of the rough stone emit sporadic silver light from time to time......

Liu Yanyan's gaze was a little wandering, and he didn't know what he was looking at or what he was thinking......

Long.

He sighed leisurely and got up and walked towards the courtyard.