During this time on the Internet, you could have used WeChat to see some topics and opinions that are beneficial to yourself, it is in response to such a sentence, some people learn on WeChat, some people play on WeChat, in fact, of course I hope I am the former, so I began to join some WeChat public accounts, no longer take into account those boring chats, in addition to reading books, I basically spend 1 hour a day to read the content of the online public account, in fact, there are some relatively novel views, but when I look carefully, there is a very cold feeling, in fact, those so-called positive energy, can indeed make your life streamlined, you can make yourself happier and more creative.

But slowly I felt that this should not be the theme of society, so I made the first voice, the world should not be so cold. Now many people are getting colder and colder, and more and more unable to accept even a little bit of people who have a little difference with themselves, a group of people standing under an umbrella is called helping each other, a person with an umbrella is called going their own way, here under the cold reception of coming and going, we dare not take the initiative to disturb others, and even sometimes have developed a habit, that is, cold, when others are in difficulty, we can also pretend not to see, even if it is very close to us. We slowly begin to get used to other people's cold reception, used to other people's not taking the initiative, used to other people's cold faces, so come and go, people should help each other, people have feelings, these things are normal but become a luxury, maybe as everyone said, only people of the same status can help each other, what is this called? is not called help?

When society is like this, when you are really kind, some people may say that you are such a good person, but there are still some people who say that you are so stupid? I remember that there is an article on the Internet, she is very reluctant to help those who can help herself, even her own relatives, sometimes there is something still reluctant to help, hey! Only if you have a real interest in yourself, can you actively do it, I really don't approve of this approach, maybe I am different from other people's three views. I've always been a person who likes to help others, and you might say that you are afraid of being deceived by others, so you should be careful when you help others.

I remember when I was very poor before, there was no one to help me, I came slowly by myself, at that time no one had any care about how I lived, I used to eat only one meal a month and spent a month, when I talked about it, some people may not believe it, but in fact, this is true. But when I can live one day, I can barely live a life, and I can't be regarded as a rich tycoon in this world, but when I encounter others who have difficulties to ask for help, I have helped all of them if my conditions allow, because I have also come from a very poor person, and I have also experienced myself in the helpless situation, borrowing money from others, and asking others for help, when I can help, I will still help, because there is love in my heart, for example, cousin, when I was in trouble before, he didn't help me with anything, but he encountered a little difficulty some time ago,I still didn't hesitate to help him,Although he is my relative,But even if it's not my relative,Since he said that there is a difficulty,Of course you want to help,Many people don't like to lend money to others,In fact, I will lend money to others every time,As long as they open their mouths,This may be what I think of the favor,Favor must be there,Every time I lend out a sum of money,I will tell myself,Think about it in advance,If you don't come,What will happen?When I think about it,I will feel that I can't come back,Forget it。 After all, money is earned slowly, as long as someone is there, live well, you will be able to earn again, really, I really don't skimp on money, I always think that people who can borrow money from me, many of them are close to them, or people who trust themselves, and some people are very worried about what to do if they can't get the money back, of course, the amount of this money can not exceed your maximum, that is, it can not affect your life.

When this kind of natural thing in the world becomes a luxury, do we also have a feeling of coldness, in Ma Yun's mouth, the one who can lend you money is your nobleman, and the one who can lend you money and don't want you to write an IOU is the nobleman among the nobles. From such a sentence, we can see what a difficult time it is to borrow money! In fact, it's not just borrowing money, there are other things, you can obviously help, and put on a noble look to shirk, I think this is not good, this society is originally a life of interdependence between people and people, such a life is destroyed by our increasingly cold attitude, it is actually ourselves who are uncomfortable, and in the end we find that the world can give us not only physical cold, but also soul cold, stripped of the naked coat, we are only left with their own souls when they run naked, don't you want yourself to have so many companions togetherPeople like to live in groups, don't you feel cold in those extremely remote and uninhabited places? People still feel that it is more lively in places with a lot of people, which is why people like big cities.

There is also a recent article I read about a company in Germany that specializes in making screw caps, what about this company? There have been several generations of inheritance and efforts, they can be very focused in order to do a thing, can be very friendly and cooperate with their peers, and we can't always be so cold, in such indifference to become selfish, become lonely, I really never figure out why sometimes people can't get along with others sincerely, the word kindness is really an excellent quality that we are slowly ignoring, there is no team cooperation, there is no harmonious cooperation and help between such people and people, it is difficult to make any great achievements, or the collective power is great。 In fact, there are a lot of historical stories of cooperation in China, just like the businessmen in Shanxi when they went to the west, those rich businessmen who traveled from south to north, they walked the road, all of them went out to do business with a team of people, and their success was actually a kind of team strength.

In short, everything that can help others must help some, so that others can remember your good, in order to get help from others, there is a good saying, what you pay is what you get, the warmer the warmer, the colder the colder.