Sometimes when a person talks to you, you show that you don't care, or careless, at this time, it is not necessarily a show or a show, many times I also feel that they want to talk to me, but when I listen to them say a few words, only to find that we are not in the same channel as him, the world they know is completely different from the world we know, in fact, it should be said that everyone has their own life, and sometimes we have to talk to some people, but later we find that what they say does not bring us interestIn fact, sometimes we also find that we can express clearly in one sentence in real life, but some people have to say a lot of words, remember that they also found that they spoke for half an hour, in fact, they just expressed a very simple meaning, and they don't have such the ability to express themselves, nor do they have such thinking skills, what should we do?

When I turned to leave, they felt like they didn't give them face, in fact, sometimes we didn't have the patience to listen, we couldn't listen to it for a long time, and then I found out that in their mouths, they kept saying that we were impatient, and kept saying that we put up a fight, maybe that's really the case, even if we put up a fight?

We still have to do a good job of ourselves, there are still a lot of things to do in life, instead of listening to others say these innocuous words all the time, but when I write this article, I will also find out whether I am putting on a shelf or cherishing time, in fact, many times, in our lives, we are still willing to save some time, do what we should do, to complete some extraordinary results, but later I found that all kinds of trivialities in life make us unable to withdraw.

I remember what a woman in her 40s told me before, in fact, she didn't tell me a person at the time, but told us that many people said that the era of reading is really very good, everyone can read whatever book they want, and they are dedicated to reading, and when we really graduate and go to society, if we read books, we will still be disturbed and affected by various factors around us, but we can still insist on reading some, can we improve our own quality, if we have time, do we want to read more books?

Instead of going to say something to those people every time, sometimes we chat, just chatting, if you don't chat, you also want to do what you like to do, life is short, and people's lives are even shorter, so we can only improve efficiency.

In our lives, we still hope that even if we are chatting, we can find some friends with a level and people who will help us.

If you make friends, make friends with those who are not as good as yourself, I think it is still unnecessary, it is better not to make friends.

Because in this way, he can't bring you some knowledge at all, can't bring some good influences, and those who are higher than our level, maybe just like us, look down on us, they will make friends with people at the same level as them, or people at a higher level than them, and what we want to make friends with people who are at the same level as us, such as classmates, such as colleagues, so, after a long time, I found that in fact, everyone's knowledge is still different, in colleagues, we can find what we want。

In fact, they are just like us, every time they are improving themselves, and we are also improving our knowledge, everyone sees different things, and the results of understanding are different, so there will be all kinds of different types of people.

There are no two leaves in the world that are exactly the same, for example, people are the same, there are no people who are exactly the same, even twins are different, although we can't distinguish them, but their parents can always distinguish who is who, and we don't distinguish it, just because we don't pay enough attention to them.

Later, when I understood such a truth, I realized that we don't necessarily pay a lot of attention to others, so there will be all kinds of troubles and deal with all kinds of practical factors.

But we really don't have to be putting on a show, we should still treat the people around us with a positive attitude, even if we are not interested in what they say, even if we feel that what they say is meaningless, we still have to respect them well, be patient, listen to their opinions and suggestions, don't put on a stand is the best!

Although I have written a lot of words before to prove that we are not necessarily putting on a show, because we still have a lot of things to do, who can understand us?

Don't put up a shelf at home, the point seems to be just a wall! Maybe you can understand that you are putting up a shelf, but you must know that if you don't put up a shelf, you will leave a good impression on others, so that in life, we can also better establish a personal image, better establish prestige, better integrate into society, and better live.

Having said all this, in fact, we shouldn't put up a shelf, because we are not just putting up a shelf, and in the end we really don't need to put up a shelf!

Having said all this, maybe in real life, it never happened at all, because I am the lowest person in society, and I am just a girl from a rural area, so what qualifications do I have to put on a show?

I don't have the qualifications at all, so I also found that after writing so many words, I still have to do a good job of myself, or I still have to be careful not to put on a show, so that it can be regarded as the best life!

Don't put on a show, get along with all people, don't put on a show, interact with all people on an equal footing, don't put on a show, deeply understand your own situation and status, don't put on a show, everyone can get along in harmony.

That's what I wanted. As long as you get along with everyone wholeheartedly, others will slowly understand you, only to know that you are not putting on a shelf, and each of us is in the process of getting along with others to find happiness, in order to better devote yourself to work and life, rather than let others think that you are a person who puts on a shelf, which is very bad for your own development, and has nothing to do with others, you put on a shelf, and in the end will still be disallowed by others, or will be accepted by others, so that even you yourself are very painful, this is the good and bad side of interpersonal relationships！