I read it in a magazine, oh, I remember, it should be The Reader In fact, people's work, those who are not tired, comfortable, and high-paying jobs are very few, and most of the jobs are either high-paying, very tiring and uncomfortable, or comfortable and relaxed, low-working, and some are low-paying, and the work is still tiring, and uncomfortable work, I always didn't understand before, in my own pursuit, has always been the pursuit of those high-paying jobs, I remember that the head teacher of my high school said, the work is more comfortable, and the uncomfortable work is not interesting to give more money？

However, I think that work is still necessary to continuously improve the grade on the basis of comfort, improve my salary standard, and improve my living standard.

Needless to say, the standard of living is linked to the wage standard, your salary is very low, how to improve the standard of living?

In the past, I met a middle school student, he was a master of spending money, always spending more money than ordinary classmates, and his family conditions were average, that time his parents accused him of saying, look at you, spend so much, and it is not the money you earn, it is the money earned by others, you still spend it like this, he has nothing to say, but under the persuasion of his relatives, his family is like finding the answer, his relatives said this at the time, you don't make much money, and the living expenses for him are limited, can he spend more？

This is a scope of his has been determined, even if he spends more, where can he spend more? According to his relatives, his problem of spending money indiscriminately is not a big problem, but there is some truth in what he said, and the living expenses given to him every month are limited, even if he is a loser, ask his classmates how much he can borrow if he spends money.

When his parents thought of such a problem, they were not as angry as they were at the beginning, they still gave their son living expenses as before in the days to come, without giving more at all, and did not talk about their son's problem of spending money indiscriminately, and his son also seemed to have grown up after that time, his relatives helped him, he had a psychological comfort, he always felt that his parents were not considerate of himself enough, but in this matter, he found that some people understand themselves, and there are still people who understand themselves, since then he has also learned to be sensible, learned to plan money to spend, and later learned that he just can't plan, just spent dozens of dollars more than others, but it has become a lifelong lesson.

When I tell this story, I think that in fact, your financial level determines your consumption all the time, and you have to think about the water and electricity bills, rent, telephone bills, daily expenses, and some other expenses, transportation expenses, etc., which are all unavoidable.

Put all this money aside, how much liquidity do you have, how much money you can use at your disposal, and you have to save some in case of some accidents.

So when you spend money, you think about these questions, you must think, in fact, I've seen some people who don't want to do these things, but what about these people?

They are all eighteen or nineteen-year-old girls, no family, no burden, no other chores and expenses, such little girls and handsome guys, just entered the society, they spend money like this, but in the days to come, they will definitely learn to plan, instead of making money like before, half a month will be spent, it really verifies the sentence, where to make money is where to spend.

They will definitely spend every penny left within half a month, but they don't spend it when they don't have money, or they ask their parents for money if they want to spend it, but for you, can you do it?

A lot of adults can't do it, so you still have to think about your survival, how to spend your money, etc.

I remember one time before, a person next to me, he had to quit his job and change to a new job, I found out, in fact, this kind of work, the salary is not very high, the work is not tired, and it is quite comfortable, but he disagreed, what to say, no, the money earned is too little, not enough to spend, I said how much expense do you have?

He said, I have a mortgage, a car loan, and a child, do you think I have enough money like this? I said that it will be very tiring for you to change jobs, is the money so easy to make?

He said, I have no choice, I just make less money, I don't have to work so hard, but life has to be passable, life can't be lived, even if it's comfortable, what's the use?

When I found out that he was posing his problem, I shook my head helplessly. I can't help him.

Later, he really changed jobs, a person is tired to death every day, but at this time he seems to have hope, happy work, although tired, but he is willing, because this can make him live and meet his expenses for a month.

He said, whether you are comfortable or not is in your own heart, the work that can meet your most basic life is a comfortable job, and the work that cannot meet your basic needs is not a comfortable job, my previous definition is a comfortable job, to work easily and in a comfortable mood, but his definition of comfort is that to have a basic life, I also obeyed him, of course, if you work, what kind of work is the most basic requirement, that is, the daily living expenses!

What can be satisfied is good, if you can't be satisfied, then you have to find a way to satisfy, people who can't even take care of life, how can you be comfortable, the firewood, rice, oil and salt at home are enough to annoy you to death, are you still comfortable?

His theory is deeper than my point of view, is work? First of all, there is basic life satisfaction, and then there is mood, don't laugh at those who would rather work hard than be satisfied with the status quo, they must have their own ideas, besides, I used to say to others like this, comfortable work is good work, money is not so easy to earn, we don't want to take risks, but what I think is comfortable is just an excuse for me and the people around me to be content with the status quo.

We thought that we were familiar with a job position, so we didn't want to toss back and forth, and after a long time, we found that we had lost to our own psychological inertia and lost to our own euthanasia.

But since this is the case, then you can only spend more money if you have more money, and spend less money when you have less money, so as to comfort yourself and anesthetize yourself.