For a period of time during the summer vacation, I didn't do anything, watching TV at home, and sometimes I found out that because it was a holiday, I wasted a lot of time, and I was watching TV at home, and my husband's favorite TV some time ago was "The New Marriage Era" , I have watched such a film before, I should have seen it when I was in college, because, it was still early at that time, and when I watched it, I realized that the right person is very important, especially for marriage, and the right person will add a happy bargaining chip to your marriage.

In fact, this is really the case, especially when I see the relationship between the protagonists He Jianguo and Gu Xiaoxi, when they fall in love, they don't care about anything, they only pay attention to the two people, whether they love each other or not, the relationship between the two of them is still very good, but after getting married, because the door of the two families is not right, so there are many other factors, especially the contradictions between families, He Jianguo's family, there will always be a lot of contradictions, and there will always be a lot of things in their family waiting for Gu Xiaoxi to solve, and sometimes they just want Gu Xiaoxi to go back and give them a little façade, Let them feel that their family is not so easy to bully, think that their family is related, and so on some ideas, especially his cousin's grave, in such a matter, you have to let Xiaoxi's family find a relationship to help, in fact, Xiaoxi's father is right, in many things, as long as you have been tolerating, the other party will also tolerate it, and the two sides do not tolerate each other, I think it can only intensify the contradictions between the two sides, and can not completely solve the problem, in many problems, we tolerate some, maybe the other party will also tolerate some, so in real life, we just need to be good ourselves, They always say, how domineering others are, how bad they are, in such a situation, the door is not the right household, I think many feelings can't withstand such torture, especially for Gu Xiaoxi and her family, those ideas in the countryside are not the same as their ideas in the city.

In fact, sometimes we find that if a girl in the city and a boy in the countryside are combined, there will be many different conflicts between them.

Sometimes I really can't say, who is right and who is wrong, especially such family conflicts, sometimes we think it's Gu Xiaoxi's fault, and sometimes, we think it's He Jianguo's fault, in fact, I found out later that they have tried their best to pay, and they have tried their best to maintain the marriage of the two people and maintain their families, but later because of various things, there will be a lot of contradictions between them, and there will be a lot of views on each other.

Sometimes we also find that falling in love and getting married are two different things at all, when falling in love, two people can be very intimate just to talk about their hearts, and they feel very in love, but after marriage, they will be firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, as well as between two families, many other things, sometimes what people say is also right, marriage is the grave of love, and when you get married, you will find that in such a emotional world, it slowly and gradually becomes a matter between two families, sometimes it is not such a thing, it is a different thing, but in front of the relationship between He Jianguo and Gu Xiaoxi, I found that the two of them really love each other。

No matter how much trouble there is in the middle, in the end the two of them still love each other very much, or will remarry, it is really good, although the two of them have many differences, one is an urban person, the other is a rural person, when there are many conceptual differences between the city and the countryside, they still make a lot of sacrifices, make a lot of concessions, or stay together for their feelings.

Sometimes I think about it, if it were us, we really couldn't make such a choice, sometimes, even if the relationship between two people is good, but after a long time, they will still be tired of daily chores, or they will feel very tired because of the contradictions between their respective families, in a relationship, when they are very tired, I think, each other don't want to insist anymore!

However, because He Jianguo and Gu Xiaoxi are people with a deep relationship, they can still stick to their feelings in the end, no matter what kind of problems there are, such as Xiaoxi will not have children, habitual miscarriages, etc., etc., in the end, it is not a problem, they will still face the existing problems, so the final result is that they can still be happy together, but later when I saw such a TV series, I found that if I could not be the right person, it would be like the firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea in the TV series, and a lot of things would happen that were not a thing, sometimes after watching a TV series, will give us a lot of inspiration, said some things that are not the right household, we will also feel that it is difficult to get along, sometimes find that marriage is just like what is said in the TV series, marriage is not a matter between two people, but between two families, in fact, sometimes it is like this, when encountering things, especially sometimes, there will still be a lot of things between the two families, or there will be a lot of ideas, so in such a real life, we only found that the husband and wife who are not in the right household have all kinds of things, but even if they are the right couple, they get along, although it will be easier to get along, but there will be all kinds of problems, some people will always feel that there is a difficult scripture to read, whether it is for anyone, for any family, there are difficult places to say, there is an unknown pain, but then I slowly thought that the door is not the right household, it will cause difficulties and hurt each other, so in the days to come, I still advise you to get married must find the right couple!

In this way, we can make ourselves feel more easy to get along with, and we will make each other feel more comfortable, so that our marriage will become more smooth and happy, so that the door is not the right household, it will only make it difficult for everyone to get along, but if the two people really have feelings, I think, you can still overcome such difficulties that the door is not the right household, are you right?