A few days ago, I saw the old classmate on QQ and the circle of friends, I found out that I haven't chatted with this old classmate for a long time, and I used to find an old classmate to chat with when I was free, but it's very strange that this old classmate didn't know my name, but after knowing the name, this old classmate didn't dislike me, or chatted with me, which made me really happy, because in today's society, some people, for some other reasons, and we gradually become strangers, become strangers, and such an old classmate, but chat with me for a long time, it's really good。

Later, I found out that this old classmate had changed jobs! From the beginning of the state-owned enterprise to the private enterprise, and then to the place where he worked, in fact, I want to say that he is really a very capable person, and his salary is calculated on an annual basis.

In fact, for people whose wages are calculated on an annual basis, I only have an expression of envy, because I really envy some people who have higher salaries and can have a better living and working environment.

But then I found out that this old classmate he jumped ship, sometimes, there are some blindness, I found out that he jumped ship, really jumped too fast, sometimes a year to jump job, in fact, this is not necessary at all, because the job jump is too fast, it is not very good for himself, especially he told me that he just jumped last year and is going to change jobs this year, so it is very detrimental to his own development, I don't know what, for what reason, he jumps so frequently, but for an old classmate like us, I still think it is better to stay in a place quietly and go to work, and such a job-hopping,Let him be physically and mentally exhausted,Bring a very tired feeling,In fact, he also felt,He slowly began not to look forward to it,Despite the high salary,Despite the high salary,But he is not very happy,When I went to see it again some time ago,He posted a circle of friends again,Said that sometimes I really miss home,In fact, I want to say,He should have found a job far away from home,If you find a job that is close to home,I think he should be able to go home every day to see his family,It will be very happy,But he didn't go home,It's homesick.,It should be far away from home.,So sometimes I find out. Seeing other people's job hopping, we just paid attention to other people's high salaries, and just saw the most beautiful aura of others.

Sometimes, we really can't see the hardships behind others, and some people can get such a high salary, but in fact, they have to put in a lot of labor.

So in such a real society, I still think that there is no need to envy other people's job-hopping, in fact, in the face of other people's job-hopping, we are only envious of others' high wages, but sometimes, we can't get such a high salary at all, because our ability is limited, because our technology is limited, because we still have to do things with limited ability in a down-to-earth manner.

When I told my colleagues and family about such an incident, I said that one of my old classmates had changed jobs and earned a very high salary, and he could harvest everyone's envy every time, but my colleagues and my family did not have the slightest envy, and only I looked at him with a very envious eye, and later found out that in fact, there is no need to change jobs at all, sometimes I find that after you change jobs, you can never go back to the past, and sometimes you find that when you change jobs, you still can't find the feeling you used to have, you can't find the kind of work you like to do in the past, and sometimes you find that you miss a thousand years of hatredIt does not necessarily mean that job-hopping is a very glorious thing, and sometimes we find that we still have to be careful everywhere in our lives and leave traces everywhere.

Don't be so casual, when you change jobs, for yourself, it is sometimes worth it, and sometimes it is not worth it for yourself, and in the end, you find out what kind of feeling you will have?

What kind of mood will it be? In the face of my own job change, but later I found out that I gradually stopped envying such an old classmate, and felt that my job was still okay, although he got a salary several times higher than mine, but I still felt that my job was okay.

I gradually have a peaceful mind, facing my own feelings, because no one is comparable with themselves, especially when we are studying, we are also classmates in the same class, but some people study well, some people have poor academic performance, sometimes they are the same classmates, the same class, when we graduated from college, we found that we are the same class, everyone's starting line is different, we are engaged in the industry after ten years there is still a big gap, and although we earn a very low salary, but we will still be very happy for our comfort, sometimes only to find out that in real lifeDon't blindly envy others, don't blindly compare other people's lives, because sometimes you can't compare at all, other people's lives are full of other people's shadows, and our lives are all our shadows, and sometimes we find that this old classmate who jumped ship is not worth it at all, this is our view of him, maybe he thinks that he is worth it to jump ship and be promoted.

This is the difference between people and people's ideas, some people feel that they want to break through and break out of a new world, while some people are willing to stay quietly in a place, this is the difference between people and people's ideas, sometimes I find that the difference between people and people's ideas, people and people's decision-making is different in big things, which is really a big difference in real life, but then I found out that I can correct my mentality, can do my own work with peace of mind, and be able to face my own reality, which is really a good change, sometimes I see that other people's lives are much better, and there will still be a feeling of envy, and there is no feeling of jealousy and hatred, because we are old classmates, only envy can be spoken, so slowly change their mentality, so that their mentality can be peaceful, to be able to face every day's work, to do a good job, this is what they should do, and sometimes, in the face of other people's high wages, just occasionally envy, this period of time their mood can not be calm, but after a period of time I found that I still have to follow my original track, so, don't blindly compare, this is what I said to myself。