Nowadays people are obviously a lot less unnecessary quarrels than people in previous years, before the husband and wife, in the previous time, those who did not respect their wives, those who beat and scolded their wives at will, and even some will fight on the street, and now people will be ashamed of such a situation, sometimes it is also when there is a conflict, they will quarrel casually in their own homes and it will be over, and then everything will return to calm, what's more, if you really can't get along, you will choose to divorce, and you won't keep arguing like this, I have also seen some people who are almost 50 years old, and their children are already married, such old husbands and wives and divorces because of some things, not at all the time before, everyone is embarrassed, saying that divorce is a very shameful thing, so everyone does not divorce, there is something to make such a fuss, of course, quarrels are very harmful, some people in the gradual quarrel slowly wipe out all the feelings and passions of both parties, and many times, there are also some people after the constant quarrels and quarrels, become more harmonious, more know how to get along, in fact, sometimes think about it, even yourself have to admit that unreasonable has really become a woman's privilege, sometimes it is clear that they are unreasonable, is still such a cannon to say endlessly, but at such a moment, sometimes the other party will also be angry, in this case, the quarrel between the two people is inevitable.

I remember I don't know how many times, when I went to eat, every time I went to a restaurant, I would tell my husband that since I came out to eat, I would have a good time, eat a happy meal, don't get angry and nag because of some trivial things, but I am also used to the nagging husband I met, this time it is the same, when the food is not delicious, or the portion is insufficient, he will feel that it is not cost-effective, as if he has suffered a loss, in fact, this kind of psychology is not necessary, you come out to eat, people are pursuing profits, who does business is free to serve others, of course, such free services are also available, but there are very few people, Everyone still has to live, to survive, so people pursue profits, you should be able to understand, but when he encounters such a situation, he will say to me, how is this like this, next time never come again and so on, but in this case, I am also very annoyed, when you express your opinion, at least wait until you leave, don't say it to your face, in fact, I also have my own worries, in the previous time, I have also seen a lot of cases, the dishes that come up, don't be brought back again, in this way, when it comes out again, I really don't dare to eatI really don't know if there is some saliva in this?

People's general psychology is like this, if you make people unhappy, they will let you eat saliva, which is a very understandable logic, but it is not necessarily that all chefs are like this and have no morals, but it is not excluded that some chefs will do this, so there will be some restaurants that have begun to popular transparent workshops, and you can clearly see what the chef is doing in it, such a kitchen is like installing a monitor, which makes the chef feel uncomfortable.

It's the same this time, the dish that people came up, but my husband said, I just asked what this dish is, how much is it, and I didn't say that I bit this dish, why did I get it?

When he raised a question at that time, I told him, forget it, it's just a few yuan, it's good to eat like this, there is no need to say this, if you eat, you are happy, you spend money when you come out, and you are not happy to eat, it is really not worth it, it is really better to make some delicious food in your own home, so that you can eat better, at least there is no need to complain like this.

But this made my husband unhappy, he said, I just asked, can't it? I really think this person is a little too incredible, at this time, tell him to eat like this, but he still wants to nag like this, make the chef unhappy, just like a few words, he didn't say anything more, but his heart is obviously unhappy, he said, why every time you encounter something, you always blame me, every time it's like this, why don't you blame others?

Every time I encounter something like this, and when I have other things, I will say something about him, or tell him not to say something irrelevant about him, in this way, at least a hint, sometimes, I really hope that he can be happy, in every corner of every time, but why do I always scold him?

Is it really like what others think, not daring to mess with others, but can only be in their own homes? In fact, this is not the case, I also know, in many cases, we also meet a lot of one-sided friends, such as we go to a restaurant to eat, we think it is not delicious, or what is not suitable for the place, or don't bring it up face-to-face, so that your mood is not good, and the mood of others is not good, it is really unnecessary, and why do I blame him every time, instead of others, I also thought of this, in fact, those who we have a one-sided friend, maybe in the past, in a short moment we don't remember each other, the other party doesn't remember us, I blame my husband every timeWhen he is uncomfortable, it is also when he grows up, I really hope that this man can grow up faster and mature, this is the person I want to get along with for a long time, so in many cases, I blame him, I really hope that he can make some progress and change some of his bad habits, in this way, he can make some progress, this is my purpose, in fact, I will not make him unhappy for no reason, but every time I am unhappy, after being unhappy, I will tell him some truth, when to say what to say, etc., so that he can grow enough, in fact, people are like this, in good times, others make you so hi every dayCan you progress?

In these years of life, I also know that those good times can also make us grow, but the growth is too slow, in those unhappy moments, or painful moments, such moments, promote our growth, let us become more mature, more sensible, more positive, more strong, this is my idea, when he understands these, I still hope that we don't quarrel for some gratuitous little things, I also hope that after each quarrel, he and I can slowly understand how to grow up, how to get along。