Talk less and do more

Talk less, do more, such a sentence is applicable on many occasions, especially for those who have just joined the work, this sentence is very practical, no matter what you do, in extraordinary times, in our unforgettable days, or talk less, do more, so as not to add a lot of trouble to yourself, this is a very important truth, especially when we just graduated, that is to say, when we just graduated, sometimes what I said is very unrealistic, and sometimes what I say will hurt some colleagues, and sometimes although what I said is some facts, but it makes some people unhappy, and even offends some people, in an environment for no reason, they have already offended some people, and some such people are not hurt because of something they do, but because of something they say, which makes them unhappy.

In fact, in real life, I have heard others tell me before, illness comes from the mouth, disaster comes from the mouth, such a sentence, there is a very profound truth, in many cases, cause some trouble to yourself, or cause some trouble to others, it is because we say the wrong thing, sometimes, in our opinion, we are also very careful, every time we are very careful, very careful, careful, but sometimes the words said, I didn't have any meaning, but in the eyes of others I understood it into a different meaning, this is, saying unintentionally, listening to the result of the intention。

However, in our opinion, talking less and doing more things is applicable at any time, especially sometimes when what we say is inconsistent with each other, or when it is inconsistent with each other's position, it will cause some sentimentality and counterattack from the other party, I remember the last time my mother-in-law and sister came to my house, I know that it is obvious that their relationship with my husband is closer than mine, and the relationship with me is a little farther away, and later it is obvious in the process of speaking, they care more about my husband's life, rather than more about my life, in fact, in such a situation, I can still understand the angle of their speech, in factIn fact, under such a relationship, we found that when the relationship is close, even if you say it is close, and when the relationship is far away, even if you have a deep understanding of the situation and the occasion of speaking, as well as the tone of speech, especially in some such relationships, we have no blood relationship, we are all using some ways to maintain feelings between each other and the relationship between each otherLater, I found out that the principle of talking less and doing more things, when the mother-in-law and father-in-law came, it was also the same practical, every time we had to do more housework, do less useless labor and say less, although sometimes what we said was unintentional, but it would still be counterattacked by the other party, or the other party was unhappy, these are useless, sometimes I found that in real life we still have to get along well, although we have no blood relationship, but it is a good choice to get along well。

This is the last time my father-in-law, mother-in-law and husband's sister came, that is, don't say too much, because if you say too much, you will lose, if you say too much, maybe a certain detail will be caught by them, and become a topic of discussion, in fact, many times it is the same, when they are caught a detail becomes a topic of discussion, and then it will cause a lot of sayings, some people say this, some people say that, and we are under a lot of statements, it will still cause disadvantage to ourselves, and then it will make us very sad, and sometimes we find that such sadness can be avoided。

Because if you don't say it like this, talk less, they won't find such a topic, and they won't have so many words, and let us feel more comfortable, in fact, I think that talking less and doing more things at such moments will also make them see in their eyes and keep in mind, and every time they speak, even if they are unintentional, it will also cause them to refute, and will make them feel that we are a little ignorant, or some kind of feelings, because after all, they are elders, and we will face such a problem no matter who we become a family with or who we become husband and wife, blood related people, he will worry about their blood related people, whether they live happily in daily life, live well, such some feelings, they come to our house every time a few times, sometimes once a month, sometimes once a month at all, they just feel in the environment of this time, whether their children are happy.

Therefore, in the short time they came, it was a sense of whether their children were happy or unhappy.

So in the short time since they arrived, we should talk less and do more, this is what I said to all my female compatriots, sometimes we find that not living with the in-laws is really the best situation, some people live with the in-laws, they will find that every time they live under the nose of the in-laws, this is really very unhappy, and we, and the in-laws do not live together, when the in-laws and his immediate family arrive, we still have to do a good job of themselves, talk less, do more things, so that they can be in a better mood, so that they will be very good for themselves, instead of having a stiff relationship with themIn this way, it is not good for ourselves, so in such a situation, I think it is a good choice to talk less and do more, whether it is at any time, whether it is at work, or in real life, only if you talk less and do more, can you leave a good impression on others, in order to make yourself able to exist better, better survival, better life, better development, this is my biggest realization in recent times, so to be a good person, you must be a good person, you must know some skills of being a good person, that is, talk less, do more, and leave a good impression on others。