☆、06832 - Guaranteed safety

Ji Shan: "Actually, we usually ask the children to wash their own dishes after eating, when a child is difficult to wash by himself because of illness or other reasons, other children will help him, so the children are very familiar with washing dishes, even if they need to wash more dishes when they are punished, they will not be at a loss." ”

Ji Shan: "And we don't really let the punished child wash all the parts alone, we will watch from the sidelines, if he is too tired, or his hands are uncomfortable because of the long time soaked in water, we will end the punishment in time." Our punishment never really hurts the child. ”

Ji Shan: "The rules of this hospital are relatively strict, but they are all set after careful study and attempts, and we pay attention to protecting children physically and psychologically......"

Me: "I understand, I don't suspect that there is mismanagement here. This kid was emotionally stable when he was punished, and he suspected that I was a bad person, and was ready to run away or beat me, and his limbs were noticeably more relaxed when you came. He trusts here, and you give him a sense of security. ”

Ji Shan: "Although this hospital has been accused of not being warm enough, since the establishment of the hospital, there has not been a single excessively bad incident here. Whether it's the staff hurting the child, or the kids bullying each other, not together. Safety is our pride. ”

Yu Ting: "There are still fights. ”

Ji Shan: "Hit a little bruise or scratch the skin, fight back and forth, no one has been deprived of dignity, and when they grow up, both parties can treat this as a joke, not bullying." ”

Me: "It's called moving muscles." Learning to fight from an early age is a good thing and is conducive to cultivating self-preservation. ”

Ji Shan: "...... No, the fight of mortals and the fight of immortals cannot be compared. Fighting is not a mortal's daily routine. ”

Yu Ting: "Teacher Ji, although I didn't wash it, but the dishes have been cleaned, can I go back first? If it wasn't because I didn't do it, and I didn't finish the punishment, I can wash it again tomorrow." ”

Ji Shan: "You go back first." The review is written, and as for whether you want to make up the penalty, it depends on the extent of your review. ”

Yu Ting said 'OK', then lifted his gray bag with the candle lamp and left.

When Yu Ting walked away, the ladies in the kitchen were obviously much more lively, looking at me with various expressions such as excitement, amazement, and shyness—they acted seriously in front of the children, but they were very acting.

☆、06833 - at least there is no deception

Maybe my expression of praising their acting skills was too obvious, Ji Shan coughed, asked her colleagues to hold a little, and then explained to me: "Because if all the staff in the orphanage, or at least all the teachers, are full of heartfelt maternal love for the children, then the staff gap will be too big." Moreover, although some people love sincerely, their actual behavior will bring a great psychological burden to their children, and some people love verbally and do not have matching behavior. Feelings are too difficult to quantify, so many orphanages will give up the emotional requirements when recruiting employees, and only select people based on work attitude and the degree of compliance with the rules. ”

Ji Shan: "As long as you can maintain respect for your children, as long as you can patiently teach your children basic life skills, you can love them or not." Even if you can't respect your child from the bottom of your heart, you must respect your salary and be dedicated. ”

Me: "I know, I've seen this stuff. Yu Ting seems to understand your attitude as well. ”

Ji Shan: "We clearly told the children about these attitudes. Although it makes them sad when they try to pin their feelings for their parents on us, it is better than a deception that will be debunked sooner or later. ”

Ji Shan: "We can't give them love without asking for anything in return, but after getting along for a long time, especially if we get along more happily, then we will still have feelings." The feeling may not be strong, but it is real, and if they are willing to accept it, it will at least not hurt them as much as deception. ”

Me: "From a rational point of view, this is a very reasonable thing to do, but can children really understand? Especially those who have been here since infancy, when they are old enough to understand this meaning, will they already put too deep feelings in you? ”

Ji Shan: "The younger the child, the easier it is to be adopted, and after having adoptive parents, they naturally have a real family, and they don't need to listen to our explanations. And those children who are already older when they come to the orphanage and are not easy to adopt, such as Yu Ting, just like this kind of estranged way of getting along. ”

Ji Shan: "If we say to Yu Ting, 'Don't be afraid, we will protect you, love you, and make you happy', he will only scoff, his past experience makes it difficult for him to trust others deeply, but if we tell the truth 'feelings depend on fate, and the basic material conditions can be guaranteed', he can accept it more calmly, and after accepting it for a long time, trust will slowly accumulate." ”

Ji Shan: "One model can't be suitable for everyone, we can only try to minimize the damage. ”

Me: "There are also orphans in the Xiuzhen sect, but those orphans often feel that they are not much different from children with parents after living in the sect for a while. Because even if there are parents, when a disciple first enters the sect, he will be restricted from contacting his parents, and when there is no restriction, the relationship with his parents is also outside the sect, and it will basically not affect the life within the sect. ”

☆、06834-Still have a favorite

Me: "On the contrary, it is very unusual for my father, brother and sister to be in the same sect, and they are treated specially. ”

Ji Shan: "Mortals and Immortals...... In many ways, it's not quite the same. ”

Me: "Yes. So you don't have to explain to me why you run the orphanage in this way. The results I have seen show that your management is effective, and that you who are also mortals can understand the details and the thoughts and feelings of mortal children better than I do. As long as you feel that you have a clear conscience, then keep doing it. ”

Gui Du, the young girl on Ji Shan's right, said: "Of course, I have a clear conscience. Actually, I don't like children, but I think I'm fairer than a lot of people who say they like it. I can't be particularly good to any child, but I can't be particularly bad to any child, and I'm flat with a bowl of water. In my eyes, all children are no different, and I treat them as I am told to do in the workbook, no less than one point, not one more point. ”

Me: "Why did you choose to do this because you don't like children?"

Gui Du sighed: "When choosing a major, my family felt that this major was a very good wife and mother, and it was easy to hang the golden beetle son-in-law. As a result, after I finished my studies and worked for another two years, I was afraid of getting married. God knows, I used to fantasize about having sweet love before I went to college. ”

Me: "Not getting married and falling in love are not in conflict. ”

Gui Du: "Yes, even if I can't find a lover who I like, I can still chase stars." Cat fairy, can you sign my name? Preferably a signed photo. How much does it cost? If it's too expensive, don't want it. ”

Me: "It's a good habit to chase stars rationally." ”

Gui Du: "I've been very rational since I was a child. I'm willing to pay half a month's salary for your autographed photo. ”

Ji Shan: "I'm more emotional than Gui Du, and I'm willing to pay a month's salary." ”

Then several other people also expressed their willingness to exchange autographs with me for 'one week', 'two months', 'ten days', etc., and everyone made bids, and the highest bid reached a year.

I was moved: "I thought I was too angry, but I didn't expect so many people to cheer at any place." ”

"We haven't been discussing the cat fairy in various forums lately, mainly because there doesn't seem to be a topic that can be discussed enthusiastically. When it comes to it, there seems to be nothing new to say other than the usual praise of your beauty, strength, knowledge, etc. ”

"But we've always remembered you. Anytime we see someone mention you, we all feel familiar, like seeing the news of an old friend. ”

☆、06835 - talk about the deal

"Does it make you feel offended that we call you an old friend?"

Me: "No. We communicated a lot indirectly, and you also sent me a private message directly, although I didn't reply, but I have read it, so it can be regarded as a direct communication, so it can be regarded as a friend. There are friends who have shallow friendships. ”

"It's how it feels. It's not really familiar, but it just feels very kind. ”

"I've been chasing this star for more than ten years, and it's become a part of my life, of course, kind. Although the chase is not as fanatical as it was when I was a girl, I still feel happy when I see the relevant information. I feel like I can chase it for the rest of my life. ”

Me: "My pleasure. ”

"Can we tell the others about seeing you?"

Me: "I don't mind. Now that you have told others that you have seen me, it should not cause undue concern, that is, it is safe for you. I can accept all of you taking a picture with me for a group photo, and the price is that each person pays the lowest bid just now, which is a week's salary, according to the salary of Imakishi who said this price. ”

Me: "In addition, I need you to pay me a piece of information about the situation of all the children in your hospital. It's the information you tell the adopter when someone is going to adopt them, both on paper and on your daily observations. From the inception of the hospital to the present, all the children you remember are included. ”

Ji Shan was embarrassed: "This ......"

Me: "I've found your data room, read all the materials on paper, and look at the electronic archives, so you just need to add your private observations." "At this moment, there are still a large number of reading groups running around the courtyard, and collecting information in the unclassified territory of the mortal realm is too much of a hindrance to me.

Ji Shan: "...... In principle, you can't view those materials. ”

Me: "But even if you sue me, I won't be punished." Although this operation is a bit illegal, it is not enough for the mortal realm officials to feel the need to negotiate with the cultivation realm. Those that are not classified but can be seen by anyone who is qualified to adopt a child. ”

Imayoshi: "Actually, I don't mind telling Pei Xianren about the children's private affairs, but it's a pity that I don't have much private observation of the children, and in fact, I haven't even been able to call all the children by name." ”

"I can name all the children, but the most I can say is which ones are more lively and quieter, and their preferences for regular games like hide-and-seek, basketball, drawing, etc. ”

Me: "It's okay, you can say whatever comes to mind, a sentence or two." ”

Ji Shan: "You better come with me to see the dean." Although we just regard this as a job, we are responsible for our work after all, and we also have basic ethics. ”

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