Chapter 485: Preparing for the Wedding
I was away from home for a few days, but I felt like I was in a different world.
There are so many things that have happened in the past few days, and one by one seems to have come together, even if you take a plane, you can come to a task of sending money, but after all, even if you send money, you have to bend down to pick it up, who dares to say that you don't have to work hard?
When Zhao Qingshan entered his mother-in-law with several large bags of fruits, he didn't care about the presence of his mother-in-law, put down the bag in his hand and hugged his wife, and kissed her forehead shamelessly.
He Mu was embarrassed, turned around and went into the kitchen.
"Keke, do you miss your father?"
Then Zhao Qingshan took his wife's hand and sat on the sofa together, turned sideways, pillowed his head on his wife's lap, and started a conversation with his daughter.
"Coco?" He Qing wondered.
"I thought about it for a few days, and I think it's good that our daughter is called He Kexin, there is a word Ke on the right side of the word He, and the nickname is Keke. Zhao Qingshan said with a hippie smile.
When he got home, he naturally let go of everything, and only his family was in his eyes and heart.
As for the surname of the first child between the husband and wife, it has been said for a long time.
However, after Zhao Qingshan found out about his wife's condition and Li Diefei's true intention to leave, he also tried to let the child's surname Zhao, so as to tell his wife not to try to divorce.
But think about it, this kind of violation of promises is a bit extreme, and it doesn't take into account the feelings of the mother-in-law and father-in-law, so I can only give up after thinking about it.
"Uh-huh, the big name is good, the nickname Coco and Coxin are very good, my husband is really a genius. He Qing said sweetly.
On the other hand, he stretched out his hands to deliberately mess with her husband's hair, but Zhao Qingshan's hair is very short, and it is not a hairstyle at all, I have to say, it is a hairstyle that can be automatically restored no matter how you pound it, referred to as "reprimand".
"Did you hear it, your mother praised your father for being a genius, but when you come out, I don't know how much you want to listen to your mother praise your father in front of you. ”
Zhao Qingshan continued to stick to his wife's stomach and whispered softly, as if he was afraid of startling the cocoa in his stomach.
"Ah, Dad is so shameless. ”
Knowing that her husband couldn't see her face, He Qing tilted her head slightly, and a touch of gloom flashed on her delicate and beautiful face.
My little Coco, don't worry, although your parents are divorced, your parents love you.
And Dad will often come to see you, like other fathers, he will carry you around, will send you to school, and when you are fifteen or sixteen, he will also guard against your early love.
I don't know if he will shed tears when you get married, my mother can't imagine that picture.
"Girl, where did Dad offend you, your sudden shameless sentence can make Dad confused. ”
Father He walked out of the study slowly and asked angrily.
"I said Coco Dad. He Qing pointed to his stomach embarrassedly, and then pointed to Zhao Qingshan, who hurriedly evacuated his thighs.
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"Dad, you're at home. Zhao Qingshan got up in embarrassment and hurriedly handed a cigarette to his father-in-law.
Picking other people's cabbage and gnawing it in front of you is too arrogant.
"The little girl's name is Coco, it sounds very cute, you are in charge of this matter, and your mother and I will not be involved. ”
Father He took the cigarette but didn't light it, and now as long as his daughter is at home, the only place he can smoke is the study, and he can't smoke in the toilet.
Regarding the child's name, the grandparents naturally thought about it, how can it be the surname, shouldn't it be thought about?
But the couple also said in private that since the child's surname is what, what is it called
You have to have a daughter and son-in-law to decide.
This kind of thing, it doesn't matter how you say it behind closed doors, but what the child's surname is, the son-in-law is afraid that someone will have to say it.
The child has the woman's surname, isn't that the son-in-law who comes to the door? The family knows the inside story, but outsiders don't know, and the son-in-law will definitely have to be pointed at when he goes in and out in the future.
If the son-in-law's parents were alive, they wouldn't agree to anything.
The family dinner was very rich, and Zhao Qingshan had a few drinks with his father-in-law.
"Mom and Dad, or my wedding with Qingqing will be held before the year, after the new year, my belly will be big, I am afraid that Qingqing will have a psychological burden, and I feel that I don't look good in a wedding dress. ”
After a few glasses of wine, Zhao Qingshan talked about business, now that Murong Luoyan has escaped from the country, the wedding can finally be done, I am afraid that my wife will refuse.
Father and mother looked at their daughter at the same time, because their daughter told them in private that the wedding would not be held, and it would be difficult to return the gift money from a friend.
"The wedding is ushered in, or I will make up for it after I give birth to Cocoa. He Qing said with a smile.
When she decided to hold the wedding, she thought it would be good to keep it simple, which would reduce her guilt a little.
Anyway, they are going to get divorced, and the heavy wedding is still left to Qingshan and Li Diefei, after all, they are the ones who will accompany each other for a lifetime.
As for now, she doesn't crave a wedding at all, and the cocoa in her belly is better than anything in the world.
"That's not good, you don't have to worry about ushering in the send-off, you are pregnant, it doesn't matter if you lack a little bit of etiquette, I have the candidates for the bridesmaids and groomsmen, most of the friends can be entertained by them, as for relatives and neighbors, there are me and my parents, in short, I have arrangements, you don't have to worry about all aspects, you can appear in the chapel beautifully." ”
Zhao Qingshan tried his best to persuade that he not only wanted to hold a wedding, but also to do it lively, if he couldn't be convinced, then he would do it hard, and when relatives and friends gathered, you, the bride, couldn't hide and lose the face of your justifiable husband, right?
And the father-in-law and mother-in-law must also support the wedding, as long as the wedding is successfully held, then He Qing wants to divorce, and the second elder will never agree.
The agreement with Li Diefei was made by the mother-in-law, and when the wedding was held in full swing, and her daughter's illness was cured, the mother would definitely break her promise for the happiness of her daughter, even if she knelt down for Li Diefei again.
"Since Aoyama is so thoughtful, then let's decide so. Father He said lightly.
Before, it was the son-in-law who was a moth, and the wedding was temporarily canceled, and now it is the daughter who is a moth, and she can't control her son-in-law and her daughter?
"Our family doesn't want to be arbitrary, a democratic family, we can vote. He Mu said with a serious face.
He Qing is helpless, whether it is arbitrary or arbitrary, democracy or not, anyway, there are many of you, and you have the final say.
Whether to hold a wedding has finally come to an end, and the mother-in-law will go to the "master" tomorrow to count the auspicious day a year ago.
At the same time, the father-in-law also announced that he had already made a report on the application for internal withdrawal, and the approval was definitely approved, but it had to wait for a while, and it would be like a week, and the normal process was like this.
It's a pity that there must be a chance, the opportunity for promotion is just around the corner, and maybe you can go further after a few years, but for the sake of his daughter and granddaughter, the father-in-law still decided to give up the officialdom, which is the road of glory to his ancestors, return to the family, and take care of three generations of the family.
After sitting with his mother-in-law for a while and drinking a cup of hot tea, Zhao Qingshan took his wife home.
In the next few days, Zhao Qingshan didn't ask about the world, and he didn't even bother to think about who to send to Xiaochu Technology to be a-stirring stick, so he accompanied his wife every day, visited supermarkets and shopping malls a few times
, For going out, He Qing was not as resistant as before, every time Zhao Qingshan mentioned it, she hesitated for a few seconds at most, and then agreed.
The date of the wedding is set on the twelfth day of the twelfth month of the lunar calendar, and there are many trivial things, and I went to my mother-in-law's house several times to discuss matters related to the wedding.
On the first day of December, Zhao Qingshan took his wife to his mother-in-law's house again.
The mother-in-law has the habit of worshipping God on the fifteenth day of the first month, a table of sumptuous dishes, good wine, placed in a regular manner, burning money paper and incense, and the sound of firecrackers is released by mobile phones, which can be regarded as a form.
The mother-in-law put away her mobile phone and could eat.
"Qingshan, which hotel to book? This matter has to be decided today, and it will be written on the invitation. During the meal, Father He asked Zhao Qingshan.
"Wantong Hot Spring Hotel, anyway, Dad, you have also retired, there is no need to be low-key, and there may be a little more guests, other hotels do not have such a big hall. Zhao Qingshan said with a smile.
He had already thought about the choice of the hotel, and there was no need to be polite and let his father-in-law and mother-in-law make the decision.
"Oh, how many tables are planned?" asked He Mu as well.
Her husband has been in the system for a long time, and he doesn't like to talk about pomp and circumstance, but she is different, just such a daughter, and her own family has never done any wine, so why can't she be beautiful once?
"I've roughly calculated, and I'm going to have about sixty to seventy tables here. Zhao Qingshan conservatively estimated.
"So many?" said Father Ho in surprise.
Although he knew that his son-in-law's business was not small, he never thought that this son-in-law would have so many friends.
In this way, don't you compare yourself?
Most families get married, generally the woman's family first makes a wedding wine, and the man's family holds a wedding wine, and the man's family must be formal and the real wedding wine.
Considering that Zhao Qingshan's parents were no longer there, and his son-in-law was a local, he combined the two drinks into one.
When the time comes, the man will have the man's guests, and the woman will have the woman's guests, and if my own guests will be compared with the son-in-law's guests, then where will the majesty of me, a retired cadre, be put aside? How can my daughter's family status be guaranteed?
"There are about three or four tables of relatives, although there is no personal contact between the neighbors in the past, at least there are four or five tables to support, and the middle and high-level of Anning Jewelry will definitely be there, and in addition, I have friends in the magic capital, most of them are friends in the business field. ”
Zhao Qingshan couldn't understand his father-in-law's careful thoughts, and explained in detail.
"In this case, let's prepare a few more tables of meals to avoid mistakes, wedding wine is not like other banquets, many of them are dragged to the family. Father He said cautiously.
"Mom and Dad, how many tables do you have over there? Zhao Qingshan took over this task,
"About sixty tables, all these years have been sent out, we have to take it back, especially in recent years, a year of favor money alone has to be tens of thousands or even tens of thousands, I feel distressed. He Mu nagged.
"Ha ......"
Zhao Qingshan said with a smile: "There is no separation of favor money, Mom, you will receive enough this time." ”
"Mom doesn't mean that, your dad and I are not short of money, and you will all collect the money and favors by yourself when the time comes. Mother He waved her hand again and again, and her heart was actually more inclined to receive it separately, but her son-in-law had already said it, and if she was long-winded, her daughter would have to be angry.
"Mom, you keep the money, and we'll take it. He Qing made the final decision.
"Mom and Dad, then I'll bring my uncle tomorrow to give a bride price?" Zhao Qingshan asked with a smile again.
Father and mother looked at each other and nodded.