A few days ago, I saw a book in a bookstore called "There is no moral character without oral morality" , But when I saw this book, I also had a little bit of interest, and the interest was not very strong, so I didn't buy it, but when I just looked at the name of this book, I thought it should be a book that teaches people to behave and do things, so I also read it, and found that I had no interest in such a book, because I didn't want to learn such things at all, and there was no morality without morality, in fact, I found that I didn't have morality every time I was very angry, but really no morality?

According to my analysis, those who do not have moral virtue, perhaps some people are because they always love to gossip about the rights and wrongs of others, so they feel that it is not good to say bad things about others, and some people scold people because they have suffered a little grievance, and when they say that others are difficult to listen to, and when they are very uncomfortable, in fact, such people, in the end, do not have oral morality, and then they are lonely, in fact, people feel that they want to have oral morality, just want to make their lives richer, make their lives fuller, and let themselves be able to mix better, let yourself stand tall and see far, and have more things and benefits.

But I really don't want to learn such things in terms of dealing with people, because I still don't want to learn to be such a smooth person, because I have learned a long time ago that people must be a person who can distinguish between right and wrong, whether in life or in other aspects, and although this is very simple, but still many people can't do it, and it's the same in real life, many people will maintain other people's intentions and grievances for various reasons, this is really a very strange person, you can't tell right from wrong, some things are obviously right, but you don't do it, some things are obviously wrong, but because of someone else's wordsAnd you did it.

Many of us around us are adults, we can tell the right and wrong of things, when we encounter a thing, it is easy to judge how to do what is right and how to do wrong, especially those of us who are teachers, many of us are people who can distinguish between right and wrong, and they can't judge right and wrong, so how can others know whether what you are doing is right or wrong.

I don't want to change myself, I don't want to do things against my will, in fact, I have my own reasons, because I don't want to be such a smooth person, I don't want to do those things that go against my heart, I do what I do, as long as I think it's right, that's fine, no matter what fame and fortune it is, it doesn't matter at all, there are many processes in life, some people have a flat life, that's going with the flow, and some people's lives are ups and downs, maybe it's too insistent on their own ideas, and I myself am not a person with any opinions, but I can at least distinguish right from wrong。

To give a simple example, once, there was a child in class, in the class to make a mess, and when I said him, he said that so-and-so child let him make trouble, I took a look at the child he said, people were there quietly, doing his own homework, people didn't make trouble, but this little boy said that the person made him make trouble, and then I told him, people let you make trouble, you will make trouble, don't you know that class is to study hard?

People ask you to do this, you do it, what do you want your head to do, don't you know what is right and wrong?

After being criticized, he himself didn't have anything to say, really, everyone, whether it is a child or an adult, before doing things, they have to distinguish between right and wrong, and they can't say that others ask you to do it, and others ask you to do the wrong thing, do you do the same?

In front of this little child, I told him, then you go to die, but he stood there and did not move, I said that what the teacher said was wrong or right, and he immediately made it clear, because, if you said let him die, he still didn't want to die, because he still had to be able to distinguish his own thoughts, and finally I found out the reason for this, he made trouble in class, in fact, he just wanted to make trouble in his heart, and said that others let him make trouble in class, but it was just an excuse for himself to give himself.

For example, if it's still a thing like this, I said that I wanted him to die, but he didn't go because he didn't want to do it, so he didn't do it.

Many times people want to do something from the heart, they will do it if they want to do it, they don't want to do it, even if others ask you to do it, they still don't have such a strong desire.

And later, when I saw the book "No Morality, No Morality", I actually found that I really couldn't do it, people without morality, because they usually don't like to talk about other people's rights and wrongs, right and wrong, only when they can't bear it, they will start to scold others and say what others are right and wrong.

Many times it is like this, in front of a lot of small things I don't care about others, whether it is a conflict of fame and fortune, or other conflicts, I can give it to others, you can ask for anything you want, I can give it to you, when I first became a teacher, I won an award, I didn't go to get a certificate, but wrote someone else's name on the certificate, in fact, many times it is like this, give others some honors, it is the certificate they need, maybe let them succeed faster, let them do something they want, and some people are also for promotion, and always give these things to those who need them every time, and he is just a simple person who does work and gets paid, although the salary is low, but he doesn't feel anything.

Some time ago, I was really angry, because I really didn't have morality, and then I found out that I didn't have morality, not necessarily that I didn't have morality, because I was really forced by others to have no way out, so I said a lot of things that shouldn't be said and hurt a lot of people, but then I found out that when you hurt others, you will still let others grow up in harm, so that others have some of their own gains in these hurtful words, so that they can grow up in hurtful words, in fact, it is all for their good, and I have no morality, no morality, I am not afraid that I will be lonely when I am old, there is no need to worry so much？

Because I feel that although I don't have morality, but I always treat others from the bottom of my heart every time, yes, although I don't have morality, but I will continue to have no pockets like this, and leave the best to others forever, so that others can grow up in happiness, grow in my words without morality, and I am just a person who keeps the worst things for myself, and can never be such a selfish person, this may be myself, and those who have virtue will enjoy the warmth and happiness they create for themselves, they just don't want to offend people, and I am always different from others every timeThere are really so many differences between people and people.