Yesterday I read a book called "Suffering is Life" In such a book, Khenpo Sodaji tells a lot of stories, telling the root of the pain in life, in fact, many times our pain is because of our desires, desires are endless, so this kind of pain, those who are content are often happy, in these stories, I also know that a person can live a very happy life, the reason why he is very happy, this is a good book in the book I have read, it was recommended to us by the teacher of the training during the training, I am a person, in fact, I am sensitive to booksAfter she recommended it, I looked for it, and then added it to the bookshelf, who knew that after reading it, I still felt good, in such a situation, I found out that in fact, Khenpo Sodaji told a very good story, I also deeply felt that such a book is suitable for me, I read a lot of books, I still like to read such books, because I can let myself go, I can make myself happy, in such a day, life is about 30,000 days, so I still have to treat myself well.

Don't get angry, don't care, don't care, but in many cases you still have to cultivate, it's not so easy, in many times it's easy to say, it's hard to do, I remember the above sentence, it was the king at that time dreamed of such words, but the king forgot, so he put a heavy reward on someone to restore this sentence, but in the end I learned that such a sentence is that everything will pass, and I will use such a sentence to encourage myself in the future, whether it is your past honor or the frustration and sadness you have experienced, all this will pass, what a true word, and it is also a very relieving truth。

I didn't go to the hospital these days, and my mother was much better, so my mother came to my house, and I came to my house yesterday, and the daughter of the same classmate, and we were a few at home, although it was very simple to do some things, just cooking, eating, such a simple thing, but there will be some busyness when cooking, busy cooking, busy stir-frying, such days, it is also very fulfilling, after doing your own things, it is also very fun to cook.

But at night, my husband and I also quarreled, after the quarrel I found out that in fact, women are born unreasonable, in the family has a reason is not clear, this time has been my salary in the daily expenses of eating and buying vegetables, my husband's money is saved, I every day in addition to work things, is to do housework, cook for him to eat, but also use his own salary, but also every day with him happy, such days, according to reason, in this way, he should be very happy, I always thought that his own money has saved a lot, it took a long time for him to tell me that he lent money to others, I am such a person, I won't use his money, I have my own salary, I can afford to support myself, in fact, looking for a man, is looking for a man who can be good to himself, talking about feelings is just a simple relationship, but after a long time I also found that in fact, people's desires are endless, he actually lent all his money to others without consulting me, only 500 yuan left, my God, I don't know, he still said that it has been several months, but he didn't tell me, or lent it to those who are very, I thought the relationship was very good？

He said, they are a village, that's all, my God, I'm simply broken, can you tell me, I don't know how much money is in his account, what does he say I believe like this, but in the end I really thought that as he said, he has been saving money, and he will give it to me when I need it, but it turned out to be like this, that feeling, I still can't bear it, I am already married, can you discuss it with the other half when you do something?

I did it so unconsciously, and I now found out that during this period of time, I am a moonlight clan, taking care of the family's living and eating, and he is also a dime left master, lending all his money, leaving only his bank card to others, and then I found out that I was really unreasonable to say a lot, talked a lot of truth, such days, I know, the most difficult problem to solve in my family, is such a problem, he always gives money to others, and when he needs it, then ask others to ask, at this time, others have it, will give it to you, but others don't have it？

If it's your own siblings, if your mother and father have something, of course you have to give it, you can give it as much as you want, but it is given to those who have nothing to do.

If you are rich, you can give it to others, but you also have to pay off the mortgage, or something, and live, or give the money to others, just to leave a good impression in the village, what a big trouble, I don't know how to say it, I just found out that I am actually an unreasonable person, I also repeatedly thought about such a sentence last night, everything will pass, and it is the nature of women to be unreasonable.

I'm also drunk when I encounter such a thing, I don't know how to solve it, people's desires are endless, no matter how well you take care of others, others will think that you can do better, but I have now exercised a lot of relief, at least when I encounter things, I can make my mood not so bad, so that I can sleep peacefully in a quiet late night, this is the biggest progress, no matter what happens, or so calm, or can take good care of your body, can let yourself have a stable mood, it's good！

Slowly I realized that this Master Sodaji Khenpo is not wrong, suffering is life, in fact, there will be a lot of things in life, at that time our mood is very low, sometimes even feel that we are very tired, and even those earthly disturbances will make us unable to breathe, but it is better to adjust our mood by ourselves, and we can face it calmly when we encounter problems, because suffering is life, and there will be some things in everyone's life, in the face of such things, we still have to maintain our own good attitude, and I am also constantly exercising myself to maintain a good attitudeIn this way, at least you can keep yourself in a good mood all the time, which is good for yourself.