Mixing well is also an ability
Sometimes I find that living freely in the countryside is really the most comfortable and beautiful life.
However, in the eyes of some people, such a time is not beautiful, always feel that the living conditions in the countryside are poor, to live in the city, is a good life, is the manifestation of good living conditions, but in my opinion, the countryside is very good, the mountain village life can cultivate self-cultivation, and sometimes I also find that being able to live in a mountain for a period of time is really the most beautiful life.
When I first became a teacher, I was in the mountains, I was very memorable in those days, it was really a very good life, where you could play freely, you could go to the mountains to play, some colleagues also proposed that they should go to the mountains for a picnic, but for various reasons, we did not go to the picnic, but we still miss the life of being in the mountains, being able to be free and free, and there are no worries.
Some people can't realize the beauty of life on the mountain, always feel that the traffic on the mountain is inconvenient, or there are all kinds of inconveniences, always think of the big city life, and some people may only see the glamour of the big city life people and can't understand the hard work of the big city life!
I remember a few friends told me last time that they had to take the bus at five o'clock in the morning when they were working in Beijing, and then, at eight o'clock, and in the afternoon, they had to take the subway for more than two hours to go home and eat.
I really can't figure it out, they have all worked so hard, why they are still living in a city like the capital, maybe it's their own love, living in such a city, they can meet more people, they can meet better people, they can also meet more capable people, the social circle is different, so maybe it is also a help for them!
And I think the way to improve myself is to read books, but in real life, I really feel that there is such a truth, that is, it is better to read thousands of books than to travel thousands of miles, and it is better to read countless people than to travel thousands of miles.
Sometimes, I don't have the courage to participate in class reunions, for fear that I won't be able to mix well and have no face on my face, but they are all very good, and sometimes I find that mixing badly is also an ability, because, if I don't mix well, there won't be so many troubles.
So in the countryside is actually very good, sometimes I feel that in the countryside, the income is less, but the rural expenditure is also less.
Everything is relative, in big cities, because of high income, high costs, and in the end it is still about the same as the rural savings, some people have never understood this truth, because in the big cities the income is high, under a lot of pressure, and this is not good for our physical and mental health, so I think it is better to be rural.
However, many people can't figure out the truth, I remember reading an article written in a book by Lu Yao called "How Can't You Think of It"?
When I read such an article, I never thought that two people who originally loved each other very much, because the two people liked different places, one wanted to go to the big city, the other wanted to go to the countryside, and they couldn't be together, it turned out that the two of them had such a result because they couldn't tolerate each other.
If you like someone, why can't you do what he wants? Although, sometimes you do what others want, go to the city that others want to go, and like the place that others want to go, your career may not be good, but it is also a kind of ability.
Over the years, I have observed many people around me, and some of them are very good, so they know a lot of people and have a wide range of contacts, and some of these people are always busy socializing with others.
I remember a previous official, when others knew that his children were married, they said that they had been setting up banquets for three days and three nights, and some people thought that they were very proud of it.
I didn't think it was any good for him to do this later, because so many people came to attend his children's weddings, so how tiring was it to deal with it?
Still, in those who don't have a lot of intersections, I slowly feel that life is quiet and beautiful.
Sometimes we find that we are ordinary people, we have more free time of our own, we have our own lives, and our lives are all in our own hands.
You said today we go for a walk when we want to, and we go for a walk when we want to, and there is not so much socialization.
If you have a lot of friends, you have to be busy socializing every day, and sometimes, you want to go to play, but a phone call from someone else changes your itinerary and disrupts your original plan.
There are a lot of such things, we still feel that we can be quiet in our own life circle, we don't have so much socialization, we are quiet every day, doing what we want to do, and living life as we want to live.
It is precisely because of this point of view that I think that mixing well is also a kind of ability, and mixing well is an ability, which shows that people's ability is very strong, and mixing well is also a kind of ability, because if we don't mix well, we will have more time to spend with our families and have more time to do what we want to do.
Sometimes it is in life that I live not only in the days of envy of others, but also many people around me, they always feel that other people's lives are very good, every time in their mouths, they always feel, you see who and whose life is so much better, they all live in those years of envy of others, never see their own life, in fact, it is also a kind of beauty, every time I always feel that other people's lives are good, and their own lives are not good, and I always feel that my life is the best life, that is, the life I want, and not necessarily to envy others, so that time is wasted in such envySo I think my point is that mixing up is also an ability.