Rich and poor, there is the same disaster
Meng Yu wondered, doesn't your son, who is also your grandson's father, care?
Soon the old man gave her an answer.
The old grandfather's family has been a scholarly family for generations, and the younger generation and the older generation are all famous professors, but when it comes to the old grandfather's generation, his son has become a businessman.
And his son and daughter-in-law are all from scholarly families, so they are naturally the right people, and they are also married by the old people of the earlier generation. It's just that when they come to them, there are differences, and there are different changes in thinking.
The grandfather's daughter-in-law upheld tradition, while his own son chose a different path from their family for a long time, a businessman.
Although the marriage between the two is still there, there are differences in thinking after all, and the marriage is set by the elders of the older generation, this marriage is bound to be in name only.
When he said this, the old man took pity on his grandson.
After his son started business, his career developed very much, and it was also very popular, and the branch even developed abroad, because the business was heavy, people were naturally very busy, and they rarely went home all year round.
His daughter-in-law has no choice, how can the difference in thinking save her lover. And the latter situation is equivalent to her lover being busy with work outside, while she takes care of the family.
The old man said that his daughter-in-law was indeed very good, and it was good to take care of the family, but he was too strict and harsh on his grandson.
As if pressing on his grandson step by step, everything for him was arranged and planned, and his grandson had to learn a lot of poetry at a very young age, write well, develop in all aspects, and know how to play a piano. And as long as it is his daughter-in-law who asks his grandson to be perfect in all aspects involved, he must do his best, otherwise everything will be in vain.
For this reason, his grandson lost his freedom and childhood at a very young age, and he did not feel the happiness of a child at all, and Zhang Dahou was the same, he did not smile, he had no friends, and even when he got together with his relatives, he did not have the slightest emotion, as if he was a robot.
Meng Yu asked the old grandfather why his daughter-in-law was so harsh on his grandson?
What the old man said was that it all stemmed from his daughter-in-law's previous tutor. Just because she came from a scholarly family, she is still very traditional in her thinking, so that when she teaches her children, she is also like this, and she is more resentful, resentful of his son.
In the end, the old man just sighed, no matter what, in his opinion, the most distressed thing was still his grandson.
Alas, no matter what kind of family they come from, whether they are poor or rich, they all have different troubles and different disasters.
Meng Yu also sympathized with the old grandfather's grandson from the bottom of his heart.
Finally, when it was time to say goodbye, Meng Yu and the old man agreed that next time she could listen to the old man talk about him and his wife, Meng Yu was very interested in listening to these things about the old man, and the old man was also very interested in saying it.
Xu is old, and without the company of his wife and family, he also wants to find someone to talk to. And Meng Yu is willing to listen, so he is naturally willing to say.
After that, the two walked away in different directions, Meng Yu went downstream, and the old man went upstream.
When the old man was halfway there, he saw a man in front of him, a boy.