My husband and I have only been married for half a year, we should still be in the run-in period, sometimes our ideas will coincide, sometimes we will have disagreements, but I think the most important thing is accommodation, sometimes I find that even if you accommodate him, or sometimes he accommodates you, in the end the result will still find out whose method is better, which may be called wisdom.

Two people from not knowing, to live together, there are a lot of processes in the middle, but we will still tolerate each other, because the people who tolerate each other are not necessarily the weak, those who are very strong are not necessarily the strong, in the process of marriage, whether it is worth more than 100 million, or you are poor, poor and white, your happiness is a happy thing, I clearly remember that I have seen a family before, it is Foshan, the husband and wife are rich, and they are driving more than 2 million luxury cars, but when the two people are angry, they actually become bumper cars, why don't you take money seriously？

Look at those poor people who can't afford to eat, if you put up with it a little, you can have enough money for a lot of people to eat, but they don't know how to control their emotions, such a pair is really a strange thing, such a car on the street.

My husband and I may be the poorest kind of people, but we are still living a good life, because we are all tolerating each other, sometimes you don't have to argue yourself, the other party will think, whose method is better, etc., just like this, slowly the two people are getting more and more similar, getting closer and closer, I remember the past, he wanted to save me money, so when I went to the supermarket, I saw something, or touched other people's products, or took a look, looked at the things on the shelves, he would tell me, there is a house, usually at this time I will put down and not buy, because there is no need to waste moneyThere is no need to quarrel with him, but he will definitely let me buy what I really need, so our family has always been so short of something, and I will buy it back when I have to, because of his frugality.

But once, I looked at the stainless steel bowl in the supermarket is good, I said buy a few back, because I like to use stainless steel bowls, this is for a reason, and he has always used porcelain bowls, when I was young, we were still young at that time, always accidentally will rot the bowl, sometimes fall on the ground and rot, we are really embarrassed, more important is that I think the porcelain bowl is broken if there is a bad omen, there is a bad thing to happen at home, this is the most critical point, I really want to have a safe family, so I all use stainless steel bowlsFrom the very beginning of the production of stainless steel bowls, this is the case, because I am afraid that such a bad thing will happen, some families because the bowl is rotten, the relatives around them are sometimes seriously ill or died, so I am very careful about this, although my ideas and practices are some superstitions, but I still don't like unhappy things to happen, stainless steel bowls are very good to avoid the danger of rotting, although in many conversations, they say that porcelain bowls are good for the body, stainless steel bowls will fall stainless steel or something, but I think that despite this, I also stubbornly accept such a realityI just think that the advantage of not embroidering steel bowls is that they are not easy to break, and I also have deep stubbornness.

The dishes and chopsticks at home have always been brought from his own hometown, of course, it is a porcelain bowl, they also think it is very convenient to use, but I tried a few times and I can't do it, and I don't want him to feel sad, so it has been like this, the porcelain bowl insists on using, but after a long time, it is not only the two of us who live together, when the guests come to the house, these dishes and chopsticks are obviously not enough, but the chopsticks are bought when I go shopping once, because I am alone that time, not with him, if I am with him, he will definitely say, there is at home, which has slowly become his mantra。

So after I bought it that time, after he asked the price, he just said, buy it back, forget it, he also knows that there is something at home, but the things bought back are kept like this, it has been useless, until yesterday, our family came to the guest, this chopsticks are only useful, but the bowl is different, a person wants a bowl, it is still not enough, I went to the supermarket below to buy, because it is cooking time, of course I bought it nearby, it was still very expensive when I bought it, I bargained with the salesman, but he was still not cheap, always said that his bowl is expensive because of good quality, there is no better quality than his bowl, I also believe what he said, is a price of a penny, but the price gap will still be unhappy, this gap is not small, all of a sudden a difference of several yuan, a bowl of several yuan, I bought 6, the difference of almost 20 yuan, this time when I came back, I told him, look, I and you go to the supermarket to buy some bowls for spare, but you always don't let it, and when you use it, you can only buy other people's expensive, otherwise?

Time is not enough, it's time to eat, can I still go to the supermarket leisurely? Obviously can't, when I said this, he was also silent, just smiled and said, I thought we were just two people in life, I don't know when the guests at home bowls are not enough, there is still to have some spare, he always feels that what is enough on the line, because the supermarket we often go, there is nothing to buy at any time, but this time I didn't think of it, so he slowly accepted my advice and spare things.

In fact, every family has a habit of living, and the family that has lived together for more than 20 years has already turned him into what they want, but when I was with him, we were together for a short time, I was born in our family, and he was born in their family.

Or do you force the other party to accept your own shortcomings and shortcomings, as well as differences in living habits?

Or in the process of living together slowly, we can continue to reach a consensus, and constantly tend to be the same, no matter how many ways there are, there will always be one that is the best, this is my idea, so sometimes I think about it, life habits can be cultivated.