Many times in life, we all feel that when we encounter any contradictions and misunderstandings with others, many times we feel that we should reflect on what mistakes we have, of course, there is nothing wrong with it, but I have also seen some people always say that others are wrong or something every time they encounter something, when we are doing education, every time we will tell the child that you are fighting with others or scolding or something, two people have a conflict, don't say that others are bad, and every time you have to reflect on what you have done wrong, where you have done badly, so I am like this, every time I tell them, someone else has beaten you, or someone else has scolded you, It's good if you ignore him, in fact, it's like this, it's not okay after a long time, because if someone hits you for the first time, you don't make a sound, next time, people will still beat you like this, people scold you once, you don't make a sound, next time people will still scold you like this, sometimes you feel that others scold you, you endure, forget it, but some people have consciousness, and some people don't, it's not that you have been tolerating others, and others must know how to respect you, know how to no longer bully you, take advantage of you。

Many times people's tolerance for others should be limited, you don't have to worry about others every time, but every time you don't worry about others, should you have some of your own ideas.

What about your own thoughts and your own practices, sometimes others say that you have been silent, people think that you have not heard, the next time people still say this about you, or, just keep saying this, until people think you heard, in fact, sometimes you really hear, you just don't want to tell others, don't want to pay attention to others, but people don't think so, people always think that you don't hear other people's words, not according to other people's intentions, so sometimes you still don't think like this, every time you endure like this, there will always be some good results？

Sometimes it's time to end or give up or you have to give up, I remember the boyfriend I just talked about, he was very good to me at first, but then people really didn't want to insist on me, sometimes I felt that I couldn't let go, so I tried to please others, I remember at that time, he told me that girls have long hair is very good-looking, I have never had long hair once since I was a child, but that time I really changed myself for him, I had long hair for the first time, and then, after long hair, he still didn't change anything else for meIn fact, in many cases, when others begin to become indifferent to you, can you really change the outcome and change the situation?

In fact, a lot of the time it doesn't. People have given up, every time you admit your mistakes together, every time you say that you change yourself, in fact, you just find some excuses for yourself, and other people's hearts are dead, not with you, you find so many excuses, find so many reasons to keep, in fact, it is not interesting at all, just to make yourself feel better, sometimes you find that in fact, such words are also self-inflicted, people are no longer interesting, and you have been entangled there, so every time you are hurt by yourself, and you add a lot of trouble to others, there is no need for this。

This is the result I think of today, sometimes every time you admit your mistakes may not necessarily bring good results, and sometimes you really need to use your own mistakes and experience, this failure experience, to create a new beginning, whether it is feelings or other aspects, this time failure, you must tell yourself that you have failed, where the failure is, instead of apologizing to others every time to save something, because it can not be recovered, many times the wrong is wrong, and you can't change anything, and only in the next part of your journey, correct your previous mistakes, and make yourself better, more progressive, so that you can make yourself better, better adapt to the environment, better adapt to the people around you, and let yourself develop better.

In fact, when I said this point of view, the people around me were also very surprised, at the beginning they said, people say you, you just pretend not to hear, don't go to the heart, in fact, I also want to do this, at the beginning I just think it's good to ignore them, they say theirs, I pretend not to hear, but after a long time or not, I feel that if you don't hear, what people say seems to always don't enter your ears, so people will intensify their efforts to say you, knowing that you think you heard until you have heard, sometimes you still have to change your strategy, don't admit mistakes like this every timeIn fact, many things are your own troubles, whether it is at work or in life, a lot of money, reputation and status, are not brought by life and death, compared with your own body, it is also far away, so don't pay attention to those things outside yourself, pay attention to your own body, pay attention to your health, or that's right, but many people often can't do it, every time they are chasing their own interests, chasing their own reputation, chasing their own status, Even for some very simple things, such as promotion titles and the like, it is not interesting to fight, or tear each other down, or to do a good job every time, so that you can be happy at work every day, so that you can work happily every day, live happily, and be the happiest person every day, this is the best life I think, the best life.

In fact, no one in life will embarrass anyone every time, but you have to be yourself, not let others do something for you.

And everyone is very selfish, she can only take care of his own affairs, sometimes even, there are many people who only fight for a little benefit, you just need to take care of yourself, don't take care of other people's affairs, in this way, you can save yourself from being hurt, this is what I want to say today.