Sometimes we find that we see a certain person, we sometimes find that we like this person very much in our hearts, but then we find out that we do different things with him, some people like this way, some people like that way, and we still don't want to force others so much, so reluctant others, in fact, we are just embarrassing others, embarrassing ourselves, and finally we find that we are not happy with each other, we still have to cherish ourselves, to respect others, in the moral class of primary school, because I teach moral character and society this year, I myself have learned some content on it, that is, not all people will be happy to help others, but all people should be ashamed to disturb others, and I myself sometimes intentionally or unintentionally will disturb others, and sometimes no matter what others are busy with, everyone has their own life, and when they are lonely and lonely, they don't know how to relieve their emotions, but to chat with friends, or find friends to go leisure, or to find friends to go shopping, so that maybe just add some trouble to others.

Sometimes we don't want to receive friends, because there is not only economic loss and waste in receiving friends, but also a waste of time, we also don't have such ability, in addition to our own life, there is a mortgage or something, economic pressure, and we are just to maintain our own life, although we earn a low salary, but we can save to live, so that life can barely be maintained, but then I told my husband that we still have to take good care of our own life, don't have so many friendsBecause we simply don't have that much capacity to bear.

Every time someone asks you to go out to a party or something, someone else invites you to eat once or twice, after you invite you to eat ten times, you don't invite someone to eat once, you yourself will feel embarrassed, and in the end, you don't even have to be friends with others, so at the very beginning, we still have to reduce the need for some opportunities, because in this way, others will not feel that you have eaten other people's things, you will not feel that you owe others anything, and the wages we earn ourselves can also be our own nervous life.

We have chosen different friends, and what does such a friend bring to the table? Maybe we don't know at all, some time ago in Guangzhou, my relative also said from afar to let us get together, please eat, and we had money on us at that time only to take care of ourselves, at that time I told my husband that we took a detour, directly from other places to take the train back, but my husband said to tell people to agree, or to meet, at that time I felt very troublesome, because, there are still a lot of embarrassment, the first time to meet the face of the living, there are a lot of polite words, there are a lot of other people are not used to, or to go to eat to waste money, eat other people's or feel embarrassed, this time please eat, will feel a little waste, or eat less when you are with your husband, eat some very simple meals, be able to eat enough, but in this way I found out that it is really a very wasteful rhythm, that day we were together, when we ate less, people will feel that there is no face, and when I eat too much, I will feel that it is a waste, that day, when we first met, I ordered a green vegetable noodle, nine yuan green vegetable noodles should be very cheap in Guangzhou, and it is also the cheapest dish on the menu, I am really not very hungry, I think this is okay, but this is really very facelessWe were also very embarrassed at the time, because we had to catch the train, we had already bought a ticket, so we didn't go to a far place to eat, but at the train station, although it was just a few very simple dishes, but it also cost a lot of money, almost 200 yuan, plus the snacks that relatives bought for us, it was 200 yuan, and we were also very embarrassed, thinking that we owed people, but when I wanted to pay, people didn't let me pay, people were our elders said they should pay, and we were very happy to be juniorsI think whether it is between friends or between relatives should be a dull life, when we have something, we discuss and solve it together, help each other, when there is no matter, there is no need to spend money like this, so waste money, everyone has everyone's life, everyone has everyone's own time, everyone has everyone to be busy with things, and we really wasted the time of relatives that day, maybe he has important things to do that day, and our arrival, people put down the work at hand, and didn't care about us, maybe it is to give us the greatest face.

Sometimes I feel very embarrassed to think of this, because this is the first time I met with relatives, so I didn't think so much, my husband also said that the first time I met people, it was like this, because people also wanted to see us, we haven't seen each other for many years, but also to be able to see each other, and we have very little time to get together, because we are all living in our hometown, and the family is working hard in Guangzhou, so we meet like this, although we also feel the enthusiasm and help of others, but we still feel a little embarrassed。

It's the same for ourselves, we still have to take good care of it, take care of other people's lives, don't always trouble others like this, we must pay attention to take good care of our own lives.

When I write this article, I also hope that my relatives and friends can take good care of themselves, don't trouble others, don't go to add unnecessary trouble to others every time, and really need help when you open your mouth to help your friends, and this will also be to get friends and understand friends, instead of getting together with friends every time you make friends, drinking and chatting when you have nothing to do, so it's not interesting at all, or sink down, do something you like to do, and focus all your time and attention on yourself。