Who says the human heart cannot look directly? (2)

In fact, we also have such and such worries every time, afraid that our things will be lost, afraid that we will suffer some losses, in fact, I also thought of some problems later, such as in life, when we see some dime or two cents on the road now, in fact, many of us don't see it when we see it, why?

Because it's useless for people to pick it up, they can't spend it when they pick it up like this, and now the smallest money is 1 yuan or 2 yuan.

When people encounter these dime or two cents on the road, they pick them up and take them back, what can they do? They can't do anything else except put them in the piggy banks at home, and when they go to the supermarket, they still feel very inconvenient and uncomfortable when they take a few cents to buy things.

Sometimes I still want to scan WeChat or Alipay or the like, so I can pay without change, so now you know a lot of problems, which are not problems, but just your own confusion.

Just such a small problem can explain everything, although it is a very small problem, that is, a dime or two cents, although it is also money, but in the eyes of others, this money is useless to others, so people will not take you, I am too lazy to pick it up when I see it on the road, sometimes I will pick it up, a few days ago I picked up a dime on the road, just because there is a national emblem on this dime, and then the back is a flower-shaped pattern, so I picked it up, if it were not for this national emblem, I think I would not have picked it up, but I still picked it up, because this is the yuanAlthough it is said that the RMB is not used much now, it is still the RMB.

Later, I felt that I was also extremely bored, but I still had a little interest there, because it could reflect my patriotic feelings, although it was also a very simple move, and it was also an expression of my little feelings and feelings.

So I also thought that on the road, whether someone else steals your things, or asks for your things, I think these things should be useful to others, so people will want them, if they are useless to others, what do people want your things to go back to, and people still have to throw them away when they go back, in this way, people have no value and necessity, in fact, it is the same when we are young, every time it is always relatives or other people's families give us some other people's clothes or something.

When I was young, because my family was poor, people gave you some clothes and took them back to wear them, but now the standard of living is gradually improving, who will want other people's old clothes to wear, people's new clothes are so cheap, people are buying new clothes, buying good clothes, people don't want to wear those old clothes, so you give people old clothes, will people want them now?

So in many cases, others steal your things, or ask you for things, should be useful to others, people will steal, if it is useless to others, it is not interesting for people to steal back, for example, my household registration book is the same, for myself is the most precious thing, our family documents, but for others it is really like waste paper, go back to anything top, unless some bad people deliberately boring and evil, will ask for your family these documents.

I also think a lot about such a thing, in fact, the reason is very simple, no matter how many wicked people in society, or those who do wrong things, they all have some kind of need, whether it is rape others, or those who have other criminal acts, I think they all have a certain reason, maybe it is really their own need, I think no one wants to make trouble, they all want to have a peaceful and stable life, and sometimes people will be forced to have no way to make trouble, will do some illegal things, life is often like thisWhen you make trouble, you usually go to make trouble when you are very helpless, and I also found that in fact, many of the people who make trouble are poor, poor, and have nothing.

And those rich people who live very well, rich people, a few people who go to shout and make trouble, on the one hand, they already have a certain quality, people will use appropriate methods to solve problems, will not shout like this, people will take the right way to choose, and then do the most appropriate and rational way.

But those who make trouble, on the one hand, they are uneducated, on the other hand, they may really have no way out, so they will make trouble, and people will make trouble, in fact, sometimes people still have to learn to understand others, whether it is in life or other people, they must be able to let themselves live and let others live, so that there will be no major contradictions.

Life is like this, you can get by, others can get by, no matter what you do in life, you can't go too far, but some people really don't understand this, and it's too much to do things again and again, but if you do it for a long time, someone will make trouble and be dissatisfied.

Through such an incident, I also slowly discovered that in fact, people are very kind in their hearts, especially some people we meet around us.

They are with kindness and gentleness to treat the people around them, but sometimes they are treated unfairly, or when they encounter things, some people have a very bad temper, these are also understandable, you must get along with others well in life, when others are angry, we must not be angry, so that we can communicate better with others, do not want others to be angry when we are more angry, so that it feels like being angry, like fighting, in fact, after a long time, I found that this is not good at all, whether it is with anyone, for a long time, it can only intensify the contradictions between the two sides, increase the emotions of both sidesIt is very detrimental to the harmony between people, so it is still necessary to take good care of the people around you, and let others do well no matter what you do, which is still a good way to do things.

So at any time, please try to think on the good side, although it is not excluded that bad things happen, nor do you rule out that you plan for the worst, but you still have to believe in other people's personality, believe in other people's personality, believe that other people's practices will not hurt your own interests, as long as it does not pose a threat to the interests of others, others will not easily hurt you, this is the truth we should understand.