Chapter 195: Growth, Comprehension
"Working hard, constantly improving professional skills, keeping learning, and constantly accumulating knowledge reserves are all one of the ways to grow, or it can be said to be the key way," Lou Chuanying said softly: "So, you have also graduated for almost a year, have you always kept learning during this time?"
Ren Shanshan was stunned, as if a lightning bolt flashed in her mind, and she suddenly had an epiphany that Lou Chuanying wanted to tell her...... Is there any significance for you to be entangled in those things that you love every day? Can falling in love make you grow up? After all, people are still social animals, and if you want to survive in the community, you must keep up with the pace of social development, even if you are in love and talk well, once you can't keep up with the times, it is equivalent to being out of touch with the times - disconnection and derailment mean the same.
After all, it is a young person, not an old man or an old lady who has retired, and it is terrible to be out of touch with society, which is a key sign of beginning to be eliminated from society.
So it doesn't matter how good your relationship is or how deep your relationship is with anyone......
It may be a bit cruel to say this, but whether it is the international situation or personal life, the logic of the operation of the world has always been the survival of the fittest? Now it is just a cloak of civilization, and the essence remains the same.
Needless to say, adults who have been beaten by society understand this.
So Ren Shanshan was immediately very ashamed, because since she became a regular in the company, she has gradually lost her self-discipline and self-motivation, not to mention keeping studying, and she has not even turned a few pages in the book even after registering for the primary accounting exam...... It's a shame to think about.
If it weren't for the accounting qualification exam, she would have won it in college, and now she is probably pulling her hips.
In the past few months, even the habit of reading books has now become watching TV dramas.
And that's just the learning aspect, there are more other aspects such as personal hygiene, personal image, and exercise...... It was just a brief moment, and Ren Shanshan could think of a lot with a little thought.
It's really a death!
There is also Xiaoyang's classmate who touched the keyboard just now, and after going to the toilet, she still didn't wash her hands, so she just ate the chicken cake with her hand, and drank water from her water cup very casually...... Not to mention that it was when the two first started dating, even when they first moved here, Xiaoyang didn't become like this, at that time, Xiaoyang's towel, toothbrush, and water cup were separated, and they would never be mixed.
Ren Shanshan used to boast that she and Xiaoyang were both fastidious people and could feed each other vegetables, but towels and toothbrushes and water cups would never be mixed, and now ...... Reality slaps you in the face!
So not only her, but also Xiaoyang's classmates began to die, and faster than her, completely no longer on campus...... It can even be said that it is two people.
Ren Shanshan thought a lot, and was ashamed, but she finally realized what she should be doing now, she took Lou Chuanying's hand, and said sincerely: "Thank you, Sister Lou, thank you for waking me up, otherwise in a few years, I will definitely regret that I wasted my good time." ”
Lou Chuanying stayed quietly by the side, until Ren Shanshan finally ended her self-reflection, she smiled and said: "It's good that you can realize it, in fact, I can only give you this advice, because my own marriage is also a failure, as a loser, it is impossible for me to give you advice on your success in terms of feelings." ”
Ren Shanshan said seriously: "That's enough, I also thought just now, if I get entangled, it will not help our future...... Sister Lou, your suggestion is really far-sighted and strategic, and it is the absolute most constructive suggestion. ”
"That's a lot of sycophant! You can, now I'm sure you'll be able to do well in your company. Lou Chuanying suddenly laughed, and walked forward holding Ren Shanshan's hand without seeing the field: "Let's go, hurry back, Wang Qiang's meal should be ready, I saw him making caviar, I have a good mouth tonight." ”
"Brother Qiang can also make caviar?" Ren Shanshan was suddenly surprised.
"I don't know if he can make caviar, but I know that his cooking skills are superb, and he is definitely not inferior to those famous chefs in five-star hotels. Lou Chuanying said with certainty.
"Brother Qiang is so powerful! Then you really have to try Brother Qiang's craftsmanship. Ren Shanshan happily grabbed Lou Chuanying's arm, pasted it directly, and said happily: "Fortunately, Brother Qiang and Sister Xiao Yuer's small restaurant is about to open, and you can go over to eat every day in the future, haha, otherwise I'm really embarrassed to go to Brother Qiang's house every day to eat." ”
Lou Chuanying's body stiffened, and subconsciously dodged a little distance, not letting Ren Shanshan's body stick to his arm.
Ren Shanshan also realized that Lou Chuanying was probably really a bit of a phobia of contact and didn't like to get too close to others...... Everyone has their own habits, there is nothing wrong with this, and it will not affect Ren Shanshan's gratitude and closeness to Lou Chuanying.
It's just that Ren Shanshan can't help but imagine it in her selfish heart...... Well, how did Lou Chuanying and her ex-husband get married? When the two were close...... Is there really an intimate action?
However, Ren Shanshan didn't dare to ask, so she had to hold back, and wait until she was mature to a certain extent.
Ren Shanshan was immediately relieved, kept this distance, and suddenly remembered something, and said: "By the way, Sister Lou, what do you think of Brother Qiang and Sister Xiaoyuer, they ...... Is there a play?"
Lou Chuanying shook his head very dryly: "Unless Wang Qiang can't control his lower half and does something that must be responsible, the two of them will not have results...... And Wang Qiang didn't obviously refuse just now, I think Xiao Xiao also understood, and listening to her, Wang Qiang should not be the first time to refuse her...... It's just that she shouldn't die so quickly, so I think they will fight for a while, and then if there are no accidents, Xiao Xiao will really die. ”
Wow! I see it so thoroughly! It feels so sharp!
Sure enough, she is worthy of being a woman who is not scolding her best friend's ex-boyfriend, not only has a strong heart, but also has a long-term vision, and she also looks at problems very sharply.
In an instant, Ren Shanshan almost couldn't help but ask Lou Chuanying what happened to her and Xiaoyang's classmates...... Well, I couldn't bear it.
The two women were holding a bottle of drink, and as soon as they walked into the community, they saw a red Audi A4 parked in the community.
"Are there any people here who can afford to drive such a luxury car?" Ren Shanshan said with some surprise.
"Wang Qiang is not just buying a house here, more than 200,000 yuan, don't underestimate anyone. Lou Chuanying said with a smile: "And the Audi A4 is not a luxury car, at most...... Even if it's an entry-level luxury car. ”
"The entry-level ones are also very good. Ren Shanshan muttered in a low voice: "Of course, Brother Qiang is also very powerful, and it is also very powerful to be able to borrow more than 200,000 yuan, in fact, I envy him, with a house, he can finally gain a firm foothold in this city." ”
Lou Chuanying wanted to say at that time: The house is just an accessory, the place that can make you feel at ease is your home, and having a house does not mean that you can gain a firm foothold in a city, otherwise the meaning of standing firm is too narrow......
Fortunately, Lou Chuanying endured it in time, otherwise if such words were really said, it would be very bad. And after all, that's just her own idea, she can't impose her own ideas on others, others also have the right to have their own ideas.