Chapter 30 Harming others is not good for oneself
Pinkeye, a characteristic disease. Many people have this disease, and this disease is common in all kinds of middle-aged women (women and men) who do not see well.
Because people are middle-aged, many people can only accept their fate. I don't want to change things that I can't change. If you can't work hard, you won't work hard.
Instead, they will blame the will of God for many things, and blame the wealth of others on the improper source of their wealth.
For example, if someone makes money, they will mutter, "Hmph, who knows where this money came from." β
If it's a pretty girl who makes money, they'll say, "I don't know how many people sleep outside." β
If it was a man who made the money, they would say, "I must have done something illegal, otherwise where did I get so much money, and I would know that there is social injustice now." That is, law-abiding people like me can't make money. β
If you know relatives and neighbors who have become officials, don't look at their happy appearance on the surface, and they will not say anything less about the yin and yang behind their backs.
"Phew, the official word has two mouths, and the thing that is hated by the black hand. I'm not afraid of having a son. β
"I know that this Zhang kid has been slapping horses since he was a child. This kind of person has long been seen, and he is suitable for being a sycophant in officialdom. It's a pity that I'm a person like me who can't please the leader, and I'm still a deputy head after 20 years, hey~"
In short, such people will definitely find all kinds of excuses for their failures.
Do you think that if you don't succeed, if you don't get rich and don't become an official, such a person won't talk about yourself behind your back? Hehe, no.
If a person is promoted and makes a fortune, then this group of "rabbit people" still has a superficial compliment. So if you don't get promoted and get rich, you are mediocre relatives and friends, and they happen to have a higher living condition than others, then all kinds of yin and yang words will come out.
If the children in the family are not married, then they will ask you in a variety of seemingly caring tones.
"Oh, your children are all thirty, aren't they married? Don't be too picky, now there are more men and fewer women, and it's not okay to jump around. You see, the girl I introduced to your son last time was very nice. Although the person is a little shorter, he is only one meter six, although he is a little fatter, he has one hundred and forty pounds. Although the education is a little lower, only junior high school graduates, although the money earned is less, although the person is not so good-looking. But it's a good match for your son!"
If a girl in the family is married, they will jump out and talk about yin and yang in various ways that care about the marital status.
"Yo, your daughter got married some time ago. Where did you marry? It's not local, and it's still a loan to buy a house in the city. It's just a small white-collar worker who usually goes to work. Oops, I said. Didn't I introduce your daughter to a nice match? If you run a supermarket at home, you have a full-money house and a car in the city. β
"What? Your daughter doesn't like it yet. Stupid or not, people don't look good, and they're older. But what does it matter, people can provide a good life. You don't have to repay the mortgage for your house and car, and if your daughter gets married, she doesn't even have to go to work, and she can enjoy being a full-time wife at home. β
That's what this group of red-eyed bunny people does. It can be said that there will be more or less such relatives and friends around anyone, and there may even be many.
They are narrow-minded, red-eyed and black-hearted, and they are complete villains. And these people are still very troublesome and difficult to deal with, because they will remember a little thing for a lifetime.
Just like Jiang Hua's parents, Jiang Aijun and Wang Qian, there are many such people around them.
You have to say that it is impossible to completely cut off contact with these people, because there are many people who can still use it, and some people are local snakes in Shuangqing, after all, the Jiang family is in business. These people may not be able to help them in business, but if they want to hold a grudge, then they are good at causing trouble for you, so I can only say that I have less contact with these people.
But for such a big thing as Jiang Hua's marriage, these people will always invite some. Otherwise, in the future, these people will feel that they have lost face because of this matter, so if they get stuck in the fire water and electricity of the hot pot restaurant, it may make people uncomfortable to death.
The favorite thing of these three aunts and six wives is to gossip. For example, spread the gossip of the Jiang Hua family, which can make them happy to death.
Because Jiang Hua's family has developed so well, Jiang Aijun and Wang Qian are husband and wife, and they have never heard of any conflicts for so many years.
In the past, Jiang Hua could be used to make fun of himself and stabilize himself, although Jiang Aijun and Wang Qian had a good life, but they gave birth to such an ugly and fat daughter. In this way, these people still have a balance in their hearts.
However, since Jiang Hua successfully lost weight and began to rise step by step in his career, the last thing that can be laughed at is gone. It's so unpleasant.
Of course, as Jiang Hua gets older, these three aunts and six wives have found a new point of joy, that is, Jiang Hua has no object.
Look, what's the use of being beautiful and having a career, it's not that there are no men who want it. Women, what's the point of not getting married and not having children? These three aunts and six wives secretly don't know how many yin and yang weird things they say.
But today, they can't even say something like that. Because Jiang Hua is going to get married tomorrow, it seems that he can't even make fun of the other party for not getting married.
And the wedding poster of Jiang Hua and Zhang Tong is posted at the entrance of the hotel, handsome men and beautiful women, looking like a match made in heaven. Looks like she's married very well.
What should we do if we want to see the jokes of the Jiang Hua family? In this way, we will not be able to find a sense of superiority from the Jiang Hua family!
But there is no endless road, I just heard someone talking about Jiang Hua's fiancΓ© Zhang Tong in the cafeteria. Okay, don't look at this kid who looks like a dog, it turns out that he is a small owner of a small restaurant.
And it's also the kind of free three waiters, the owner of a small restaurant who can't be smaller, and he doesn't know if he can earn 20,000 yuan a month.
In this way, the psychology is balanced.
See, there's no such thing as perfection in life. Jiang Hua just didn't marry well.
Oh, I still have to talk to Wang Qian about this.
So there was a group of three aunts and six mothers-in-law who deliberately went to Wang Qian and Jiang Aijun to play mahjong at night. This kind of Shuangqing people's favorite recreational activity is a quasi.
Everyone got together two tables of mahjong, and it was a good game.
When it was about the second round, I didn't know that the one suddenly said: "Wang Qian, I heard that your son-in-law is a small restaurant?
Some people in this world just like to harm others and not to themselves,