Chapter 57 Let's face reality
"A traitor, a big-headed ghost, three female hooligans!"
Ye Qingling slapped Guo Jinghong's ass angrily, and said with a smile, "We're really just ordinary friends, at least...... At least for now, ordinary friends. ”
The three of them looked at each other, and they all saw the look of shock in each other's eyes.
Ye Qingling, who even Zhao Huaiyuan couldn't look down on Prince Charming, actually said such a thing.
Doesn't this show that you have a good impression of this boy who delivers sushi?!
"Oh my God, you actually let go, who is this boy sacred, I'm afraid it's not a Forps 500 at home, right?!" Lu Jinling exclaimed.
"Not necessarily, he didn't drive but rode a bicycle, and he felt more like those low-key officials, the second and third generations!" Sun Xiaolan analyzed.
"Well, that makes sense. Guo Jinghong nodded, "I also feel more like Yanei." ”
"Don't think I'm so worldly, who said I had to find a rich and powerful boyfriend. ”
Ye Qingling said, "What I appreciate is his excellent quality of daring to stand up in times of crisis, let's be honest with you, he is the boy who rescued me from Lu Feng's knife!"
"It turned out to be him!" the three of them looked at each other, and their hearts were relieved.
It's no wonder, that guy looks mediocre, the bike is still a little broken (but if it's a good car, who loads the basket in the back seat), it doesn't look like he is rich and powerful.
It turned out that it was taking advantage of the beauty and the hero that pry Ye Qingling's heart.
"Qingling, although this sentence will make you unhappy, but as your best friend, a person who has come over, I still have to remind you,"
Lu Jinling said, "If you want to talk about a first love that can grow old, it is far from enough to only consider love, you must also consider practical issues."
You must know that excellent quality cannot be eaten.
During your college years, maybe you can go out once in a while and have a good meal.
But when you enter the society, when you really want to talk about marriage, a series of problems such as cars and houses will become mountains that cannot be bypassed, and finally let you fly apart. ”
She raised her hand to stop Sun Xiaolan, who wanted to refute, "Don't say anything that you are willing to fight together."
All four of us are members of the student union, and we are all responsible for the investigation and follow-up of graduates.
As far as Donghai Vocational and Technical College is concerned, it has no gold content in the society at all.
Except for those who have backgrounds, have won medals in national skills competitions, start businesses, and graduate students from our college, few of them have a salary of more than 8,000!
Even those old seniors who have worked for more than ten years can earn more than 10,000 yuan a month.
With this amount of money, even if both men and women work hard together, it is impossible to buy a suite in a place like Tokai City, where every inch of land is at a premium. ”
Lu Jinling's words silenced the bedroom.
It is said that girls mature earlier than boys, so once you start a relationship, you will inevitably make plans for the distant future.
Are Lu Jinling's words realistic?
The reality is almost harsh.
But was she wrong?
It doesn't seem to be ......
After two years of college in Tokai, they have already adapted to life in the city and naturally hope to stay after graduation.
If you don't buy a house in Donghai City, even if the slogan of "Welcome New Donghai People" is loud, in the final analysis, it is just rootless duckweed.
"Jin Ling, you're in the mood for me to eat sushi......" Guo Jinghong hugged his knees and pouted.
She found a boyfriend who was also a foreigner, and she had no money, no power, no medals.
She usually can't think about the cruel graduation moment in the future, but now she is being dissected in front of her blood, not to mention how depressed she is.
"I didn't say you have to be single or have to find a second generation,"
Lu Jinling said, "I just want to say that if you want to fall in love with someone you like in college, don't think about fairy tales about growing old."
The lower the expectations, the less disappointed and sad there will be in the future. ”
"Jin Ling. Ye Qingling suddenly read her name.
"Huh?"
"Have you ever heard the phrase 'the world is impermanent' and 'the mountains will fall, and everyone will run'?"
"Heard, what's wrong?"
Not to mention that no matter who you are with, you may break up, even if you get married, there is a probability of about 35% of divorce.
Just from the statistics I've seen.
Entrepreneurs can run a company for more than 10 years, and 95% of companies will go out of business in the first three years.
Let's talk about those second generations.
Jin Ling, do we see less news about business bankruptcy and corrupt officials falling every day?
Behind those news, isn't it a story of the destruction of the second generation?
It can be seen that excellent quality may not be able to be eaten, and the money and power from the elders may not be converted into a lifetime of stability. ”
Ye Qingling said, "I don't want to refute your statement by giving these examples, because I think yours is quite reasonable.
If you want to talk about a love that can grow old, practical problems are indeed unavoidable.
But I also want to be reminded.
If you want to rely on your other half's family background to gain a firm foothold in Donghai City, its success rate is actually not higher than working hard with a boy who loves each other.
Everyone will run, and the mountains will fall.
Speaking of which, if we want to stay in the city to work and live, we still have to work on our own. ”
The beautiful girl looked up at the balcony and gazed at the bright crescent moon hanging high in the night sky.
"I like Donghai very much, but if after many years of struggle, I still can't afford to buy a house, and I still have to choose between my beloved and the city, I will not hesitate to choose the former."
It's nice to have a house, of course, but it's more important for me to be with someone I love. ”
She winked playfully at Guo Jinghong, who was touched, "And my parents live in a small city, and they live quite happily."
From this, it can be seen that staying in the big city has nothing to do with happiness or not, right?"
"Well, Ye Zi is right!"
Guo Jinghong nodded vigorously, "Big cities have the good of big cities, and small cities also have the happiness of small cities, as long as you love each other, life is the same wherever you go!"
"That's right, there is no place for my sister here!"
Sun Xiaolan got up with a grunt, made a posture of hard work, and said, "And with the ability of our four sisters, even if we don't rely on men, we will definitely be able to buy a house in the East China Sea and break through, hahaha!"
"Well said, ambitious!" Ye Qingling picked up a piece of salmon sushi, dipped it in thick mustard and fed it, "Come, award you a sushi!"
"Whew!" Sun Xiaolan ate it in one bite, and directly choked with tears, "Stinky leaves, you murder me!"
The three of them laughed.
Lu Jinling looked at the three of them with high morale, and secretly shook her head in her heart.
Alas, sure enough, she is still a little girl in the ivory tower, and she sees society too simply, and I am afraid that she will be bruised all over her body in the future.
Picking up a piece of grilled eel sushi and eating it, she stared blankly at the moon.
When she was a freshman, she also vowed with a boy that she would never be separated for the rest of her life, but what happened to the result......
It's just that there was a little change in his family, and he asked him to borrow 5,000 yuan, and the boy was so frightened that he broke off contact, and there has been no news so far.
The male college students who rely on their parents to support them are the most unreliable, and they are not as good as the migrant workers who move bricks on the construction site!
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