"Can we women really only be the other half of the man, not ourselves?"

Xu Shenyu stared at Zhao Qingshan laughing with a few playmates over there, and asked as if he was talking to himself, as if he was unwilling to admit a certain fact.

We?

He Qing wanted to say, when did you start to learn to think from a woman's point of view, but realized that Xu Shenyu seemed to have fallen into deep thought.

He Qing was very happy about Xu Shenyu's change in this regard, because of Xu Shenyu, she had secretly read a lot of books on homosexuality.

There are many causes of this disease, including congenital causes, most of which are physiological factors, such as the influence of genetics, hormone levels, brain structure, etc., and acquired psychological and social factors, such as childhood environment, adolescent experience, and environmental factors that cause so-called "situational homosexuality".

Xu Shenyu's situation should belong to the childhood environment, that is, the family environment.

As far as she knew, Xu Shenyu and her parents rarely talked to each other on the phone, and almost every time they called, they would make a big noise.

During the four years of getting along in college, He Qing gradually learned that Xu Shenyu was very dissatisfied with the emotional state of his parents.

This may be the root cause of her homosexuality, feeling that love and marriage are not sacred but dirty, and that same-sex is simple and beautiful.

He Qing never felt how kind she was, what she cared about was literacy, simply put, she was doing herself, although she was not gay, she was not averse to homosexuality, at best she felt awkward.

So she doesn't care at all if others are gay or not, and if the person Xu Shenyu likes is not her, she won't mind at all, and she won't even be stingy with her blessings.

But Xu Shenyu likes her, which makes her feel an inexplicable sense of guilt, and feels that it is her fault not to break Xu Shenyu straight, so she really hopes to see that one day, Xu Shenyu can try to like a man.

Even if that man is his husband.

Of course, she also knew that this was impossible, although the two had often "flirted and scolded" during this period of time, this could not eliminate Xu Shenyu's disgust and hatred for Zhao Qingshan.

Like rivals? It's funny to think about.

During this time, Xu Shenyu lived under the same roof with several men and boys, and he didn't leave, and the one who suffered the most was actually He Qing.

It's not a good feeling to be liked by my girlfriend and get tired of being together all day long.

It's just that Zhao Qingshan didn't really want to get rid of her, or he wanted to get rid of her and hoped that someone could accompany him, so Zhao Qingshan didn't show a resolute attitude.

He Qing simply let it be, and Xu Shenyu would naturally leave when he wanted to.

Moreover, He Qing also wants to take advantage of such an environment, hoping that she can learn more about men, and maybe she will change her view of men and love unconsciously.

Hope bears fruit?

He Qing wasn't sure, but at least a small fresh flower had bloomed.

There was a lot of fun playing games over there, and He Qing drank mineral water without interrupting Xu Shenyu's contemplation.

Just a few minutes later, Xu Shenyu suddenly turned his head, looked at He Qing, and said a little self-deprecatingly: "Qingqing, I kind of understand why you married him, there are indeed many things, but he can do it but I can't." ”

He Qing was a little overwhelmed, this was the first time Xu Shenyu had said it so bluntly.

She stroked her belly, which was still inconspicuous, a little embarrassed, and said casually: "Of course, a woman can't be a father." ”

Xu Shenyu smiled dismally and said slowly: "My extremely macho father-in-law once said that since ancient times, whoever can dominate the war is the master of this world, and men may be able to play the princes for women, but the world never belongs to women.

I didn't agree with it at the time, and found a large number of strong women at home and abroad who controlled the great power to fight back, and he said very rudely, no matter how invincible a woman is, if she is not pressed by a man, it is just a flash in the pan, and there is no glory without the continuation of children and grandchildren. ”

He Qing said: "This topic is too big. ”

Xu Shenyu continued: "He said that any great dynasty is built on bloodline, and without bloodline, it is equivalent to duckweed without roots, and it can be easily defeated in a short period of time. I have never said that I can't win against him on this kind of topic, the reason why he is full of fighting spirit is because he has no son, I always feel that no matter how I lose verbally, I am invincible, you say, is not having a son is a great mockery for him?"

The more powerful people are, the more they hope that they will have more children and grandchildren, and the countless fandels of the three palaces and six courtyards of the ancient emperors are not necessarily the emperors' obsession with beauty, but to ensure that the bloodline is forever solid.

This kind of thinking is deeply ingrained, not only for men, but also for women, how many people do not have the idea of inheritance?

Take 10,000 steps back, and the succession is also human, where can the family enjoy the joy of life without children?

He Qing didn't understand why Xu Shenyu suddenly talked about the incomparably complicated topic of blood, she just moved her hands placed on her abdomen.

With a gentle expression, he said, "I also want to give Qingshan a son." ”

Xu Shenyu said before that no matter how much it was, it was all foreshadowing, and she also wanted to do an experiment on a whim, she was curious: "What if he already has a son?"

He Qing naturally didn't take it seriously, and said with a smile: "Then give birth to a grandson for my parents, Qingshan promised my parents, our first child is surnamed He, I hope this little guy is a boy, as soon as I get married, my parents want to go crazy when they think of their grandson, and now every time they call, they beg me to go back to Xiangnan, for fear that Qingshan will not be able to take care of me due to his busy work." ”

"What's the first child's last name?"

Xu Shenyu muttered.

Could it be that Zhao Qingshan already knew about the existence of that child?

Xu Shenyu shook his head, there should be no such possibility, otherwise his acting skills would be too good.

She always wanted to tell He Qing that Zhao Qingshan didn't care about Zhao Qingshan's crime at all, but she never found the right time.

If the relationship between Zhao Qingshan and He Qing needs a nuclear bomb to explode, then the incident that Zhao Qingshan has an illegitimate child in her grasp is at best a main battle tank.

Because the illegitimate child was born long before the relationship between the two was confirmed, with He Qing's temperament, let alone crying, making trouble, and hanging himself, he may treat the illegitimate child as his own.

Therefore, only when it is thrown at a critical moment, the main battle tank may be more powerful than a nuclear bomb, such as catching Zhao Qingshan in bed, and all kinds of ugly things can add up to make He Qing have a subversive understanding of Zhao Qingshan's character.

Xu Shenyu is just doing a basic test now, but unfortunately the effect is far from as ideal as she imagined.

The average woman will definitely ask what it means to have a son?

Or they will take this kind of question of their girlfriend as a reminder and a warning on the spot.

He Qing just continued the topic that Zhao Qingshan already had a son, and didn't feel that there was anything wrong with this setting at all.

For Xu Shenyu, this feeling is like a heavy punch on cotton, not to mention the waste of strength, it is also extremely worrying.

The word love is not shallow.

It was more than five o'clock in a blink of an eye, Zhao Qingshan proposed to his wife to find a nearby restaurant for dinner, He Qing, who had vowed to go home for dinner, did not object, but He Qing stipulated that he must go home after eating.

During the summer vacation, Gege invited Feng Yunyu and Qingqing to dinner, and Zhao Qingshan must have remembered He Qing as well, so when ordering food, He Qing was not subtle at all, and took the hostess's pie and ordered several big dishes.

"Are you sure you don't want to wait for Junzi?" Zhao Qingshan asked again after ordering.

He asked when he was playing the game, and Gege said that Junzi had a temporary customer offer, and he went out early in the morning, and he didn't say when he would come back.

"No need, I just called, and Junko said that there are still activities at night when I accompany the customer to dinner, so I don't need to wait for him. Gege waved his hand.

"When did he start to be so motivated?" Zhao Qingshan asked with a smile.

It must be stressful for Junzi to have such a girlfriend on the stall, and doing a good job is indeed the first element for him to fight a protracted battle.

Otherwise, no matter how much Gege has a soft spot, if he can't cross the threshold of Gege's parents, it will be a great regret after all.

After experiencing Tang Yanyun's experience, Zhao Qingshan understood the importance of being the right person, although Shunzi is also from the countryside, but after graduating from a prestigious university, he now has a decent job.

When it came time to talk about marriage, .asxs. was much higher than Zhao Qingshan at that time, but Zhao Qingshan still didn't have much hope for the relationship between the two.

In front of the family background, love is often too small, because it is the right of parents to beat mandarin ducks with a stick, and you can only stand it when you hit it with a stick, and you can't fight back, and you can't fight back.

In front of the parents who love a woman, no man is qualified to say that the person who loves their daughter the most in the world is himself.

"Today. Gege said firmly, and she couldn't help but think of Junko's last night

Speech.

"Looks like there's a bit of a story in that. Looking at Gege's reminiscence, Zhao Qingshan teased with a smile.

It's just that when it comes to his brother, Zhao Qingshan is inevitably a little pessimistic.

Junko has already planted a heel on a girl, although it can't be called so tragic, but it must be unforgettable.

Fortunately, Junko will definitely feel that such a girl is not worth it when she looks back, but what if it is changed to Gege?

If one day the two really separate for some external reasons, can Junko still be willing?

Children are afraid of love, and they are afraid of love and hatred.

"Well, a beautiful story. Gege generously admitted, but he didn't plan to share this story, not to mention that the story itself involved Zhao Qingshan himself.

"Gege, wait a minute, I'll drink with you, my brother is either hospitalized or injected and taken medicine all year round, my sister-in-law is pregnant again, Brother Dashu doesn't drink and Brother Xiong wants to drive, Yuzi and I will accompany you to have a drink." Zhao Qingqing said angrily.

pointed to everyone and counted around, and it was obvious that he regarded Gege as the protagonist of today, just like his brother and sister-in-law.

Zhao Qingshan's eyes lit up, this girl already knows the lively atmosphere?

It seems that more than one or two aspects have improved, and the interesting thing is that even at this moment, my sister has not forgotten to deliberately ignore Xu Shenyu's stinky girl, it seems that it is really a five-element offense.

"Don't pull me up, lest Brother Shunzi think that I am plotting against Gege. Feng Yunyu waved his hand again and again.

"Stinky boy, it's fun to flirt with Bengege, isn't it?"

Gege made a gesture to throw chopsticks and hit someone, but of course it was impossible to really throw them, put down the chopsticks and said provocatively: "Xiao Yuzi, it's not that Bengege looks down on you, you can't see enough to drink three." ”

"Ouch, I'm so grumpy!Master, I'm here to help you fight for face, you can't drink too badly, right?" Feng Yunyu immediately accepted the challenge, Lu Dongye can still scare a little girl from the Northeast!

"Drink white?" Zhao Qingqing said innocently, she rarely drinks alcohol, and other wines are easy to say, but no matter how good the liquor is, she finds it difficult to eat, and it is obvious that she is a little withdrawn.

"You don't have to be so serious, right?" Gege was a little flattered.

She didn't know if this was Zhao Qingshan's hint, or if these two little kids really treated her as a sister.

But at this moment, she felt that she should really integrate into this family-like small circle.

It's not a circle like Ou Lang Cui Ling, who usually has fun and helps a little favor to do some heart-warming things that add icing on the cake, but a circle that can work together to pull a hand when encountering big things.

The icing on the cake Zhao Qingshan may ignore it, just like last night when she went to cheer Zhao Qingshan but explicitly refused to accompany her, but Zhao Qingshan will definitely do something to send charcoal in the snow, this is the treatment of entering this circle.

In the past, Zhao Qingshan only regarded her as Shunzi's girlfriend, but now it may not be the case, because she is still the sister of Feng Yunyu and Zhao Qingqing.

"It can be more realistic. Gege, you help me treat this cowhide king who can drink three catties of liquor. Zhao Qingshan was happy to watch the play, and got up to see what wine was in the wine cabinet.

"I'm talking about three catties of rice wine, Master, you're mistaken. Feng Yunyu said with a weak heart, mainly because he was afraid that he would lose face if he lost the wine.

"Qingqing can't drink white. He Qing admonished.

"Then I'll drink red wine with her. Xu Shenyu said expressionlessly.

Zhao Qingqing just wanted to thank her sister-in-law for her understanding, and when she heard Xu Shenyu's provocation, she immediately glared at the other party fiercely!

Gotcha, these two guys are on the bar again.

Drinking white wine hurts his stomach, Zhao Qingshan said that he wanted Gege, who has no bottomless amount of wine, to educate Feng Yunyu, but what he brought over was a few bottles of red wine, although red wine can also be intoxicating, but it is good not to drink one or two bottles into the hospital, rest assured that the four of them will drink it.

The wine is hard to fight, and the food is happy.

Halfway through the meal, Zhao Qingshan's mobile phone rang.

He Qing noticed that when Zhao Qingshan saw the mobile phone number for the first time, his face changed significantly.

She has never seen this situation before, a mobile phone number can make her husband feel scared?

Later, Zhao Qingshan said that she was going out to answer a phone call, which added to her worries.

Two minutes later, Zhao Qingshan returned to the dining table as if nothing had happened, but he didn't sit down, facing his wife and stopping.

He Qing smiled and said, "If there is anything, you can deal with it." ”

Zhao Qingshan said guiltily: "Go back early after eating, and call you later." ”