So, Sister Wu's husband continued to lose money.

But he didn't let go, and he had gone mad.

Because she was always absent from work and was distracted at work, Sister Wu's husband was fired from the unit.

So studying lottery tickets and buying lottery tickets became Sister Wu's husband's only job.

He is no longer satisfied with the kind of lottery ticket that he bought today, but only won a few days later.

He felt too slow.

As a result, Sister Wu's husband became obsessed with instant lottery tickets.

The lottery is drawn once in ten minutes.

Divide the money right away.

More exciting, more enjoyable.

It's very exciting, it's very enjoyable.

Although I won a few times, I lost money faster this way.

It's so fast that you don't even notice it.

So, Sister Wu's husband, who dreamed of making a fortune, lost all the money for buying a house in his family.

Now, although Sister Wu is actually quite profitable in making clothes, because of such a husband, her life is tight.

And Sister Wu's husband, stimulated by the shattering of her dream of getting rich again and again, began to drink heavily.

When he gets drunk, he beats his wife.

Spanking the child.

Then, when the wine sobers up, he begins to apologize.

Slap yourself in the face, saying that you are not human.

I'm never going to do it again.

Ask for your wife's forgiveness.

......

Hearing this, I couldn't help but speak.

"Sister Wu, do you still believe such nonsense? Do you believe that he will change? How can this person change!"

Sister Wu shook her head: "At first, I still believed it, but later, I didn't believe it anymore, this man is hopeless." ”

I nodded, "yes, so what's there to be nostalgic for in such a marriage? Why don't you get a divorce?"

Sister Wu's tears flowed.

"I'm for the sake of the children, I'm afraid that if I get divorced, the children won't be able to accept it, and I'm afraid that it will affect the children's learning. I am afraid that my child will be bullied because he does not have a father. Really, I admit all the hardships I have suffered, but I don't want my son to be bullied. I thought, when my kids go to college, I'll get a divorce!"

I was speechless for a while.

Thoughts like Sister Wu are still very common among women.

Don't care if your husband is no longer a person, don't care if he cheats, cheats, gambles, domestic violence or is lazy, but for the sake of the children, they all choose to endure it.

It seems that this is the case for the good of the child.

Is it really good for children?

Let children watch their parents quarrel every day?

Let the children watch them smash dishes and smash bowls every day?

Let the child know that his dad is out drinking?

Watching your mother wash her face with tears every day?

Indeed, an incomplete family has a great impact on the growth of children.

Causing psychological problems in children.

But a family where parents don't love each other can hurt their children even more!

Under the banner of being for the sake of the child, maintaining an emotionless marriage will only make the child inferior, extreme, indifferent, and rebellious.

......

"Sister Wu, you're so stupid. By doing this, you are harming yourself first, and there is no happiness in such a marriage. Secondly, you hurt your husband, because of your connivance, so he is more and more addicted to this unrealistic dream of getting rich, the whole person is confused, without energy, can only be in the anesthesia of alcohol, bastard for a lifetime. In the end, you hurt your child. Do you think that you have been wronged and given him a complete family for his good? No, living in such a family full of violence, disappointment, and quarrels, do you know how bitter a child's heart is? There is no love in his heart, it is all hatred, how can you let him study hard? How can he grow up healthily? I heard it just now, and he said that when he grows up, if his father does it again, he will beat his father. Do you think it's just a joke? Is it a child's word that can be ignored? I'm telling you no. When a boy who has lacked love since childhood and has always been subjected to domestic violence grows up, he is likely to become violent and irritable, and even the tragedy of father and son cannibalism. ”

With my words, I saw the cold sweat on Sister Wu's face coming out layer by layer.

She sat down on the ground with a "plop".

"Am I wrong?"

"Am I hurting my child by doing this?"

"Yes, you're right, their teacher has already told me that the child is very withdrawn at school, unsociable, doesn't like to make friends, and often quarrels with classmates, and once even did it. But I was only busy with business, and I didn't take it seriously, thinking that it was just a child playing around, but now I understand when I hear you say, this is all affected by the family. ”

Speaking of which.

Sister Wu suddenly got up from the ground.

And then very seriously. Give me a bow.

"Qiao Huanxi, thank you! These words of yours have woken me up! I am divorced! I will not live with that bastard for a day! I will find a good man in the future, and if I can't find me, I will live with my son, and I must not let my son be wronged again!"

Then, bow me again.

"I'm so ashamed, I treated you like that before, but you still helped me like this, I am so ashamed. ”

"Okay, okay, I don't have any deep hatred with you, it's all about making more money. I comforted her.

"Mom, are you really going to divorce Dad? Great!"

Sister Wu's son suddenly ran over from behind.

Listening to this, it turned out to be that we had overheard our conversation.

"Son, why are you here? Didn't you ask you to do your homework?"

"Mom, my dad didn't let me do my homework, let me count the lottery numbers with him, I didn't want to, he tore up my math books, saying that it was useless to learn this, and I couldn't get rich. Later, when I saw that you didn't take the wine back for a long time, and you lost your temper at home, I asked me to come to you. So Mom, I really want you to get a divorce, I really don't want to live with that man anymore. Sister Wu's son said excitedly.

"Son, it's my mother who is not good, my mother is sorry for you, but not in the future. Mom will take you away, we will move and let you transfer schools. Sister Wu hugged her son and said apologetically.

Hearing this, I interjected: "What are you doing moving?"

Sister Wu was stunned: "Move to another place to continue business?"

I smiled: "Sister Wu, it's all like this, do you think you need to go somewhere else?" Continue to set up stalls in the night market, as long as you don't trouble me anymore, we can do our own thing." ”

Yes, I forgive Sister Wu.

Because after listening to Sister Wu's story, I feel that this woman is really not easy.

Now they all apologize to me for admitting their mistakes.

Be forgiving and forgiving.

After all, we are not mortal enemies, and I don't need to kill her.

is still the same sentence, even if I don't look at Sister Wu's face, I have to look at her son's face.

Give Sister Wu a chance to mend her ways.

......

One more thing to say, later, Sister Wu and her husband finally divorced.

The man saw that Sister Wu was really going to divorce, stopped drinking, and stopped buying lottery tickets, so he began to cry bitterly and begged Sister Wu for forgiveness.

But Sister Wu was determined and finally divorced.

After a few years, the family was reorganized and lived happily.

Sister Wu has also lost weight, and her temper is becoming more and more gentle.

And what is the most amazing part of Sister Wu's story?

It was not long after Sister Wu divorced her husband, once, Sister Wu took the bus, but there was no change.

There happened to be a lottery shop on the side of the road.

Sister Wu hated things like lottery tickets before.

I feel like my life was ruined by the lottery.

But this time, in order to get change, Sister Wu could only buy a few lottery tickets casually.

As a result, I won 300,000.

Enough for a down payment to buy a house.

It's a wonderful world.

And Sister Wu was very sober and did not continue to buy, so that her winning rate was maintained at 100%.

And Sister Wu's husband has a wonderful life.

After the divorce, he continued to indulge in gambling.

In the end, because it was really impossible to win the lottery.

Unexpectedly, he forged a lottery ticket to claim the prize, and finally sent himself to prison.

......

Hearing my words, Sister Wu was overjoyed.

"Really? Can I really continue to set up a stall in the night market? Brother Fei, won't those people trouble me? Yes, you said that you let me go, of course those little brothers don't dare to make trouble anymore. They want to embarrass me, but they also want to give you face as a sister-in-law and give you anger. ”

"Sister Wu, I really don't lie to you, Xu Fei and I are not the kind of relationship you think, but I won't let them embarrass you. I sighed.

I really feel the power of the scandal.

Although it has no wings, scandals can fly over thousands of mountains and rivers and into thousands of households in an instant.

Overnight, everyone seemed to know that I was the eldest brother's woman.

Where do I go to reason?

I thought Sister Wu didn't believe it either.

How do you know that Sister Wu nodded: "Well, I believe your words, because you are so powerful, Xu Fei's angry eldest brother is not worthy of you." Even if you want to follow the big brother, you have to follow the big brother in the city! Joy, you are also a woman, if you are a man, I believe you can become the best big brother in the city! Really, I can feel that there is a murderous aura in you. ”

Obviously, Sister Wu remembered the scene when I was threatened with scissors.

I waved my hand: "Forget it, don't lift me up, how can I have any murderous aura? ”

Sister Wu looked at me and stopped talking.

But in the end, he mustered up the courage and whispered to me, "That little jade...... Can she come back and continue setting up her stall?"

I shook my head: "You can, she can't." ”

Naturally, I won't say yes easily.

As I said, I'm a very vindictive person.

I remember very clearly that it was Xiaoyu who brought Erlong and provoked me in front of me.

Relying on her coquettishness, her appearance, she will seduce men.

Let Erlong be willing to do things for her.

Although I don't have an aversion to coquettish women.

I don't think there's anything to reproach a woman for trading her looks for.

Because the body is a woman's own, how to use it is her freedom.

Even, this is the talent of many women, and it is the means they rely on to earn a living.

Others have no right to interfere, let alone point fingers.

As long as she is not married, she does not destroy other people's families.

I just wouldn't do that myself.

Although I already know that I have the capital to be coquettish.

I don't want to be coquettish.

To be honest, I'm not very coquettish.

I'm smart though, so I can learn if I want to.

It will even learn well and be excellent.

But I think women still have to rely on themselves.

Can't rely on men.

But I hate that there are women who threaten me and bully me with this.

That's something I can't promise.

"Actually, Xiaoyu is also a good person. Sister Wu said.

"Where's the good, is it especially good to seduce men?" I said, with sarcasm.

"Huanxi, do you have time now? If so, I'll take you somewhere. Sister Wu said to me.

I guessed that this was to take me to see Xiaoyu.

But I didn't say no either.

Could it be that this coquettish Xiaoyu also has an unknown side?

"Mom, don't you buy wine for Dad? If he can't wait for wine, what if he beats you again when we go back?" Sister Wu's son began to worry.

"Hmph, if you dare to move my finger again, I'll squeeze his eggs to pieces! I tolerated it before, I don't have the same knowledge as him, if I really fight, I can't beat him!"

Sister Wu, who wanted to open it, has become the spicy woman in the eyes of outsiders again.

......

A few of us talked as we left the urban village and came to a bus stop.

Because I was afraid that my son would be bullied by her husband when she went back alone, we took Sister Wu's children with us.

This is a bus to the suburbs.

The provincial capital is naturally very prosperous.

However, out of the provincial capital, the surrounding towns and villages, as soon as you look at the buildings and houses on the roadside, it is obvious that there is a big gap with the development of the provincial capital.

We took the train for forty minutes and got off at a station.

Sister Wu took me, walked for 5 minutes, and stopped in front of a hillside.

At the bottom of the hillside, there is a small courtyard.

It's very secluded.

The yard is not very big, inside is a small two-story building.

But it looks very shabby, and it should have a long history.

Now the weather has warmed up.

When we arrived, it was lunch time.

At a long table in the courtyard, there were already seven or eight children seated.

The older one is fifteen or sixteen years old, and the youngest one is five or six years old.

There are boys and there are girls.

At this time, they are all waiting for dinner.

"It's time to eat!"

With a greeting, a young woman wearing an apron walked out of the room.

With a large wooden bucket in his hand, he took the rice spoon and began to serve the children.

At this time, two more women came out of the building.

But the age is not young.

It should be in its 50s, close to 60 years old.

Each of them carried a vegetable bowl and placed it on the table.

There are two kinds of dishes.

I stood on the hillside, condescendingly and clearly.

One is scrambled eggs with tomatoes and the other is stewed potatoes.

Stewed potatoes have meat in them, but not much.

I had good eyesight and could see a few large pieces of fat floating on the soup.

Such a meal can never be said to be sumptuous.

But the kids were all having a great time.

It's also very humble.

An older boy had already picked up a piece of fat.

But just as he wanted to swallow it, he handed it to a little girl next to him who was staring at the meat.

"Kiki, give it to you. ”

The little girl was very happy, but still asked, "Brother Binbin, don't you want to eat?"

The boy said, "Brother, I don't like to eat fatty meat. ”

I could tell he wasn't meant to speak.

Because after saying this, the boy swallowed his saliva.

How sensible.

It's taking care of a child who is younger than himself.

The young woman finished her meal and wiped her hands.

I went upstairs again.

When it comes out again. Holding a very large bag in his hand.

Then start from the inside and work your way out.

Give one for each child.

"Here you go. ”

"This one is yours. ”

Kiki took it. ”

"Binbin, you can also eat, you don't have to leave it for your younger brothers and sisters, there are still here, one for each person, it's enough. ”

In each of the children's bowls, there is an extra golden, fragrant chicken thigh.

Glad.

Cheer.

"Thank you, Sister Xiaoyu!"

"Sister Xiaoyu is awesome!"

"It's delicious!"

Yes, this young woman is Xiaoyu.

The little jade who is in the night market and is known for being coquettish.

But the current Xiaoyu, and the Xiaoyu I saw before, are not the same style at all.

It almost made me suspect that I had the wrong person.

The coquettish Xiaoyu in the night market, in addition to being bold in her words and always flirting with men, is also very well-dressed.

Heavy makeup is glamorous, and even very revealing.

Therefore, although Xiaoyu is not ugly, she cannot be called a beauty.

But when you dress up like this, it's very noticeable.

Therefore, there are many customers in Sister Wu's stall.

On Xiaoyu's stall, there are many male customers.

Half of Xiaoyu's business sells men's clothing.

And now Xiaoyu is not powdered and faces the sky.

Speak softly to children, without being harsh.

......

"Surprised, don't you?" Sister Wu asked me.

I nodded.

"Yes, it was unexpected. Is she a volunteer here?" I asked.

I can guess that this is supposed to be an orphanage.

But looking at this scale, it should not be a public one, but a private orphanage.

Sister Wu nodded and shook her head: "Indeed, Xiaoyu will come here almost every day to help, cook, wash clothes, and clean the children, in addition, she also uses almost the vast majority of her income on the orphanage, in fact, compared with Xiaoyu's business, I am not as good as her business, because she also sells men's clothes, and those male customers are happy to buy things from her." You also sell clothes, you should understand that men's clothing is much more profitable than women's clothing, because men buy things more simply, and they won't bargain so much, especially when they are fooled by Xiaoyu, they can't pull their faces down and bargain, and even in order to pretend to be forced, they can't wait to buy at a higher price. But my money was squandered by that loser husband, and Xiaoyu's money was used in this orphanage, and she usually saved more than me. This is also the reason why Xiaoyu is robbing business with you, I am not excusing her, she is not just for herself, she is also for these children. Because Xiaoyu also grew up in this orphanage. ”

Then, Sister Wu told me about Xiaoyu's life experience.

......

Xiaoyu is an orphan.

I grew up in this orphanage in front of me.

This orphanage is a private orphanage.

It was founded by the old dean and a few friends, and it has been more than 20 years now.

Because the scale is not large, there are not many children.

Orphans are unfortunate and have lost the warmth of their families and the care of their parents since they were young.

But the orphans who can live in this orphanage are the luck of misfortune.

Because the director of this orphanage is really a very, very good person.

She never married, and devoted her whole life to charity, which is truly true, good and beautiful.

Xiaoyu is the first batch of children to grow up in the orphanage.

For the dean, for the orphanage, they are full of feelings.

When Xiaoyu grew up, she got married.

It's a pity that I met a greedy and ambitious man.

The man was in business.

He knew about Xiaoyu's relationship with the orphanage, so he deceived Xiaoyu and the director, saying that he knew people and could use the form of commercial operation to attract investment to the orphanage and let the orphanage expand its scale.

Solve the problem of insufficient funding for orphanages.

Both the dean and Xiaoyu were moved.

Because at that time, it was the time when the orphanage's funds were in great difficulty.