What do parents think if they are called to school by a teacher?

When you hear the teacher tell you to go to school, you must be genuinely afraid, "What's wrong? Did you kid not finish your homework again?" Or did you do something bad?"

"Nope!"

"No, there must be, otherwise the teacher asked me to go to school to find him for something? Do you want to invite me to dinner? You kid wait, if the teacher doesn't invite Lao Tzu to dinner, Lao Tzu will invite you to eat 'leather whip fried back seat'!"

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In short, it is necessary to ask the child about the teacher's intention to let him go to school so that he can be mentally prepared.

Going to school must be no matter how reluctant, you have to accompany the smiling face to accept the teacher's advice "humbly", and before the teacher speaks, he has already prepared to deal with the teacher's words, and he has to rehearse several times on the road before going: "Teacher, what you discipline is right, we, as parents, are absolutely consistent with your ideas." Don't worry about this, I'll go back and educate him well. ”

"If this kid is still disobedient, see how I clean him up when I go back!"

"If you don't beat him, you don't know who the sky is high and the earth is thick, who is his old man!"

Then, the teacher will definitely pretend to get off the donkey, and seem to sincerely persuade the parent who is so "understanding": "I just want to tell you about the specific situation of the child, the main purpose is that our school and parents work together to teach the child well, so that the child has a better learning attitude." In fact, the child's usual behavior is also very good, and you should not go back and start hitting the child, which will affect the child's self-esteem. “

Anyway, you have to get by on face, right?

"Yes, yes, you have a point......

After going home, parents and children have their own ways of getting along, and the teachers have completed their duties, parents will also listen to the opinions of the teachers to varying degrees, and finally, parents have to "be grateful to Dade" and "grateful" for all kinds of thanks to the teacher for cultivating something. Isn't it a beautiful thing for both sides to be happy?

This is just the usual way for teachers and parents to talk, and it is believed that more than 99% of the results will be like this.

Peng Chao's homeroom teacher also thought the same.

However, Peng Chao's mother didn't think so.

Everyone guessed right, and she is one of the few hundredths.

After listening to Teacher Zhan's "bitter mouth" persuasion, Peng Chao's mother answered as a matter of course, leaving the middle-aged male teacher who has been engaged in education for more than 20 years speechless.

"Teacher Zhan, you said that the child just can't get up and wants to sleep more, why do you have to let him go to early self-study? I think the child should ensure enough sleep quality when he is growing up, and if he doesn't study in the morning, Peng Chao didn't pull down any lessons. ”

"I just heard my Peng Chao say that the teacher asked me to go to school, and I was worried that Peng Chao had made a big mistake in school, and I had to let my teachers come over, it turned out to be such a big deal, you see, as for it?"

Teacher Zhan was speechless when he listened.

"Hehe......"

Teacher Zhan smiled helplessly and took a breath, brushed the few hairs on the top of his head from front to back with his right hand, and thought: "I have been teaching all my life, and it is the first time that a parent has spoken to me like this, and it is so righteous and stern, of course, Peng Chao's mother played this deck of cards so that I really don't know how to take it down." ”

So, the embarrassing atmosphere lasted for about 30 seconds, and Peng Chao's mother was a little impatient, so she opened her mouth directly: "Teacher Zhan, is there anything else?"

This question brought Mr. Zhan back to his senses.

"Oh!"

Teacher Zhan was stunned for a moment, and then replied a little unexpectedly: "It's okay, it's okay, you can go back first." “

Peng Chao's mother was also not polite, and immediately got up, "Okay, then let's do this first, I'll leave first, and let Peng Chao call me over at any time if I have something in the future." “

When he turned around and went out, he pulled Peng Chao, who was standing at the door, and walked out together.

"Okay, good, you go slowly......"

Teacher Zhan agreed, but his right hand involuntarily touched the head of Xie Ding, but he thought in his heart: "I can't call you over again in the future, I am very worried about the substitute class, and the hair is getting less and less. ”

"I won't care about Peng Chao's early self-study in the future, life is short, let the child sleep more......"

Teacher Zhan, who was distracted, watched Peng Chao's mother and son leave, and suddenly heard the conversation between Peng Chao's mother and son coming from not far away: "Mom thinks that you found a daughter-in-law for your mother and was discovered by the teacher, hehe...... It's good to have no puppy love......"

Hearing this, Teacher Zhan was even more staggered, shook his head and patted his head, and slowly returned to the office.

Coincidentally.

This prophecy of Peng Chao's mother's departure did come true in the near future.

After all, I have met Peng Chao's mother once, and I also have a similar understanding of this parent's personality and routines in the way of conversation, and this time Teacher Zhan thinks that he has "enough" experience to deal with parents like Peng Chao's mother.

However, due to the fear of being stimulated by Peng Chao's mother's non-mainstream thinking, Mr. Zhan decided to pick out this matter in front of the parents of the whole class during the parent-teacher meeting, and he also invited teachers from other courses to help as lobbyists, hoping to make Peng Chao's mother cooperate with the school to correctly guide Peng Chao's "early love" under the pressure of public opinion.

Because all parents have a high degree of vigilance against their children's "early love", Mr. Zhan also has this confidence, pulling Peng Chao's mother to his "front", coupled with his own "arrangement" at the parent-teacher meeting, I believe that there will be absolutely nothing wrong this time.

Moreover, this kind of treatment can also play the role of "killing chickens and monkeys", so that other parents can be vigilant and prevent students from delaying their studies in similar situations.

It's really "killing two birds with one stone", Mr. Zhan thought beautifully more than once.

On the day of the parent-teacher conference.

What worries Teacher Zhan - the probability event that Peng Chao's mother is not available for a parent-teacher conference still hasn't happened, which also makes Teacher Zhan secretly relieved, and even has some "stealing joy", and can finally get back a game.

After Mr. Zhan made a routine review and summary of the class's grades, and the teachers present also commented one after another, the "big play" directed by Mr. Zhan finally began.

"Next, I would like to talk about a serious topic, and I ask parents to attach great importance to it. ”

Teacher Zhan first attracted all the attention of all the parents, scanned the entire classroom, and threw out this "bombshell" that had been prepared for a long time:

"Recently, I found out that there are children in our class who are 'early love', and they are also a little unscrupulous, openly holding hands in the school and class, which is very close, which has a serious impact on the school and the class. ”

As soon as the news was thrown, the parents of the class were in an uproar.

The quiet classroom was suddenly noisy, and everyone was discussing with each other whose child had such precocious and transgressive behavior. While discussing, I was still a little scared, what if it was my own child, how to deal with such a thing?

Everyone is "the big girl in the sedan chair - the first time"!

What should I do if it is not handled well and affects my child's learning?

The atmosphere of the scene was completely expected by Mr. Zhan, and he was very satisfied with such an atmosphere.

Teacher Zhan's heart blossomed, and a smile appeared on the corner of his mouth that was not easy to be noticed, thinking: "Calm, calm, can't be anxious, give you time to discuss for a while, let this 'puppy love' incident ferment for a while, parents should think about how to deal with it if it happens to their own children, how to persuade it to happen to other people's children, and when you think about it, my second 'bombshell' will be launched!"

"When the time comes, let's see what Peng Chao's mother should say, what to do, whether you want to take care of the child with me, hehe!"

Teacher Zhan thought.

After waiting for five minutes deliberately, Mr. Zhan continued to pick up the conversation.

"Ahem, please be quiet...... Teacher Zhan cleared his throat.

"Actually, you don't have to worry too much, most of our children's ideas are still learning-oriented, and they all know what to do and what not to do at this stage; even if there are individual students who have such thoughts and behaviors, it is normal, because it is indeed the age of growth and development, and the mind is gradually maturing, so please don't be nervous. ”

Teacher Zhan calmed the feelings of the parents, and then said: "Because this matter involves the children around us after all, I will mention the names of the students in the class in a while, and we will work together to solve the difficulties and problems encountered in the growth of these two children, and achieve correct guidance." “

"Regardless of which parent is involved, I hope that everyone will be calm and correct in the right way, and try not to look at such problems in a different light. Children are at this stage, children without this situation are not impossible to have such problems in the future, I hope everyone encourages each other, discuss together, correctly guide children to solve problems, deal with problems, you know, helping others is to help yourself. “

I have to say that Mr. Zhan still has a bit of teaching background, not only threw out the topic and achieved the goal he wanted, but also saw the big from the small, and turned the unique problems of individual students into problems shared by the parents of the whole class with a few words of incitement; not only resolved the embarrassing scenes that parents may have when announcing the list of early loves, but also pulled all parents to the "united front" of "solving problems".

I have to say that he is indeed a well-deserved rare and good teacher, who takes into account the thoughts and behaviors that everyone may have when dealing with problems, which is commendable!

"Okay, so let's get to the problem I just raised. ”

Teacher Zhan looked around the classroom, and everywhere he looked, everyone would be suffocated for a moment, of course, a few people would not......

"Peng Chao's parents, are Pei Pei's parents here?"

Those "lucky people" breathed a sigh of relief when they heard the names of these two classmates, "It's good that it's not my own child......

Of course, there are some who are not so "lucky".

Hearing the familiar name, Pei Pei's mother pointed to herself in disbelief: "Our Pei Pei?" as if she had heard something incredible: "Teacher Zhan, are you sure?"

"That's true, Mother Pei. Teacher Zhan once again guessed the parents' reaction, and couldn't help but feel a little proud in his heart, everything was developing according to his plan.

However, with Peng Chao's mother here, his plan is destined to have "a little flaw".

Peng Chao's mother's next words, in only a few seconds, broke the atmosphere of the scene created by Teacher Zhan for dozens of minutes......