Chapter 446: Persuasion
A few days later, Liu Da'e went to Tian Lu to "take refuge", and somehow it spread to Tian Jin.
Tian Jin was afraid that Tian Lu would blame, so he took the initiative to call Tian Lu to "plead guilty".
Specially selected Tian Lu's favorite words, while saying that her mother doesn't know how to take care of children, do housework, etc., and blame her wife on the other. kept saying that he wanted to divorce his wife.
He was a little anxious to speak, and he didn't protect anyone.
Probably Tian Jin ran away for his mother, afraid that Tian Lu would blame him, and then blamed Tian Jin's wife for a few words.
Tian Jin's wife called Tian Lu and cried: "Tian Jin wants to divorce me, it's all because I didn't do it well, and it's not good for my mother." ”
Tian Lu came to comfort Tian Jin's wife again, first affirming Tian Jin's wife's dedication to this family, counting the second aunt's childish temperament, etc., such a balance, Tian Jin's wife felt better.
Tian Lu couldn't unilaterally count the second aunt on the phone, how would the second aunt get based on that family in the future, so she objectively talked about the way her mother-in-law and daughter-in-law got along. Tell her that the old man's intentions are all good, and they are all for the good of the family. Then he said on the phone: "It's not a family, don't enter a family", "A hundred years of repairing a boat to ferry" and other ways to get along, and shared with her in a tone that made Tian Jin's wife easy to accept.
Tian Jin's wife felt a little better after hearing these words. But he didn't mention when to pick up the second aunt home.
Maybe you still have your own thoughts in mind. Tian Lu didn't take the initiative to mention it, so she hung up the phone after a few words of simple comfort.
If both sides are looking for life and death, who should they favor?
Although Tian Lu is not partial to anyone on the surface, she protects her second aunt in her heart. The point of view is that no matter how wrong the old man is, it is for their good, how can he not talk about filial piety.
A few days later, Tian Lu was at work, and the second aunt lived in a hotel, but they were fine. But I received a call from the second aunt, saying: Jin Wa is calling, and she wants her to go back, and her daughter-in-law will die of exhaustion with the baby.
It's finally time to be needed. Being needed is also a blessing, especially for the elderly.
Liu Da'e was very happy when she said this, saying that Jinwa called her and asked her to reply, and she planned to return today.
Even if Tian Lu stays with her for a few more days, even if she goes to relatives. It is estimated that he can't keep the second aunt from going home.
A few days after the second aunt went home, she called to ask about the situation, and during the chat, the second aunt was happy.
Tian Lu is still worried, and the second aunt is happy.
Fortunately, when the second aunt sank, he didn't say a bad word about the members of her family, otherwise, when he communicated with the second aunt's family, he said that Tian Lu had fallen behind them, and it was not very difficult to be a person.
On the contrary, it was himself, especially when the second aunt was unhappy when she came to Xinkai District, when she listened to the second aunt talk about family affairs and count Tian Jin's wife, her emotions would also be affected, and she was unhappy for a few days for the rights and wrongs of the second aunt, Tian Jin and his wife.
Now the second aunt called in a happy tone, presumably as good as ever, and the family was happy.
Looking back on this period of time, in the end, I became a listener of catharsis and became a "spiritual trash can" for my second aunt.
Tian Jin and the second aunt are a family after all, and the good and the bad will enter the family. Fortunately, he doesn't have "Taoism", if he talks about the second aunt and Tian Jin's daughter-in-law, it is not suitable for either time.
If it's good, it's kind. If it's not good, you'll be blamed. It is better to be objective and fair to "persuade", but it is better to be a listener. From now on, "persuasion" will also talk about art.
Tian Lu Jing understands one thing and one reason. Thinking about the "persuasion" of the second aunt and Tian Jin's wife a few days ago is excellent and extremely wise.
The second aunt was calm and steady, but she didn't call to hear any negative news.
Tian Lu breathed a sigh of relief, as long as she was safe. Without these negative news, I feel that the sky and sunshine are more vivid than usual.
The good times didn't last long, and a few days later, the second aunt called again, and at first tried to say something pleasant to Tian Lu, but later, she actually talked about the current family matter.
The second aunt said hesitantly: "Luwa, our Tian family is just you, I treat you as a daughter, some things can't be told to others, it's uncomfortable to hold back, I shouldn't have told you." ”
What does the second aunt want to express? Say half and swallow half.
"What shouldn't you say, it's uncomfortable to hold back in your heart? Holding his tone in his heart made a big mistake, it was better to say it, Tian Lu said empathetically. She knew that even if she didn't say that, the second aunt would talk about it endlessly, so it was better to follow her words.
Liu Da'e didn't directly accuse her son and daughter-in-law of doing something wrong, but changed her expression and said: "Jinwa installed a camera today. ”
Tian Lu said: "That's very good, can it be burglar-proof, and you can also see the situation outside the door." ”
"But he had the camera at home, not outside the door. Liu Da'e's tone was very steady.
"Why, isn't this monitoring the family? When he said this question, Tian Lu thought that Tian Jin called and told him, saying that the second aunt would not bring him a baby, he called up the camera and saw it clearly, at that time Tian Lu also asked whether the camera was installed at home, not outside the door, but at home, Tian Jin was at that time, just a random question, and did not think much about it.
Now, thinking about it, what the second aunt said is true.
How so? The son is at home monitoring whether the mother is doing housework, whether she is taking the child? What kind of play is this?
Liu Da'e continued: "Tian Jin did this to listen to her wife's words, and her wife said that I don't do things at home and don't take a baby, but Jin Wa doesn't believe it. Her wife asked him to install a camera in the house. ”
"Oh, I see. Tian Lu couldn't understand what her son was doing, whether for the sake of family harmony, she didn't favor her daughter-in-law or her mother's divine operation, maybe she was in a dilemma. I hope Tian Jin thinks like this, otherwise, Tian Jin is really an unfilial son who is despised by her.
"You also know, I cook every day, two meals a day, in the countryside is to eat two meals, eat late in the morning, just eat one meal in the afternoon, in their place I do it in the morning, she hasn't gotten up yet, and she doesn't eat when it's cold, I'm not sure. My arm is habitually painful, I can't hold the baby for too long, it will hurt for a long time and I can't lift it, and I will take it when I have time. Sometimes they go out and come back in the middle of the night, and the baby is not sleeping with me. Sometimes I go downstairs in the evening and go around with acquaintances, saying that I go down there for half a day. I used to like to play cards, but now I play a lot less, and occasionally I will say that I don't have a baby. Liu Da'e confided in her difficulties.
Family matters, broken things, difficult things, what is this? Tian Lu heard that this family was really rotten!
Maybe every family has a scripture that is difficult to read, and it can't be determined that it is the fault of Tian Jin's daughter-in-law, nor can it be determined that it is the fault of the second aunt!
She could only comfort Liu Da'e and said with relief: "Should you go to a place where there is a camera, etc., so that they won't think that you don't have a baby." ”
"The more they do that, the more I'm in the room without a camera. ”
Tian Lu couldn't say anything.
The second aunt walked around downstairs, and it was nothing to turn around after dinner, isn't there a saying that you will live to ninety-nine after a meal? Why should you find fault with the second aunt this, that, it's too much. But according to usual observations, Tian Jin's wife is a very good person, with a well-behaved mouth, high emotional intelligence, and no personality problems.
After a while, Tian Lu continued: "Didn't you always want Jin Wa to marry a wife and have children, saying that he became a family, and you would be blind to death. ”
"yes, I did. ”
"Isn't that it? You look at Tian Jin's wife like this, and you want Tian Jin to drive her away, then your son will be beaten up. This is certainly not what you were hoping for. ”
"That's certainly not what I was hoping for. ”
"That's it, don't you have to be a little more wronged, so that he has a complete home. ”
"......." Liu Da'e felt that her words were reasonable, as if she had spoken to her heart, and suddenly fell silent.