Chen Xingxing's words are not rough, and Qin Kuairen has no way to refute this. He could only respond very rudely: "Eh, people like you are material and material, how can there be so many crooked excuses." ”

Chen Xingxing was not angry, she said with a smile: "This brother, look at yourself." You've got to find a good one to work with, right? I'm telling you, no matter what you think, first impressions matter anyway. Look at you, you're wearing beach pants and big slippers, and your hair is as messy as a bird's nest. At first glance, he is poor and sloppy. Besides, you're not good-looking. That's it, do you think there can be a girl who can look up to you? Eh, don't say anything about you being ugly but very gentle. Girls don't eat this set. After all, gentleness is something that everyone can do, it depends on whether they are willing to do it or not. ”

"Gentleness also needs to be supported by reality, brother. If two people are together, they can't support their families and make a living, so it's boring. Those who can't drink enough water. Chen Xingxing patted Qin Kueren's shoulder, and her words were serious. Then he turned to Zhang Tong and said, "Boss Zhang, take a fried rice to take away." ”

Zhang Tong went to the back kitchen to fry rice. Until Chen Xingxing left with fried rice, Qin Kuairen was thinking about Chen Xingxing's words.

"Boss Zhang, do you think I'm wrong?"

"What's wrong?"

"I don't want girls to take my money, is that wrong?"

When Lao Zhang heard Qin Kueren's words, he laughed: "You can't say you're wrong. After all, who hasn't thought of trying to have a sincere relationship that is not mixed with any other interest factors? Love is love, only love, how clean and pure. Those who have never been in love think that their love can be as clean as crystal. ”

But unless you are still studying, this kind of feeling will not be encountered in the current society. It's not that girls are realistic. It's that society is very realistic. Let's talk about it, in today's society, clothing, food, housing and transportation don't cost money. The country is developing at a high speed, and some people are running forward with development, running fast, which is enviable. If people are envious, there will be people to compare. Even if you don't compare yourself with others, you always have to spend all kinds of money in this world. ”

"It costs money to eat, and it costs even more to buy a house. It's okay here in the hive, because the state has a policy, the first batch of people who come in can get the property here in the form of a group of purchases, which can be regarded as picking up. But the follow-up people may not be so lucky. Let's compare the Huaihai next to it. You know the housing prices in Huaihai, the average price of a 50-year-old house near the inner ring is 30,000 to 40,000 yuan per square meter. If it is a second-hand house in a community within 15 years of age, the average price is not less than 50,000. The price of a new house will open at 70,000 yuan. ”

"You said that if you don't have money, you can't afford to buy a house, you can't cover your head with tiles. Why should people fall in love with you? Well, that's not right for me to say that. Zhang Tong sorted out the language: "To be precise, modern women, especially women who have worked. The kind that is a little sensible and intends to actually get married. For them, whether the man is handsome or not is actually not the first element. ”

Qin Kuairen answered: "Money is, right?"

"Hmm...... Yes and no. If there is ready-made money, then it will be counted. If not, then show your good side as well. Let girls see that the future can be expected. This is the most important point. If a man has no money, no looks, no technology, no plans, no future. If there is only empty words and a piece of tenderness, then this tenderness is worthless. I don't know if you've ever seen such a kind of man in society. He's a poor boy with a girlfriend. At first, it was good, but after five years of love, when she was ready to talk about marriage, the woman began to change her hexagram. ”

"The poor boy thinks that girls have changed, become materialistic, and become money-seeking. Actually, why not think about it from a different angle. If the girl was in it for money, then why be with such a poor boy. This kind of poor boy will always only shout when he breaks up: Don't you just hate me for having no money!"

"But the real problem is that he doesn't have any money? No, the real problem is that he hasn't made progress for three or five years. I used to work as a small clerk in the company's factory, and I will still be a junior clerk three or five years later. The conditions at home are not good, I am not self-motivated, I don't think about anything, and I can live a very happy and happy life. But you can't think about the future, because there is no future. And the key factor for the girl to break up with this poor boy is that she can't see the future, even a trace of it. I am afraid that I will not be able to take out tens of thousands of yuan for raising a child after I am born, going to the hospital for surgery, and being hospitalized for confinement. ”

"How much does it cost to raise a baby for a year, how much does it cost to have milk powder, how much does it cost if you get sick. These are all things that the girl didn't dare to think. Because just thinking about it makes you feel a suffocation that goes deep into the soul. Because they have been with the poor boy for five years, the two can only save less than 200,000. This amount of money is not enough to buy a house, even if it is a rented house, I am afraid that it will not be enough to have children in the future. Because I have to live in a bigger house after giving birth, I can't squeeze into a single apartment. The rent is going up, and the baby's supplies are another expense. Maybe the two of them could save three or four thousand a month. But after having a baby, it may be difficult to save these three or four thousand. If you rent a house to get married, you will encounter a bad landlord, not to mention the annual rent increase, and you may find various reasons to withhold the deposit, or even kick the family out of the house in the middle of the night. It was a terrible feeling. ”

And the most terrible thing is that the poor boy does not think all this is terrible, but thinks that life is like this. Forbearance is over, and forbearance is over for a lifetime. ”

Qin Kuairen looked at Zhang Tong: "Boss Zhang, why are you talking about these things in such detail." It's like your own experience. ”

Chen Xingxing outside the door was gradually unable to see his back clearly, Zhang Tong looked at the direction she left and said, "Because all this is the experience of that girl Chen Xingxing just now." A few months ago, she broke up with her boyfriend of five years. Come to me for a drink, get drunk, and then talk a lot. She was two months pregnant. She asked her boyfriend to marry her, and asked the man to make at least 300,000 yuan, and she was paying 200,000 yuan to buy a house in the hive. She is not qualified to buy a house on a rent-to-buy basis on the Hive's side. ”

But her boyfriend didn't want to scrape together 300,000 yuan. Because he feels that 300,000 is too much, and he will have to repay the mortgage in the future, and the pressure is too great. He wants to get married and buy a house two years later. He always felt that he would definitely be able to get ahead in the future. Even if he goes home to sleep and play games and watch dramas after work every day, he doesn't learn to recharge any other skills, but he feels that he always has a bright future. Wait until you are developed in buying a house and getting married. ”

"Chen Xingxing's boyfriend is very good to her, very gentle and considerate. But definitely not motivated, very lazy and tired. He works as a promising-future escort in a bank, and if he doesn't change jobs, he can already see the end of his life. Chen Xingxing gave him 30,000 yuan and asked him to go outside to learn a technique, even if it was to learn the craft of snacks, and to open a small shop and a special snack in the future. But her boyfriend didn't want to go at all, he was too tired to make snacks, and he had to get up early and late every day to earn that little hard-earned money. He is willing to go back from work every day to cook dinner for Chen Xingxing, and he is also willing to get up early to make breakfast for her, because he is an escort and his work is very leisurely. So he is also willing to do housework. But he refuses to step out of his comfort zone, and he loves it. ”

Originally, Chen Xingxing had already accepted his fate, although his boyfriend was not motivated, but at least he was gentle, which was okay. But the sudden pregnancy caught her off guard. If you have children, you have to buy a house anyway, you can rent a house and live together, but you can't rent a house with children. She wanted to have a safe nest of her own. But her boyfriend couldn't. The two even had several big fights. In the end, Chen Xingxing broke up with her boyfriend and beat the child who was just two months pregnant. ”

"Gentleness is very important, but gentleness that can't even support a wife and children is useless. That's why Chen Xingxing never quarrels with people, and such a gentle girl can't accept a boy who is only gentle and has no motivation and no future. So you want to be a scumbag? Zhang Tong patted Qin Kuairen's back.

Qin Kuairen looked at the direction in which Chen Xingxing was leaving, thinking about something.

That night, when Qin Kuairen went home, he passed by a men's clothing store, looked at his appearance reflected in the mirror, he touched his untreated hair and somewhat sloppy beard, and muttered: "Maybe it's time to change." ”