In this field, he must first support his daughter when he is a son. Guan Youshou was afraid that his daughter would not understand the deep meaning of this, so he gave two examples.

The parties in these two examples are still quite familiar with Guan Ping'an.

One of them, her aunt Guan Yulian. Look at your aunt, why did she let Mrs. Xia dislike? In addition to the character of the Xia family, there is also a lack of dowry.

If she marries smoothly, no matter how bad the Xia family's character is, with the dowry in hand, she can't go anywhere?

And then?

Second example.

Look at your sister-in-law again. If it weren't for my father's insistence on not accepting the bride price, her concubines would have been able to bully her to death, not to mention your uncle and his sisters.

Don't they think that your sister-in-law is a girl from the countryside, and she has a good-looking face without a job, and they think that the two families are not right?

Her dad was right.

Don't look at her uncle Li Tiejun, who seems to be very protective of her sister-in-law, but her sister-in-law can't let go everywhere when she looks at her mother-in-law's house.

That is, her family sends some wild meat, vegetables, wild fruits or something to her sister-in-law from time to time, so it is rare to hear that her sister-in-law does not like to go to her husband's brother and sister's house.

Later, her family's family situation is getting better and better, and they don't just look at her father's sake, even the uncle of the Li family gives this little brother and sister some face.

After talking about his two younger sisters, leave enough time for his daughter to reflect. Guan Youshou then mentioned the two concubines of Ye Xiuhe and Ma Dujuan.

Both of them are very strong, and even your grandmother's family is more powerful than the Ma family, why does your grandmother have a different attitude towards your mother and Ma Dujuan?

Back then, your grandmother didn't like her old son marrying Ma Cuckoo. But why is it that after marrying into the door, the attitude towards Ma Cuckoo is much better than that towards your mother?

Except that your mother can't learn Ma Dujuan can coax people, your mother is too sincere. Is it good to be honest? For those who are not satisfied, it is stupid.

Its practical "stupid" can no longer express your grandmother's feelings for your mother. In your milk's eyes, your mother is "stupid", more serious than "stupid".

Are you stupid? From the perspective of a son and husband, your mother is still a little stupid, so that your father is embarrassed to let her down.

But if you change your mother to your identity, your father will definitely be angry with her. What are you laughing at? A daughter-in-law and a daughter-in-law are definitely different.

Bear girl!

What's so funny? He kept saying that he wasn't a decent man, so he just hid it deeper. He also has the ugliness that human nature should have.

Guan Youshou gave his daughter a popping chestnut and continued to tell his true words. But as long as your mother is stronger, or not too poisoned by your grandmother, your grandmother will not dare to be too aggressive with her.

Your mother has always said that your father is used to your milk, yes, this is what your father admits. That's my mother-in-law, my mother-in-law who gave birth to me and raised me, I don't favor her, who does I prefer?

But if you want to say that it is all your father's responsibility, it makes your grandmother look down on your mother, and your father doesn't dare to admit it. Mother-in-law and daughter-in-law, they are not mothers and daughters, your mother has been retreating, and your milk has naturally been entering.

As a son, since the daughter-in-law is willing to back down, it is not good for him to push his daughter-in-law to fight with the old lady, right?

Daddy said this to tell you. In case, what Dad said is that if one day you have a conflict with someone in the Xiaobei family, remember not to back down.

If you retreat in one step, there will be a second step, and if you retreat and retreat, you will get used to it. Dad doesn't want my daughter to live a life, and she has to be wronged to fulfill others.

There really is a day, no matter who it is, it is your father. As long as it's on your side, even if you want to tear your face, you have to give me a good foothold!

I'm a girl who can't even lift my fingers, why should I be wronged for others? Dad asked you to learn martial arts, but he didn't let you compromise for anyone.

Guan Ping'an, who couldn't stop nodding, clenched her fist and told him that she understood. Sensei is on her side, but what's the matter if she doesn't pay attention?

Let's beat it up first!

Guan Youshou saw that his daughter finally realized it deeply, and realized the deep meaning of "pungent", so he touched his daughter's head with a relieved face.

"What we are saying now, you just have to remember it yourself, and you can't talk nonsense with your mother. Actually, it's good for your mother to be like this......"

"Hahaha......" Guan Ping'an couldn't hold back her laughter anymore, and she laughed heartily. It turns out that you are afraid that my mother will know these words?

After Guan Youshou secretly taught his daughter in the little gourd, that night, Guan Ping'an faced another teaching from her mother Ye Xiuhe.

It is different from what the little couple said a few nights ago to get along with each other, and as she spoke, Ye Xiuhe said that she was bald. “...... This is crucial.

At the beginning, you must seize the opportunity and set the rules. In the past, my mother didn't approve of you taking care of Xiaobei's money, but if you become a parent, you have to arrest it. ”

Understood.

Money bags.

My grandmother's experience.

"I usually try to let him as much as possible, but when it comes to the critical moment, I can't take a step back. Mother is too much for your father, you can't control your father now.

Fortunately, there are some places in Xiaobei that are very similar to your father. As long as you follow him wholeheartedly, he will naturally not spend all his time drinking. Mother said that, do you understand?"

Understand~

She is her.

Grandmothers are grandmothers.

"As for the dowry, your father will definitely make a list for your grandfather Mei when I go back. Mother is not worried about your sister-in-law Mingyue, who wants to take advantage of you, but you can't be too loose.

At this point, you have to listen to Xiaobei. He has a better brain than you, and he wants to say no, don't come nonsense. Forget it, I didn't say these words.

Your sister-in-law Mingyue has money in hand. If you really want to wait for you to come out, then there must be something very serious? I won't be able to hide it from your father at that time. ”

Good!

Wiped it~

Looking at her daughter's confused appearance, what is the matter? Ye Xiuhe touched her daughter's face, "Do you understand?" Do you want your mother to say it again?"

"No, I remember everything. ”

"Really remember?"

"Well, that. ”

“...... Fortunately, he was married to Xiaobei. ”

If it's not him, your daughter can't get married~ Guan Ping'an smiled innocently, "Yes, anyway, I still live with you and my father." ”

In addition to comforting her mother with this sentence, Guan Ping'an really didn't know what to say. In front of her father, she can also joke that she is marrying Xiaobei to enter the door.

But in her mother's place, Guan Ping'an didn't dare to say it. In case her mother said it as a joke in front of her grandmother, it would hurt Xiaobei's self-esteem.

"Mother, don't be nervous. Getting married or something, in fact, is a ceremony. Why don't we go back to living as usual when we're done?"

In Guan Ping'an's heart, he lives at home anyway. She didn't know that in Ye Xiuhe's mother's heart, her daughter became a parent, which meant that she was an adult.

I don't know if Guan Ping installed it too well, or what, as she got closer to the marriage, Ye Xiuhe looked at her daughter with a confused look, and the more anxious she became.

As far as her daughter is still a childish group, she really married early.