Unexpectedly, Li Xin actually lost nearly 5 million in just over two weeks, and he didn't even blink an eye at such a large loss, and thought it was nothing.

This surprised her very much, she really couldn't imagine how much money Li Xin had as a young man.

And the key problem now is that the daughter is so obsessed with this young man, boyfriend and girlfriend with him, but his finances are tight-lipped about his daughter.

Although Xia Xiaona's mother is not the kind of person who only focuses on money, she is in charge of finances at home, and she naturally thinks that women are to manage money for men.

If a man is tight-lipped about his wife or girlfriend's finances, it means that the man is not very sincere about his wife or girlfriend.

That's why she wanted to remind her daughter to try her best to understand and control Li Xin's financial power while guarding her bottom line.

Xia Xiaona said: "It's not that he didn't let me know, it's that I never intended to ask." ”

"If he doesn't say that you have to ask, this may be a matter for the two of you in the future, and you can also help him check it when you understand it clearly, so that he doesn't lose millions at a time like today, isn't it also a good thing?"

"That's true, but the problem is that I don't understand those investment things, and if I give him ideas, it may be a disservice. ”

Xia Xiaona's mother saw that her daughter was still not enlightened, so she said: "Even if you don't give him ideas, it is very important to know how much money he has and what he has done outside with this money." Just like me and your dad, your dad's money is in my hands, what to buy, where to use the money is all discussed by us. Otherwise, your father's salary and bonus will be spent by himself, eating with a few classmates today, drinking with a few friends tomorrow, or the money will be gone soon, how will you live this day?"

Xia Xiaona said: "Li Xin rarely spends money, and he doesn't go out to drink and eat with others, his biggest expense may be to take me out to play." ”

As soon as she finished saying this, Xia Xiaona saw that her mother frowned and looked like she was about to be angry, so she hurriedly said, "Mom, I know what you mean, I'll just pay more attention to it myself in the future, okay?"

When Xia Xiaona and her mother heard this, they knew that it would be useless to say anything, so they had to stand up and sigh and say, "You girl doesn't listen to the old man, there will be a time when you cry in the future! ”

Xia Xiaona, who was sitting in the living room watching TV, saw his wife coming out of his daughter's room, so he whispered, "How did you talk to Nana?"

Xia Xiaona's mother said angrily, "Not good?"

"What do you mean by not good? You two have been talking in for a long time and haven't talked about anything?"

"Your baby daughter follows me, she has no heart at all, not a single tendon!"

"What's going on?"

"Li Xin, this young man has a lot of money, he never tells Nana, and Nana never asks, do you say Nana lacks heart?"

"Take your time, just ask her to pay attention to it in the future, in fact, it's not good to interfere too much in this kind of thing, right?"

"You can think about it, I'm afraid that Nana will suffer!"

"Of course I know this, but this kind of thing can't be rushed, they haven't been dating for a long time, and there needs to be a process. Besides, I think Nana's quality of treating money like dung is good, so it's up to you, it's up to me? You see, I don't care about money at all, I'll leave it all to you. ”

"When is it, do you still have the heart to joke? Do I take care of the money for myself? Not for this family! Or you will take care of it in the future, you will take care of the firewood, rice, oil, salt, sauce, vinegar and tea, and all the things in the kitchen will be handed over to you, and I will be the shopkeeper, okay?"

Xia Xiaona's father saw that his wife was really angry, and quickly coaxed her to say, "Look at you, let's joke with you, you are really angry." It's all because you manage it well, and it's all thanks to you, the logistics minister, that this family has today. ”

Nana is honest, I'm teaching her life experience in the future. It's better for you to not help, but to talk cool words next to you, will you be happy if your daughter suffers a loss in the future?"

"I know you're doing it for her good, but I'm saying that for her good. This kind of thing will ruin the relationship between the two of them if you rush it, have you thought about this?"

Xia Xiaona's father knows that it is right to look at the problem from his wife's point of view, but from a man's point of view, if such a problem is not handled well, it is also very troublesome, which will make the man very disgusted, and even spontaneously have a feeling that he is about to be controlled.

I think that not long after I got married, my wife asked me to hand over the financial power, and I had to calculate my salary and bonus very clearly. Every time after receiving the salary, he had to hand over the salary slip and salary bonus in full, and he had nothing left in his pocket, and he had to apply to his wife for pocket money. Every month, I have ten or twenty yuan left in my pocket, and I don't dare to buy anything, and I only dare to spend it at the end of the month.

This sense of urgency, which is invisibly tightly controlled, is in stark contrast to the carefree single life before marriage.

At that time, she was still a newlywed Yan'er, and her honeymoon had just passed. But even in such a sweet period, this incident made Xia Xiaona and her father secretly doubt in their hearts whether their decision to get married was correct.

He also quarreled with his wife several times about this matter, but his wife's obsession with controlling financial power did not change at all.

He really couldn't figure out how his gentle wife before marriage suddenly seemed to be a different person after marriage.

This question bothered him for a long time, and it was not until he overheard his mother-in-law and wife whispering in the kitchen when he went to his mother-in-law's house for dinner.

At that time, the mother-in-law said to her wife: "If you want to tie a man to the house, you must first seize his stomach, and second, you must seize his wallet." Grabbing his stomach will make him want to go home naturally. Grabbing his wallet can make him want to go out without money. Otherwise, there will be a time when you will cry in the future. ”

After hearing this conversation, Xia Xiaona's father woke up like a dream: I said how my wife seemed to be a different person before and after marriage, it turned out that she was influenced by her mother-in-law. How can there be such a mother? Teach your daughter to guard against her husband like a thief!

Although she was very unwilling, after a long time, she saw that there was no way to change the status quo, so Xia Xiaona and her father had to slowly choose to compromise.

Although looking back, my wife has indeed cooked the family very well over the years.

But at the same time, because she has a very tight grasp of financial power and a very strict view of herself, she has basically been a two-point line between her unit and family over the years, and the interaction between colleagues and classmates has almost completely disappeared, and her career and life are dull.

Sometimes even he doesn't know if it's happiness or not. If the wife is not so strong in family life, maybe there will be some changes in her own life?

Now listening to his wife mention these things, Xia Xiaona and her father suddenly have memories of many past events in their hearts.

Combined with her own personal experience and thinking about the way young people act now, Xia Xiaona's father instinctively thinks that his wife's behavior is a little inappropriate.

If this matter had nothing to do with him, he wouldn't say anything, but now this matter is related to his daughter's future happiness, so he dared to persuade his wife not to interfere too much in these things.

"I don't care, you can talk to Nana about anything in the future!" Xia Xiaona's mother said unhappily.

Xia Xiaona and her father saw that his wife was anxious, and hurriedly said, "Look at you, you just can't listen to different opinions." Of course, it's more convenient for you to talk about your daughter's affairs. ”

"You know that, too?"

"Of course I knew, so I came out for you two to talk inside. Well, this kind of thing is in a hurry and we are in a hurry, and I believe that Nana can handle it. Besides, I don't think Li Xin, this young man, is not like a person who can mix in officialdom, but he should still be a good hand at investment. If he didn't have some level, he wouldn't be able to get to this level, don't you say?"

"I didn't expect him to be rich, I just wanted Nana not to be overlooked. Otherwise, it's hard to say what the future holds. ”

"Of course I know that, I think the same way as you. But now young people have young people's thoughts, and they let them deal with their own affairs, and we as elders should not interfere too much, otherwise the negative effects will be great, and sometimes we may do bad things with good intentions. ”

Because she was worried that the dispute would continue to be heard by her daughter in the back room, Xia Xiaona's mother didn't speak again, but she was very disapproving.

In her opinion, a good start is half the battle. If her daughter wants to control Li Xin, she has to start from now on. If you don't take the initiative at the beginning, it will be even more difficult in the future.

Although Li Xin didn't come to the house much, Xia Xiaona's mother could still see that this young man was very assertive.

Coupled with the information I learned from my daughter's mouth today, Li Xin is really a very scheming person. It's easy for him to keep his own finances out of the way, but Nana is his girlfriend, and he keeps it a secret from his girlfriend. If this situation does not change, his daughter's life will not be easy in the future.

Xia Xiaona heard her parents muttering in the living room, and guessed that they were still discussing Li Xin's affairs. Distraught, she didn't know what to do, it was too early to go to bed, and she couldn't sleep even if she lay down. Read a book to kill time, and you can't read it at all. So she opened the drawer, took out the music player, put on the headphones and listened to the music with her eyes closed.