Chapter 200: The Meaning of Marriage
Zheng Zhiping greeted his mother's guests one by one, and when it was Liu Chengwu's turn, he also made a joke: "Liu's family, my mother, this big happy day, it will be a family soon, why are you crying and mourning?"
Liu Chengwu barely squeezed out a smile, and Liu's mother burst into tears faster.
Shen Tao followed and said hello, and he didn't know what to say.
"Let's go, let's go inside!"
Shen Qian pushed, and the four best men hugged Shen Hui into the boudoir.
The room was a little messy, but the decoration was very festive, several female elders and four bridesmaids in wedding dresses surrounded Liu Na, and they were making various explanations, and after seeing Shen Tao and the groomsmen come in, the atmosphere immediately exploded.
"Get out of here!"
The four bridesmaids were particularly fierce, pushing and shoving people out, and shouted: "Bring the red envelope." ”
There is a tacit understanding, Zhang Yinhua ran over, and one person sent a red envelope.
The bridesmaids pinched, and the thickness was different, although they were quite satisfied, but they were entangled in their hearts.
This red envelope was taken too smoothly, and just putting people in it was too smooth, lacking a sense of ceremony.
This is the first hurdle, which is really unwilling.
"Hurry up, open the door. ”
As soon as the groomsmen shouted, they directly exerted force, and the door was pushed open, and Shen Tao rushed in.
The bridesmaids quit and shouted: "It's not so easy to take your daughter-in-law away, Shen Tao came over, the first level is considered to have passed you, and now the second level, you said that what are the advantages of the bride first, at least ten." ”
It is not difficult to say that the advantages are not difficult, and Shen Tao will come as soon as he opens his mouth.
Pretty.
Gentle.
Virtuous.
Generous.
Sensible.
Courteous.
There is connotation.
By the seventh time it was jammed.
The groomsmen immediately gave the knife to the mending: "Good figure, good temper......"
"No, no, no!"
The bridesmaids didn't do it: "It's the same as before, it's not okay to repeat." ”
The bridesmaids are not good people, and they all started to work: "Why not, as long as the words are different, it is not repetitive." ”
The bridesmaids are also not easy to mess with: "The same meaning is repetitive." ”
"Beauty, I said that you have ten advantages, can you marry me?"
The best man aimed at the bridesmaid and started firing, it was Shen Tao's classmate.
"The beauty of thought!"
The bridesmaid said with a mouthful of Trisso: "If you want me to marry, you have at least thirty advantages." ”
A groomsman rushed up, grabbed a bridesmaid and pulled him out: "Beauty, let's go outside to communicate." ”
"No rough movement!"
The bridesmaids quit and immediately pushed.
Shen Qian rushed over, grabbed one and rushed outside, and laughed: "I will also rob a daughter-in-law." ”
"Don't you have a face!"
The bridesmaids were completely stunned, how shameless this was, and complained one after another.
Shen Qian still didn't rush out, there were still people outside.
After a commotion, the bridesmaids took a step and let him pass the pass after Shen Tao said the last advantage.
But the third level made him dumbfounded.
When one of the bridesmaids said, "Let's talk about the bride's shortcomings, it's still ten." ”
Shen Tao almost cried on the spot, and the groomsmen were dumbfounded.
"Whose idea was this?"
One of the best men couldn't help but ask, they were all about to die in the brains of this group of women.
A bridesmaid said proudly: "There is nothing on the Internet now, Baidu has a lot of it." ”
The groomsmen were completely speechless, and said that they had to study hard when they got back, so as not to be cheated when they got married.
Shen Tao smiled: "My daughter-in-law is full of advantages, where are the shortcomings, there must be no shortcomings!"
Liu Na, who was sitting on the bed, smiled happily, but the bridesmaids were not satisfied.
"Come less!"
The bridesmaid who was hugged by Shen Qian said bitterly: "The ancestors have said that no one is perfect, how can there be perfect, say it quickly, at least ten shortcomings, you can't do any missing one, if you can't say it, you will be punished for doing thirty push-ups." ”
"I do push-ups!"
Shen Tao simply climbed down, do you still need to think about it?
Even if there are really shortcomings, you can't say it, otherwise you won't think about the cave house tonight.
Doing push-ups in a suit is a rare experience, especially when it is still very hot in the house, after a few strokes, Shen Tao feels a little sweaty, and when he finishes thirty push-ups, he feels that his legs and feet are a little disobedient.
The bridesmaids didn't embarrass him this time, and one of the bridesmaids smiled and said: "Okay, I'll let you go this time, but remember it, you can't forget it when you go out, the daughter-in-law has no shortcomings, even if there are shortcomings, you have to tolerate it for a lifetime, understand?"
Shen Tao suddenly understood, and nodded to show that he understood.
The groomsmen also thought it was interesting, so they didn't make any more noise.
A few of the maiden relatives in the house were also laughing, thinking that these young people were quite interesting.
When Qinghe got married, there was no such thing as embarrassing the best man, it was all done by young people, and the four bridesmaids obviously put a lot of thought into it and designed a lot of small games, which added a lot of fun to the greeting process.
In particular, it is quite interesting to let the groom official say that the bride's ten shortcomings are very interesting, and there is a special meaning in it.
Being spoken out in this situation is even more thought-provoking and makes marriage more sacred.
After tossing for an hour, a female guest from her mother's house pushed the door and came in.
first stuffed a red envelope for Shen Hui, and then sent a red envelope to each of the four groomsmen, and finally commanded Shen Hui to go to bed, take off his shoes, and there were a few cold tickets inside, and a few were stuffed on the belt, and I don't know what it means.
Subsequently, Liu Na's aunt came in with a small bowl and asked Shen Tao to eat the dumplings first.
Shen Hui had already been instructed, and he came over to listen to the instructions of the adults, and let him do whatever he wanted, so he took a bowl and ate it.
As a result, I almost didn't vomit when I took a bite, it was spicy and salty, and there was a mixture of sour and bitter taste.
"What the hell!"
Shen Tao covered his mouth to prevent him from spitting out, and asked inarticulately.
"It's a five-flavor dumpling!"
Aunt Liu Na explained: "Marriage is not a trivial matter, you are the head of the family when you get married, and you have to taste the bitterness and hardship of life with your daughter-in-law. ”
The room fell silent in an instant, and no one was noisy.
Even the groomsmen and bridesmaids felt the sacredness and meaning of marriage.
Shen Tao felt a huge responsibility and pressure in an instant, and the boss asked him before what he had experienced about marriage, but he couldn't tell, at this time, Shen Tao realized the meaning of marriage for the first time.
Of the four five-flavor dumplings, Shen Tao ate two and Liu Na ate two.
In the same way, Aunt Liu Na also told Liu Na again.
It's very sacred, and it's also very ritualistic.
This is Chinese marriage, the most precious culture left by the ancestors to future generations, more memorable than some messy bullshit ceremony in the cathedral, even after a few years, Shen Tao feels that he will not forget this moment.
After eating the five-flavor dumplings, Aunt Liu Na began to educate her niece in front of Shen Tao again: "A wife has six virtues: one is supple, the second is clean, the third is not jealous, the fourth is thrifty, the fifth is respectful, and the sixth is hardworking.
"Got it!"
Liu Na cried, wiped the corners of her eyes with her sleeve, and twitched and answered.
I don't know why, I just want to cry.
I didn't have any concept of marriage before, but until now, I realized that marriage is not a joke, let alone watching wonderful, but to take on the responsibility of being a wife.
The groomsmen and groomsmen had serious faces, lest they spoil the atmosphere.
After the whole process was over, it was almost eight o'clock.
Someone came in and said, "It's over, it's time." ”
"It's over. ”
Aunt Liu nodded and got up and went out.
Soon, the woman came in to pack her things, packed the boxes that should be packed, hugged the ones who should be held, and held the ones who should be held, a young man in his twenties came in and said to Shen Tao with a smile: "I will carry my sister into the car today, and I will hand it over to you later." ”
Shen Hui hurriedly called Brother Sheng, the other party was Liu Na's cousin.
Qinghe got married, the bride out of the boudoir is not hugged by the groom, but the bride's brother is carried to the car, and when he gets off at home, the groom hugs him again, and the brother who has a brother lets the brother hug, and the cousin and cousin who don't have a brother can do anything.
Liu Na was carried out by her cousin, and the others followed behind with their things.
Relatives are also walking out, their faces full of joy.
Liu's mother wiped her tears and tried her best to suppress her sadness, but at the moment when her daughter was carried out of the door, she couldn't hold back anymore, she cried out, and several relatives hurriedly went up to cover their mouths.
How can you cry on the day of your daughter's big day.
"Mom, Mom, Mommy......"
Liu Na was also trying her best to endure it, but she couldn't help it at this time, so she cried directly and grabbed the railing.
"Don't be stupid, be honest!"
My cousin shouted and ran downstairs as fast as he could.
It's normal for people to shout that it's okay on a happy day, but it will be troublesome to delay the festival of welcoming relatives, and it will leave people with the shadow of unsatisfactory marriage, which is not a good thing for the sister's future family, but it can't be played.
Relatives were also following suit, and soon went downstairs.
Liu Chengwu was at the gate and watched everyone go downstairs before he sighed silently and wiped the corners of his eyes with his sleeve.
The cabbage that I worked so hard to raise was taken away by the pigs, why is it so uncomfortable!
Liu's mother cried and answered, and she was out of breath, which was even more annoying.
It was supposed to be a happy day, but I couldn't be happy in my heart.
Liu Chengwu's heart is empty, the daughter he has raised for more than 20 years has finally been given to someone else, that kind of feeling, it is difficult to understand if it is not a father's commitment, and I don't know if the girl can live a good life in the future.
According to Qinghe marriage customs, daughters do not give their parents when they marry.
Liu Chengwu was exhausted, and he really felt a little uncomfortable.
It always felt like there was something missing from the house and that it would never come back.
Ran to the window to look down, a small car was parked on the road downstairs, the relatives who sent off relatives were getting into the car one by one, and some were loading the wedding outfit to the wedding Audi, and the head car didn't see where it stopped, and I couldn't see the girl.
I feel even more upset.
After watching it for a while, Liu Chengwu was about to go back to the living room, and Liu's mother also came over.