Chapter 959: You Communicate Yourself
Xiao Ran listened to Jiajia's words, and was also a little helpless, and said lightly: "Yes, my mother can't help us, it's really annoying to talk about this now... Okay, don't be angry, don't take his words seriously, now that I'm ordering this, there are no more dishes at home, I'll go out and buy some!"
Jiajia did find that there was nothing to eat at home, so she smiled bitterly and said lightly: "There is really nothing at home, you can go! As for your mother's problem, you can communicate by yourself!"
Xiao Ran was very embarrassed after hearing this, and said with a wry smile: "Of course we have to communicate, I will call my mother later and tell him our plans, how can we force us to have children like this, and we won't see what our situation is!"
Xiao Ran called his mother when he went out, Xiao Ran's mother was very happy to receive a call from her son, and said with a smile: "Son, I miss my mother!"
Xiao Ran was very helpless and said angrily: "Mmmmmm
Xiao Ran's mother was also full of helplessness after hearing this, and smiled indifferently and said: "What's going on on my mother's side, you don't know! Why don't I miss my grandson, I think about it every day, but I'm in the field now, what should I do if I can't get by?"
Xiao Ran was very unhappy when he heard this, and said: "Mom, why don't you think we call back and text messages?" Now there is WeChat in the era of science and technology, you don't know how to send a video to see your grandson, I don't know what you think, fortunately, Jiajia doesn't care, and I haven't said it!"
Xiao Ran's mother was very unhappy when she heard this, and she said, "What do you mean by this? Is it easy for me to be your mother? I don't go to see my grandson!
Xiao Ran said lightly: "Mom, Jiajia didn't mention you or said anything, but you suddenly sent him a message today urging us to have a second child? What is the situation? You didn't come to help us take care of the child, and now you actually want us to have a second child, do you think it's possible?"
When Xiao Ran's mother heard this, her face became very ugly, and she said with displeasure: "Why can't you? You see that there are many more pregnant women with big treasures now! Why is it so difficult for me to let you have a child?"
Xiao Ran's face became embarrassed after hearing this, and he said with dissatisfaction: "Mom, what you said is easy? Do you think it's easy to have a child? But have you ever considered how much pressure your son and I have? You have been refusing to help me financially now? I didn't say anything about my wife and children to raise by myself, we are just relieved, if you really want a child, Jiajia is definitely not good at home alone, then you need to hire a nanny, you will pay for this cost?" What's more, Jiajia's body is not allowed to have children at all now! You are now in a hurry to urge us to have children, have you ever thought that Jiajia is healthy?"
Xiao Ran's mother was very disappreciative and smiled and said: "Did I say that I don't care about you? Besides, your economic conditions are allowed, I know that your company makes money, so I don't ask about the economy!"
Xiao Ran said angrily with a face full of unhappiness: "The conditions are okay, but the energy can't come!" I, I think you said all this to make excuses for yourself, how do I think you give me the feeling that my son is sent by the phone bill, you don't want to ask my son at all, and you don't ask during the New Year's holidays!"
Xiao Ran's mother has always been in business, and she is also used to being strong, and she is also very angry with her son's reaction, and said lightly: "Who told you? Did your wife say that? I said that this woman will stir up trouble when I come back many times, and I am not good to him? Give birth to a child and pay for a confinement center, but now it is good to provoke our mother-son relationship like this! You tell him that if you are willing to have a child, I can give you living expenses, and as for how you spend it, you can do whatever you want!"
After hearing this, Xiao Ran's face became very embarrassed, and he said lightly: "Living expenses? What living expenses? Can the living expenses you give compare with Jiajia's sin?"
When Xiao Ran's mother heard this, she felt that her son had changed, she was thinking about her wife at all, and she didn't consider her mother's feelings at all, and her face was very ugly and she said angrily: "Xiao Ran, you don't listen to what I say at all! In your heart, only your wife and children are important, my mother is just a foil, do you recognize me as a mother when you have money? If you don't have money, you don't recognize me? Now your wings are really hard." “
Xiao Ran was also very sad when he heard this, his mother has been like this all her life, others must do things according to his will, if not, this is the case, but the child's affairs really can't be compromised, and he said angrily: "Yes, I'm having hard wings now, Mom, if you can come over and help us take care of the child, we will want the second child, if you can't help us, don't force me, after all, Jiajia's current body doesn't allow it, I don't want Jiajia to collapse her body in order to have a child in the future, and it was your son who suffered at that time!"
Xiao Ran's mother ignored her son's words and said: "I think Jiajia, he is now relying on giving birth to a son to our Xiao family, so he doesn't take us seriously? I tell you, don't think that he gave birth to a son and think that he is a great hero, what I want is my son, that is, Xiao Ran, you have both children and daughters, do you hear?
When Xiao Ran heard this, he smiled and said: "Mom, are you particularly powerless to make trouble with this request? If we were daughters, would you start saying that you can't do without a boy, and you must give birth to a grandchild? Mom, I don't think you should make this kind of excuse! Don't you just want us to have a second child? I just said that you should take care of the children and Jiajia or pay for a nanny to take care of them, otherwise you don't want us to have a second child!"
Xiao Ran's mother listened to her son's words, and felt more and more that something was wrong, and she wondered and said: "Hey, why do I find out how you have changed a lot during this time, didn't you listen to your mother the most before? What happened? Did that woman pour you some ecstasy soup again, and think about everything for her, you don't want to think about your mother and my feelings?"
Xiao Ran smiled faintly and said: "No one poured me ecstasy soup, I now know how difficult it is for two people to live together, can you get less involved in the affairs of the two of us in the future?
Xiao Ran's mother watched her son fight against her everywhere, and said very angrily: "Okay, I can't control you now, can I?" As for the unblocking, I will go to you as soon as possible, if it is that woman who is sowing discord in the middle, I must not let her go, I will teach him a good lesson, let him know what respecting the elder is!"
Xiao Ran said lightly with embarrassment on his face: "Mom, I solemnly tell you now, this matter has nothing to do with Jiajia, it is during this time that I and Jiajia have taken care of the children together, and they live together inseparably every day, and I have found that it is really hard for women to take care of children at home! You don't know what kind of problems children will have, you can't relax for a moment, relax a little, the child is either falling or knocking, I finally understand that Jiajia is not easy now! If you want another one, Dabao is naughty and mischievous, and the small one needs to be taken care of... Where did we get so much energy, I think you really want the lives of the two of us?"
After all, Xiao Ran's mother has a strong personality in business, and it is difficult to change, even if she knows that what Xiao Ran said is right, she still said confidently: "Okay, this matter will be discussed after I go back, for the time being, I don't want to pay attention to you during this time, think about how to deal with me carefully..."
Xiao Ran is also accustomed to her mother's strength, knowing that there is no result if she continues to chat, and she didn't expect that it would be so difficult to do things, and everything can be pulled to Jiajia, and everything is thought to be Jiajia's wrong! Xiao Ran just doesn't understand that Jiajia is unwilling to have a second child, so it's wrong? What is wrong with Jiajia? Jiajia is thinking very correctly, now having a child is simply not the energy to come, if you really want a child, you have to wait until Dabao goes to kindergarten!
The more Xiao Ran thought about it, the more he had a headache, and he said helplessly: "Let's go grocery shopping first, and make Jiajia happy! When my mother comes, I'll have a good talk with him..."
When I got home after buying groceries, I looked happier when I saw Jiajia with the child, so I cautiously said to me: "Honey, I have to tell you something, my mother disagrees, saying that we have to have another one, and I also told him that now is not the time, if he wants it again, he must wait until Dabao goes to kindergarten, and he must also contribute money, right?"
Jiajia heard Xiao Ran's intentions, her pretty and lovely face showed a relieved smile and said lightly: "Xiao Ran, you are very conscious now, as for Mom, who can say clearly? But are you idle and have nothing to do now?"
Xiao Ran was embarrassed by Jiajia's training and smiled and said, "Didn't I just buy the vegetables? I'll cook right away, what do you want to eat?" I'll do it..."
Jiajia really didn't dare to compliment Xiao Ran's food, and said helplessly: "Forget it, I don't know what to eat, you can do whatever you can!
Xiao Ran's face was very ugly when he heard this: "Jiajia, I know how hard it is to take care of children, so I just quarreled with my mother because of this matter, if he doesn't contribute money or effort, we can't ask for it anyway! How can he want grandchildren without doing anything, why do I have to let you suffer this crime?"
Jiajia looked at Xiao Ran with tears in her eyes and quickly said with tears in her eyes, "I think if this matter had been changed before, you would never have said such things to your mother, but now you actually said it, it seems that you have learned to be considerate of me when we take the child alone during this period of time..."