Chapter 178: Chen Ping's Theory
After a long period of contact, their perception of these three boys is not bad.
But the most surprising thing is that the three girls in Gao Leyao's dormitory and the three boys in Chen Ping's dormitory have the most frequent contact, and it is Li Tianhai and Liu Xiaoman.
Regarding this matter, Xiao Jingxuan and Zhou Haomiao were also puzzled.
Each of the three of them picked a target of their own, and there wasn't much conflict.
Liu Xiaoman and the three girls, although they are not as good as Gao Leyao and Lin Yuwei in appearance, they can definitely be regarded as beauties.
If they can really catch up with their respective goals, Xiao Jingxuan and the three of them can be considered to be able to balance a little bit.
But what Xiao Jingxuan and Zhou Haomiao couldn't figure out anyway was that Li Tianhai was a little fat man. It seems to be the quickest to start.
Recently, the connection between Li Tianhai and Liu Xiaoman has become closer and closer, and they have to send each other text messages for half a day almost every night, and even occasionally make a phone call.
On the contrary, Xiao Jingxuan and Zhou Haomiao, and the other two girls, are not so closely connected.
Regarding this phenomenon, Chen Ping's heart was also extremely speechless. He couldn't figure out why this was happening.
Chen Ping's emotional intelligence can only be regarded as normal, and he is not the type of person with high emotional intelligence at all. It is precisely because of this that Chen Ping almost never fell in love in his previous life.
It was also after being reborn that he had Lin Yuwei's girlfriend. Chen Ping doesn't know much about the things between men and women.
So I can't figure out why the progress of the relationship between Li Tianhai and Liu Xiaoman is faster than that of Xiao Jingxuan and the two of them.
After all, Li Tianhai's own conditions are still slightly worse than those of Xiao Jingxuan and the two of them.
Especially in terms of appearance, although Li Tianhai is not ugly, his figure is a little bloated after all. Compared with Xiao Jingxuan and Zhou Haomiao, it is still a little worse.
But he was able to make the relationship between him and Liu Xiaoman so hot as quickly as possible, which is really a little incomprehensible.
Even looking at this trend, it won't take long for Liu Xiaoman to become Li Tianhai's girlfriend.
Regarding the fact that his roommate is about to find a girlfriend, Chen Ping is naturally happy to see it.
Occasionally, when he returned to the dormitory, Xiao Jingxuan and Zhou Haomiao talked about it to Chen Ping. Although they looked indignant, Chen Ping could also see that these two people were also sincerely wishing Li Tianhai.
However, after returning to the dormitory that day, Chen Ping found that Li Tianhai, a little fat man who had no heart and lungs every day, was sitting on his bed with a sad face, not knowing what he was thinking.
Zhou Haomiao and Xiao Jingxuan were not in the dormitory, and Chen Ping could only come to Li Tianhai and sit down, and then asked softly: "Tianhai, is something wrong?" Tell me and see if I can help you solve it?"
Li Tianhai glanced up at Chen Ping, then sighed softly, smiled helplessly, and said softly: "It's nothing, it's just that I'm worried about how to confess to Xiaoman......"
Hearing this, Chen Ping's eyes lit up slightly, and then he asked softly in surprise: "The relationship between the two of you has progressed so fast?
Li Tianhai nodded lightly, and then after hesitating for a moment, a somewhat smug look appeared on his face, and he said with a soft smile: "That's natural, don't look at me as inferior to the three of you, but when it comes to chasing girls, at least Xiao Jingxuan and the two of them have absolutely no way to compare with me!"
Chen Ping also raised his eyebrows slightly, glanced at this smug little fat man with a smile, and then asked casually: "Then you tell me, what means do you have to chase girls?"
Li Tianhai immediately rolled his eyes, glanced at Chen Ping angrily, and said softly helplessly: "Do you still need to learn from me? You already have a sister-in-law, can it be that you still want to step on two boats? Chen Ping, I can tell you, if you really do this, I will have to doubt your character! Although we are in the same dormitory, if you are not good in character, no matter what your identity is, our friends will not have to do anything!"
Chen Ping also immediately smiled bitterly, then slapped Li Tianhai violently, and said softly angrily: "What are you talking about? I just want to help you with your staff officers, if you don't need it, I don't care." ”
As he spoke, Chen Ping was about to stand up.
When Li Tianhai heard this, he immediately hurriedly grabbed Chen Ping's arm, and then said softly with a wry smile: "Aren't I just joking? Don't worry!"
Chen Ping sat down a little funny, and then said softly: "Okay, if there is any problem, you can tell me, although I am not very good at chasing girls, but at least I can help you with a counselor and see what you are not prepared for." ”
Li Tianhai nodded immediately, in Li Tianhai's opinion, Chen Ping can catch up with Lin Yuwei, and the means of picking up girls are naturally undoubted, if Chen Ping helps the staff, the probability that he can catch up with Liu Xiaoman will also be greatly improved.
This is also the reason why Li Tianhai and Xiao Jingxuan stayed together for a long time, but did not discuss this matter with them.
After all, in Li Tianhai's opinion, although Xiao Jingxuan and Zhou Haomiao are more handsome than themselves, their emotional intelligence is really insufficient.
Especially in terms of chasing girls, I'm afraid I'm not as good as myself, and it's useless to discuss with them.
On the contrary, it is Chen Ping, who has a girlfriend as beautiful as Lin Yuwei, at least in terms of chasing girls, Chen Ping should still have a hand.
Li Tianhai also directly expressed his concerns: "Xiaoman and I have a good relationship recently, and we have to contact each other almost every day, but I really can't figure out whether she likes me or not, after all, the two of us are all from all over the world when we chat, and we have never talked about emotional problems, so now I am really a little uncertain." ”
"If I confess to Liu Xiaoman, will she be able to accept me? If not, then won't I have no chance at all? I don't even have to be a friend!"
Chen Ping suddenly rolled his eyes, and said without hesitation: "Why do you think so much about the future? Although I don't know much about the relationship between you and Liu Xiaoman, I can probably see some of it. ”
"I can give you an analysis of the current state of your relationship between the two of you, and you can think about it yourself carefully. ”
"The relationship between the two of you is not bad now, at least you can be regarded as good friends, even if the two of you didn't talk about emotional problems when chatting during this time, but at least she has a certain understanding of you, and after she understands you, she has not alienated you because of this, which means that she still recognizes you as a person, which is already a prerequisite for developing a relationship. ”
"And the relationship between the two of you, since it has come to this point, if you don't confess, you can only be friends forever, and it is impossible to take another step forward, is it possible that you still expect Liu Xiaoman to take the initiative to confess to you?"
Li Tianhai shook his head with a wry smile, he naturally didn't have this kind of expectation, let a girl take the initiative to confess to him, this probability is too low and too low.
Then Chen Ping continued to speak softly: "And after you confess to her, there are only two possibilities, if the confession is successful, Liu Xiaoman will naturally be your girlfriend, of course, there is no need to say much." ”
"But if the confession fails, it doesn't mean that you don't have a chance, after all, the two of you are not just friends, but also classmates, and you don't see you when you look down, even if she rejects you, it is inevitable that you will have some other contacts. ”
"Even after she rejects you, you can continue to work hard, maybe the contact time will be longer, and she will have a better impression of you, and when she confesses next time, maybe you will be successful. ”
"Even if it distances the two of you a little bit because of this, it's not necessarily a bad thing. ”
"It's been less than three months since school started, and you and Liu Xiaoman haven't known each other for a long time, and now the feelings invested in her are not too deep, although I like her, but it's far from unforgettable love, so even if you withdraw now, it's not too much harm to you. ”
"Even if she rejects you, and the relationship between the two of you is completely estranged, you only need a short time to adjust your state and not get too hurt because of it. ”
"But if you continue to hesitate, the longer the time, the deeper your feelings for Liu Xiaoman, and if she rejects it at that time, it will be too big a blow to you!"
Hearing Chen Ping say this, Li Tianhai also fell into deep thought.
I have to say that what Chen Ping said still has some truth and is also very realistic.
Although it may sound a little unpleasant, it seems that in terms of feelings, you have to worry about your own investment, but in fact, this is the most rational approach.
As Chen Ping said, if the contact time is too long, and there are too many feelings invested, once you are rejected by the other party, you are likely to be greatly hurt.
It's better to make sure you like each other after a period of contact, and immediately start confessing.
In this way, it can also give both parties a chance to really contact as lovers, and confirm whether both parties can really go to the end before both parties have invested too much affection, which is also the wisest thing to do, and will not cause too much harm to both parties.
Although Chen Ping had never been in love in his previous life, his life experience was much more abundant than ordinary people, and although Chen Ping had not personally experienced emotional matters in his previous life, he had seen too many examples.
In Chen Ping's view, this approach is the most correct.
Of course, this is just Chen Ping's opinion, and it does not mean that such a view is necessarily correct.
Chen Ping in his previous life had seen many such examples.
Some lovers start to fall in love when they know each other for a month or two, and contact each other as real lovers, so that they will have a deeper understanding of each other and be more able to know whether the other party is the most suitable person for them.
And because they haven't known each other for too long, even if they start to fall in love, the two will not pay a substantial price.